Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
Answers: 446
Last Update: July 6, 2006
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I have a big nasty zit on my nose. I want it gone, NOW! What do I do? I'm so mad... it's really noticable, and I'm 26 years old! I shouldn't be getting pimples! (link)
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You can't hide a big pimple I don't care what people say you just cant't do it. And if you put any form of make up on it, it will force them to cluster and create more pimples. And actually studies have shown more people are getting pimps/acne in teen through 30 years of age.
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OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis? (link)
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NO, if you were telekenitic you would have shown signs when you were young. You probably didn't see what you did or an action you made.
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I'm working on a song. So far I have only the basic outline of the lyrics which need serious help. Here they are:
If I had to die right now
I'd die in your arms.
If I was crying right now,
you'd be near.
You mean so much to me,
I love you more than anything
right now.
You are my all in all,
I want you here beside me.
Your smile can dry my tears
Take away my deepest fears.
I love you more than anything right now.
I know I haven't known you long,
I hardly know a thing about you.
I know if I had to die right now,
I'd die in your arms.
I love you more than anything
right at this moment now.
Now I don't have a lot to give you,
I hope you'll understand.
And you don't have to give me jewels
I love you more without them.
I love you more than anything
dying in your arms.
It's called In Your Arms. (link)
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Hey, the line where it says "you are my all in all" just say
you are my all,
my only one
Hey its good a little work and it could be great this is going to be sang as a ballet right?>
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I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
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Well first you have to offically hear it from him that he doesn't like you or else he might and you may never know. And if he likes your friend your going to have to get used to that fact that he likes your friend. This will happen a lot in life trust me but the best thing to do is just be happy for your friend, because there is no reason you should be interested in a person thats not interested in you, you will waist a lot of time.
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
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Thats easy, which one do you feel more connected to on a personal level, who can you be yourself around feel less pressure for anything. Most people think its an easy answer but its not due to the fact that they get blinded by looks rather than the feeling they get..
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MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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Im sorry to say this, there is nothing that you can do because it has nothing to do with you. The only thing you can do is keep in touch with her as much as possible because thats the only way your going to keep your friendship alive.
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OK, this is really hard to explain but when I was in 2nd grade, (6 years ago) My dad got into a car accident that wasn't his fault. Because of that, his back has never been the same, he wasn't able to do as much fun stuff with me and my siblings. When I was in 5th grade, (4 years ago) Dad's lawyer tryed to sue the guy in the truck that slammed into him. The guy in the trucks lawyers did some things that I don't like. They followed us around to try to find out if Dad was really hurt or not and they sent guys to watch our house with video cameras. Since I live out really deep in the woods, I would get dressed in my bedroom with the windows not shaded. It turns out they were watching me the whole time. It's been 3 years and I keep thinking that they messed up my life. And I feel guilty that my dad had to go through that. It was the first time I saw him cry. What should I do?
-Violated (link)
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Hell go and sue them, thats against the law in may different way, trust me if it can be proven that they were spying you can charge them with so much, Privacy invasion, harrassment, and so forth so I suggest talking to an attorney about this.
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I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?
FRom PLease HElp ME (link)
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It just means not today, so ask him out again. He didn't turn you down he just didn't tell you why he couldn't go so generally he was busy he weasn't pushing you aside. Ask him out again for a better time.
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There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
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Just tell him that you don't like him anymore than a friend if thats what you are. But you say " I don't think he likes me anymore" so is that true or do you share feelings with him? Just be honest with him, he will understand eventually
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I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
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Hey hang in there because it makes you stronger. Im not saying tell, even though in extremes its the thing to do. In High School the situation does change because people can care less, but if you do decide to do something stand up to them if you let it slide they think its ok but if you stand up to them they eventually back off because its not fun anymore..
