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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something?

if he was infected with like STD or AIDS then theres a 100% possibility that you caught something, thats why you shouldve used a CONDOM,well good luck..see a doctor go get tested,alright?
[♥]DiNA

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My best (girl) friends keep bugging me to ask out this guy who is my friend also. I really like him and all but I don't want to lose my friendship with him...but if I don't ask him my friends said that they would ask him out for me. How am I supposed to tell my friends to back off without seeming harsh?

-Confuzzled

i think that you should tell your friends that your really good friends with this guy and you dont want to ruin things between you guys and if they dont listen to you just go to your guy friend and tell him what they are up too im sure that he'll understand..but if you like him then maybe you should give it a shot,good luck,
[♥]DiNA

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Does it mean you have an infection or something if for the past few days you've felt like you had to pee, but you really don't? and your stomach hurts like you haven't peed in a while.
*serious question*

theres a possiblity that you have an infection or maybe you just cant pee, but if your stomach really hurts then go see a doctor it might be a bladder infection,good luck..
[♥]DiNA

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ok well i'm 13/f and i just found like a bald spot on my head! i mean i have hair that covers it up... but there's like a quarter sized bald spot when i lift my hair up... what could be the cause of this and is there anything i can do? this is so embarassing and weird! please help- i rate

dont worry its just maybe from too much gel if you use any, or maybe when you got a haircut the person cut it a little too short,dont worryy not like anyone is going to be like eww omg look at your head and stuff, good luck
[♥]DiNA

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okay...well i have been having discharge really badly lately, since i think about 6 grade ive had it, but lately its been getting bad....sometimes it will cool off and not be so heavy...but then sometimes it gets thick and i can't stand it, is there any reason why? and does anybody know of any good meds. for it? all answers and ill rate 5's

uhmm...i think that you should see a doctor..if your discharging that much, or you can try tea..helps sometimes,good luck...
[♥]DiNA

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I am really bad at seperating boyfriends from friends. Is the only difference between having a boyfriend and having guy friends is that you can kiss and hold hands with your boyfriend? I guess I have a problem..cause I treat my boyfriend the same way as my guy friends. Does anybody have an ideas how I can let him know that I really do like him as my boyfriend? Cause I am starting to convince myself that we should just be friends. Thanks.
14/f

you should NEVER ever treat your boyfriend like your guy friend they are way MORe different and specialer than that =), some ways that you can show him that you like him as a boyfriend is just like act like he is hang out with him, talk to him about anything, and treat him like your BOYFRIEND not a GUY FRIEND, or you can say I LOVE YOU, but only if you mean it,hope it works out...
[♥]DiNA

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I have this Friend and she told me this secret about her haveing sex, and well being the good friend that I am I didnt tell any one, but the other person she told told the whole school and now the whole school thinks that its me and now they all like hate me. I dont know what to do she keeps blameing it on me and it wasnt me. What should I do tell the other person to confess, let it be, or talk the friend about it. I am so confused please help me.





sincerelly,
LostAtThought77

i think that you should go up to the friend and talk to her about it just sit down with her and be like "look it really wasnt me, dont you think by now i would confess?" and if you know who the person is that told than i think that you should tell her who it was because you shouldnt be getting blamed, now that proves that she isnt a true friend because she would believe you when you tell her that it wasnt you, i hope it works our,hope i helped,
[♥]DiNA

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13/f okay so i have this girl that i was friends with last year then we kind of stopped talking...well a few days ago i found out she made a myspace pretending to be me and said all this personal stuff about me...and admittd it was her...i havent confronted her cuz i dont wat to say....i wana know should i confront her? should i telll anyone? and if i confront her waht should i say?

okay, well first off that is so fake !! and i think that you should totally confront her i mean if she admitted it then yeah confront her, but i think you should keep it between just you two because if you go off anf tell your friends she'll tell hers and then your going to cause all this drama and it will all end in a fight...well hope everything works out,
[♥]DiNA

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Supp girl well i have a Question da girl i like her b/day is comein up and i really wanan buy her something nice that she will like but am not sure what to so0 u a girl and u might now whats nicee to buy aytt txzzz

well i dont know what to tell you because i dont like the same things as the girl you like because i dont even know her..hehe, you can buy her a ring maybe flowers lmao or some type of spray maybe even like a shirt just ask her what she likes and like get clues and try and put something together, i mean she'll like it whatever it is as long as its from you.. ya know, well good luck =) hope i helped..
[♥]DiNA !!

