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[Name] Stephanie
[Nickname] Sparkles, Pimpalicious
[Screen name] x p l i s i t 15
[Birthday] 2/15/89
[Age] 16
[Astrological sign] Aquarius
[Location] New York
[Sexual Preference] I like guys, lol
[Marital Status] Not married but ive got a man
[Religion] Athiest, haha j/k. Catholic
[Eye color] Blue or green, depends on light
[Height] 5 8
[Shoe size] 8
[Parents still together] Yep
[Siblings] None
[Pets] A dog and a rabbit
[In school/graduated] High School Sophmore
[What do you drive] I dont yet, but ive got an eclipse sittin in my garage waitin for me when i get my permit!

Stephanie In a Nutshell: Im 15, i have a boyfriend named kevin who is very hot(and a soccer player *grins*) i play basketball and run track-distance only, i suck at math, i hate school, and im a huge flirt!

If ya got questions for me drop em in my inbox!

advice

I asked one of my close guy friends to prom. he said he doesn't know if he wants to go because he said he can't dance. he also said that dances aren't for him but he said he would think about it. how can i persuade him to take me to the prom?!

Tell him you arent the greatest dancer either and offer to take some dance classes with him, even if u can dance! lol, or you can go with the old who cares just have fun.

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i play basketball and i was wandering what can i do for practice. i mean what is like a really good practice for basketball? please help.

*i rate*

This sounds weird, but play basketball with a few guys..if you have a guy friend whos on a basketball team or someone who likes to play alot for funm ask em for a game of like 2 on 2 after school. I got better by playing guys, theyr taller so it forces you to shoot better. And alot of guys on basketball teams have some great skills they'll love to show off, lol. It worked for me, i learned some new moves too. Try it out

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ok, my mom an dad have been fighting for like ever.they always swear at each other an stuff.my dad drove away a couple days ago to get away from my mom.thank god he came home.im afraid they r gonna get devorced.i need advice!!! wat shud i do???

sighned,
xxjewlsxx224

There isnt anything to do but be concerned. Its normal for people to fight everyonce and awhile, hopefully they wont get divorced. Sometimes people fight over the dumbest things! Just dont think its your fault, thats the worst thing you could do.

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Hey. I'm a cashier at a store thats like Linens and Things. Its my first job (i'm sixteen) and I've realized that its not the kind of job I want. I don't like the fact that its a big place and its busy allll the time. I enjoy interacting with my co workers. At my place, I feel like I can't do that. We're all busy helping out the customers, which is good... but I feel like I don't know the people I work with well. What are some good places to work at, where you're working...but you still have opportunities to get to know your co-workers? Preferably not a fast food restaraunt, a grocery store, or big places. I want something small and fun. I was thinking about working at a tanning salon?? Does anyone have any good ideas?

I work at a tanning salon, Tanning Bed (im in new york) its great! Its not hard work at all. If you work at a large chain that has several beds your going to need to learn how to use a computer program and learn what lotions do and such. You can talk more with people at a tanning salon because its not exactly busy all the time, you still have to help some people tho. If you want more info about what its like to work at a tanning salon, drop one in my inbox.

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

I guess it depends, if you are in a class where there is a participation grade and you arent prepared for class, yeah they can do that. If its like an english class where participation isnt part of the grade, it shouldnt really be done. Talk to your parents, tell them you forgot the packet or whatever..they'll back you up and think its stupid and call the school and complain, lol. At my school, you get graded within the first week of your class on if you have the proper materials or not. If they want a three subject notebook and you could only get a one subject, teachers throw a fit and take 2 points off your average. Yeah, teachers are cooky and think they can do whatever they want.

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Ok so im 15 and i live in Concord Pleasant Hill, walnut Creek California area does anyone know where i can get a job that hires 15 year olds?

The best thing i can suggest is going to local resturants or stores and seeing if they are hiring. Keep checking, people dont keep jobs in fast food for too long. I work at a tanning salon, i started when i was about to turn 16 though. If your close to 16 im sure someone will hire you.

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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..



no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!

wow, the first thing i would do is tell my parents because what if he got you pregnant? Tell your parents to take you to a doctor immediatly! The report this to the police, he raped you, dont let him get away with it

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I am asian, and I think my nose is quite broad and quite flat. Compared to others, it is not that bad, but I'm just not satisfied with the look of it. I want something like the nose of Lucy Liu, it has a prominent bridge and it is narrow.

The thing is, I need to ask the permission of my mom! We are not close, and I think I'm (middle child) her least fav. child out of her 5 children.
I think I have enough money in the bank to pay for my own beauty enhancement, and I'm old enough to have rhinoplasty because I'm turning 21 in July.

Pls. give me tips and strategies so that she will say yes!

Your almost 21! Why do you need moms permision? If you have the money u can do it on your own. Just make sure you find a good plastic surgeon. If you really do have to get your moms permision, research rhinoplastys. Get before and after pictures, find some stories of people who have had it done. I cant promise a yes, but its worth a try.

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Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to make home-ade brownies. Please include ingrediants. Thanks.

look it up on the internet. Try foodtv.com and search for brownies.

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Tomorrow is my dad's birthday, but I don't know what to get him. There's not really any time to go buy him something, and I wanted to make him something special anyway. What should I make him?

Make him breakfast or dinner, i usually do that for my dad and he loves it. If uou arent the greatest cook have mom or someone help. And make him a card, parents love homemade things, lol.

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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say?

Call him back, tell him your mad, demand an appology. If he doesnt appologize then give him hell and call it quits.

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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?

It depends on where u live. But i just started going to a tanning salon about 2 weeks ago, so far ive gone 3 times a week to start..and i see results already. Just becareful with tanning beds. Make sure you have a good lotion, dont stay in for too long, and make sure the place u choose is clean!

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I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!

When i lost mine i felt like i had this voice in the back of my head saying that its something i shouldnt have done yet. But i got over it after a couple of weeks, im 16 and just lost mine in December. But it wasnt what i had imagined it to be. Your first time is always akward or so ive heard. The guy couldnt exactly..uh...last too long, and it wasnt like.."magical" lol. I hope yours wasnt horrible!

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If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?

Its a sign that hes into you, might like u more than a friend. Or he just might b a person who likes to touch people. lol, just kidding hun, its a good thing.

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what are the risks of letting a guy eat you out?

The risks for you are very slim unless you have a cut or something "down there" and he has an STD. For him, if you have an STD he could probably get it.

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Hey, I don't know what to download, so can anyone just recommend some songs that just fit the kind of like "chillin" mood? Preferably hip hop/rap...

Candy Shop by 50 cent
All Night Long by Red cafe
Get Right by Jlo
Get Loose by T.I. and nelly
Baby by Fabolous
Number 1 Spot by Ludacris

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What hair products [ shampoo, conditioner, straightening balm, etc ] do you recommend that will make your hair STAY straight and shiny and smooth throughout the day ?? ♥

I use Aussie shampoo and conditioner. They have a special kind for dry hair which i really reccomend durring the winter or if u straighten your hair. I have a really good straighter that i got at Sally's Beauty Supply that i use everyday. You dont have to spend alot of cash, find one in your price range. And be really careful when u straighten your hair, take good care of it or you might fry it!

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Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300

Look in the news paper because sometimes people are trying to get rid of old things in there. If you get desperate...try ebay, lol

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what is the first thing u do when you have your period.... what do u do?

go get a pad or a tampon

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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16

Its perfectly normal! just dont do it alot every day. Dont try to stop, lol....your just gonna drive yourself nuts(haha) if you do.

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