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I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? (link)
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Its hard to ask advice in this situation because we aren't aware of the bond you two share, but just keep the relationship alive
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my parents got divorced a year ago and ever since my mom has always been trying to do stuff with me. My only free days of the week are wednesday and sunday..and now she wants to have dinner both those nights. I feel like everything I do with her is scheduled. What should I tell her to make it not feel like she had to make an effort to see me? (link)
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Its fairly easy depending on the person you are. But be honest its the best thing, tell her those are your days off and that you don't need to have dinner on those nights that sometimes you want your space and would appreciate her wanting to see you because she missed you rather than because she feels its her obligation. Just be direct with your feelings.
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What would make a question disappear? I asked two questions. I got emails showing they were both answered several times. I could see the answers for one question, but the other question is gone. Was I flamed? Was it a computer glitch? Are questions erased for various reasons? What happened? (link)
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Its probably a glitch or you might have accidentally entered it twice
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When I was going out with my ex boyfriend,*Greg me and his best friend were sort of into each other.Actually really into each other. It turned out Mike was going out with someone else so I dumped him. After that Mike made sure that me and his friend didn't hook up. I was avoiding Mike, so he made sure whenever I was talking to him that he was in the situation. It got uncomfortable for us to be together. So I haven't seen or talked to the friend,*Marc for a while. But I can't get him out of my head. I really miss him, and I can't stop thinking about him.However I know it would hurt Greg if I went out with MArc,and I don't want to hurt him since he sounds sorry for what he did. But I'm still lusting after Marc...what do I do? (link)
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Hey, has he proved he has changed? Probably not its just words. I say go out with your friend who knows what might happen. ANd a guy who cheats on you isn't worth your time you are better than that.
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I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do? (link)
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Just take things at a steady pace, talk with him get to know who he is either by asking him or his friends. And eventually make it obvious you like him or do that right away depends on how you approach relationships. Because its obvious if he doesn't know you or hasn't seen you he probably hasn't thought about you no matter how harsh that is.
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There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no? (link)
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hey you have done nothing worng, and if you like him go for it. Its not like he was cheating on her with you. SO honestly I say since the feeling in mutual for you two go out with him if he asks.
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I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
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It is a very known case for that to happen to people, because their friends forget the people they used to know. But first if she is a real friend she won't, and second talk with her about it, I know that sounds stupid but its true if you talk about it the chances of it actually happening are very slim.
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I have a lot of debt (long story) including some that are now on my credit report. I am near bankruptcy, although I am not seriously considering it at this time.
I was wondering, if I had extra money to pay off debts, which should come first?
Current credit card debts - because the average interest is about 20%
Student loans - although the interest is low (around 5%) this can never be included in bankruptcy.
Car loans - although the interest is lower than credit cards, your car can be reposessed and a car is essential if you want to be employed.
Bad debts on the credit report - they have given up trying to get me to pay. If I pay these, my credit rating will improve, but at this point there is probably not much advantage.
Save money instead of paying debets - I can see saving for an emergency, but I think there is not much point in this situation.
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Actually get rid of your credit card debt because those are hard to get rid of, but what most people like to do is simply divide the money you are going to spend on getting rid of debt and split it on to getting ride of two debts, its faster.
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What are everybodys (And I know some of you have to have been through this) results of still liking an ex after you broke up? (link)
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Its perfectly normal especially if they broke up with you. If thats the case its because you both never really agreed that it wasn't working. And besides she/he is a person you once liked there is no reason you shouldn't be physically attracted to them right now because that part never changed. SO I say its perfectly normal. But its hard because breaking up is never easy as I think you have figured out by now. Oh the easiest way to get over it is just to ignore everything/ block her/him out because if you don't your going to continute on the path you are on right now for a little while.
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Hi, Jollylollipop! I LOVE your name! Anyways, I need some help: I really want to earn money, but I am not 12 yet to babysit. What should I do? I REALLY want money!
Signed,
Money Hungry (link)
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Actually there isn't much you can do to get money at that age, unless your the type of person that doesn't mind doing yard work. Believe it or not you can make some mad cash buy cleaning peoples yard and or rooms in houses. Or comprimise with your parents on getting a bigger allowance, but if you do that remember you have to be fair with them about it.
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