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How do i finger my girlfriend and have her like it?
My girlfriend whenever were alone and were getting into it like making out and stuff she grabs my hands and puts it almost down her pants...i end up kind of trying to change the subject and just emsphsizing on making out so she forgets about it because its both of our first times and i dont know how to finger a girl or even where to start. i dont want it to hurt her either so i ruin my chances in the future. what should i do that will actually make her like it? i heard u rub her clit at first in circles but i just need answers.
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well there's no "right" way to do it... you just take a finger and stick it up the vagina. Its not difficult. If you can pick your nose, you can finger her haha. its pretty much the same thing, except vaginas are warmer and wetter. you just take a finger and slide it in and out. It feels good if you start slow and then get faster. Oh and a tip for you- cut your fingernails and make sure your hands are clean before.
Make sure she's relaxed too. If she's tense and nervous, that mean's she's not ready for this. It will feel better when she's ready and relaxed and WANTS to do it. don't force her to do anything.
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Try to make sure her pants are not to tight. Take your middle finger and index finger and with a little pressure but lightly rub circles over her clit. Don't spend to much time there as it will cause her to become sore. After a minute or so, you can slowly slip your middle finger inside. If go back and forth from the vagina to the clit and she should enjoy it much more. I hope this helps and good luck.
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