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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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Hey, well all girls know you should only have your period like every 28 days or something, well ive had my period since i was 11 and now im 14, well its usually pretty on schedule other than maybe a few days, and i have a long period sometimes but no big problems, well inthe past 6 weeks, and now 7 i have had my period 3 times. the first time it was just a little and last about 4 days. then the second time was 2 weeks after and i got the worst cramps like ever, and i usually dont get cramps and it lasted about 5 days and was a regular flow. well then 3 weeks later i have started again and im on still and its lasted about 8 days now, and the first 6 were ALL HEAVY like really really bad, and then i thought it was over and then when i woke up... nope and so now its back and its just a little but what should i do? should i go to the doctor? or what? thanx bunches! (link)
Its normal. your periods are starting to get normal. Im sure its nothin to worry about. but if ur realli concerned then u should c a doctor! good luck!


hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks (link)
www.xanga.com


the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
he jus wants ass!. He'll jus use you.And then probably nver talk to you again. so i wouldnt do it


i feel like i'm going into depression.. my life seems like its getting worse everyday! i lost my b/f recently n nothing seems right! i will NEVER cut tho! but i dont no.. what should i do? (link)
Every teenager goes through it. I think its sum kind of phase or sumthin and its jus bcuz u lost your bf. Start goin out n havin fun hangin out wit ur friends doin stuff u like to do. Hopefully that'll cheer u up!.


can i have a lover before my university level or in my university level (link)
yeah! you can have a lover wenever u want!


ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do? (link)
MAYBE his sister doesnt want you to be with him.But im really not sure. Why dont u take charge n ask him out. Guys love it wen girls ask them out.


Hey every1! im new to this site! well..I'm 14 and I live in Utah. I have this white discharge that my mom said it will go away once I get my period but I have had my period for at least a year. Is this discharge normal?

Help! (link)
Totally normal.Itll go away when your older


I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know?? (link)
Start a Convo wit her...after talking with her for a few minutes on one subject change the subject and say something like So who are you liking these days?Hope i oculd help!=]


Okay, I'm like 13 and guys around 15 nd 16 are interested in me. But like I dont think I want to go out with em' becuase most guys that age just want some ass. Yet at the same time I like older guys because some of em' can be mature unlike guys my age. And what I'm looking for is a sweet guy. Do you all know how or where I could find guys like that? (link)
I totally understand wut ur sayin. Im goin thru tha same thing n im 13.Older guys r better bcuz they more mature and they can also b sweet. So look for guys around 14 or 15.If u wanna talk more you can IM me blondii14697 or leave one n my inbox! =]
x0`amanda


I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15* (link)
go for it! the onli way to find out is to do it!


ok its me!me and my boyfriend are really really strong we both love eachother very much! except theres a couple other guyz that i think are major hot there are 3 other ones... brent, karl, and jake.. they are totally hot!! and i had a dream about jake.. me and karl are like totally real good friends and brent and me are good friends 2 .. and they all think im hot 2!! but i dont kno what to do cuz ive broken up with brooks once and we just got back together the next day cuz i was dying without him!i really like jake and karl the most but idk what to do!! HELP ME PLEZE (link)
I think you should stay w/ ur bf. It sounds like u realli love him cuz u cant live w/o him. Um well for tha other 3 guys i dunno.But realli its jus my opinion. Hope i could help!=] if u wanna talk more u can IM at blondii14697 or leave one n my inbox
x0`amanda


Ok, i am between the ages of 10-15. I know i should be concerned but i am. i really want bigger boobs and i dont know y. can anyone tell me y i want bigger boobs right now.

~really ashamed~ (link)
mayb cuz alotta ppl have big boobs...believe me u dont want big ones at a young age bcuz then thas all da guys r gonna look at u for. Im 13 and i wear a C


what does (link)
Its a heart so it means love


My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff. (link)
Have a mother-daughter day out. Go out for Lunch n ice cream. Go shopping things you both like to do!


Hey I am turning 13 and i have already had my period...what does it mean when there is clear gel stuff on ur underwear? Can you explain it to me? (link)
Its normal. Its called discharge it will go away wen ur older. Nothing to worry about every girl gos thru it.Discharge is sumthin u get b4 and after or jus b4 or after ur period. Hope i could help!
xo`amanda


Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!! (link)
Try wearing padded bras, ma friend has tha same problem and wen she wears padded bras she looks like she has big boobs.Also you could wear tight fitting shirts.


okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
(link)
Um...It doesnt realli sound like u like them.My friend went thru that "phase" and shes not BI


okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him? (link)
Hmm..Jealousy...so yeah i think u like him.


This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!! (link)
Ok. Sounds like the two ppl are jus tryna get u guys to break up so ur bestfriends sister can have him. Just to be on the safe said ask ur bf say sumthin like " Ive been told that u cheated on me wit my best friends sister, is it true??" Hope i could help!:-D


OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH! (link)
If u like him go for it!.i dont think shed care n if she does tell her to get over it bcuz she did tha same to u!. hope i could help!
xo`amanda




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