I met a man on facebk 3yrs ago.I would write to him & he would write back but was always very brief.After a year I asked him if he wanted to meet me,he replied that he never meets people from online.After 3 yrs I deleted him since It seemed to be going nowhere,3 mnths later I asked him to be friends again since i missd him and he acepted.In one of our mails he left his phone# I was surprised but stupidly I calld & lft a mssg with my # when he didnt answer.About an hour later he deleted & blckd me from fcbook. I new he wasnt interested but thought we where friends? What did I do wrong? how could he be so mean?
awesomeal16 answered Thursday June 23 2011, 8:20 pm: Perhaps he got involved with a woman and fell in love with her. Maybe he had a mutual friendship desire, but wheh you asked him to meet youi it may have crossed the line and caused him to get frustrated and delete/block you. [ awesomeal16's advice column | Ask awesomeal16 A Question ]
Xui answered Thursday June 23 2011, 5:46 pm: Do you know this person not online but actually seen this person before?.....
Anybody can say anything over the internet, Do you even know if this man has a wife/girlfriend? From the sound of what you've written you may not of been the only girl he was talking too.
Lets face it, Many people generally don't like meeting random people off the internet, It isn't safe and frankly I don't recommend doing it again.
It sounds like the guy just simply doesn't want to be friends and isn't be upfront about it. If he blocked you and deleted you then just leave it alone and move on. That is probably his nice way of trying to tell you he isn't interested. If you want to meet someone then try talking to someone you've seen in person, Trying to meet random people off of facebook isn't really the smartest idea.
EDIT: Alright,
Maybe it could of been you scared him off?..Or he could of been talking to someone you didn't know about. The user below me has a point, Asking him to meet you in person could of caused him to get the weirded out. Although it has been 3 years have you ever asked him for his number? or asked him to meet you in person before? Nobody can really tell you for sure why he blocked you and no we are not saying you did deserve it but sometimes people just do things for reasons unknown. However, I'll be truthful it sounds like he met someone else. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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