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I need help. I have this gf shes really nice and everything and i love her alot, but it feels like are relationship is coming to an end. So do u have any suggestions of what to do? Because i hurted her feelings before,and now she hurt myn help? thx nick.

maybe you should talk to her and let her know how you feel because its going to be to late when it all ends and you dont want that to happen if you really love her ... i would hate to lose the person i love..but its totally up to you..hope i helped..
[♥]DiNA

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Hey Guys, My mom is cracking up. I swear she is. Yesterday she was wanting to call someone that she hadn't talked to in a while and I was like "Mom don't call. It will just end up like it did before." and she seemed ok and I never said it mean or anything. So I came and got on the internet after cleaning my room. And I herd her slamming stuff. So I went into the living room and she came toward me with my jeans and threw them at me and started cussing me out and how I was always mad at her and everything. Which that was probably the first time I was. So she said she wasn't washing any of my clothes and she hasn't said one word to me since 4:00 yesterday. I don't understand why she is so mad. So what can I do?

Hey,okay well this seems like my mom she always does that to me and she gets mad at me all the time saying that im yelling at her or im being rude and throws my clothes at me,but the reason why she does that is because i guess she knows whats best for me and maybe your mom was stressed out from work or something and it took just a little bit for her to like EXPLODE...i cant tell you why shes mad because that might not be the thing, but the best thing that you can do is just try and get along with her like talk to her nicely and dont do anything to piss her off more..ya know i mean eventually shell get over it and she knows that no matter what she loves you...so dont worry youll be fine :)...
[♥]DiNA

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alright well last night my boyfriend and i went to the movies and we went to 3rd and i got home and i was really sore down there and it was and still is all swollen and still sore... is this normal? what can i do to ease the pain? also, could my cherry have been popped? thanks ill rate 5s

i dont know i think that you over did it,maybe.. but if it gets worse you should seriously see a doctor..just to be safe...
[♥]DiNA

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Is it possible for a 14 year old girl to get a job on a cruise line over the summer as a waitress or table busser or clean up or anything like that?

i dont think so because you have to be at least 16 to get a job but i mean that sounds awesome you can always try its worth asking..
[♥]DiNA

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HOW DO U MAKE OUT???? PLZ help my b/f wants to do it with me...

How am i supposed to know, you just do...
[♥]DiNA

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my nose is very sore and irritated from blowing it so much. what can i put on it to soothe it?

you can get flounase works good and than put some neosporin on it..hope i helped {♥}DiNA

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how do i kno when i'm over someone or not. i'm going out with a cool boy (going on 2 months) but idk if i like him still or not or if i should break up with him. How do you know these things?

p.s. I also think this other guy that doesnt know me is hott and awesome. but i dont kno how I know if i like my bf or not or want to break up....any help is appreciated

hey !! you know that your over someone by not like having any feelings for him and like i dont know you know these things when he tells you that he loves you but you feel wierd because you cant say it back and he should get the point at sometime i mean me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and some days now but we still feel the same about eachother and i just think that you should trust yourself and like they say "follow your heart && wherever it leads you too" and also be careful not to hurt ur boyfriend because guys have feelings too .. lol and maybe you should let that boy know how you feel about him and also be honest with your boyfriend !! hope i helped !! ♥DiNA !!

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i want to lose about 20 pounds. how do i do this? what is the best way? what to eat and what not to eat? im a very lazy person. i need motivation and i need actual exercizes and plans. if someone could write out a day by day plan for me i would appreciate it! THANKS!

hey..uhm.. well what you can do is like go out to the gym and like excercise because like excercise is the best way to lose weight and you should also watch what you eat like you can eat salads but you dont have to eat it all the time and like eat untill 6:00 p.m. after 6:00 p.m. dont eat anything you can like eat snacks and stuff but try and skip dinner beacuse like after you eat dinner all you do is go lay down if i was there i would excercise with you everyday.. hehe..well anyways you cant be lazy because if your lazy then your never gonna be able to lose the weight you want to lose .. another thing that you can do is like get your own personal trainer and they would plan out your schedule and stuff but ill motivate you !! hehe just im me on i LOVE Y0OW xOx and ill give you your daily schedule !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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ok so theres this guy that i used to like, but we had a falling out and hated each other for a long time. he said something about me to one of my friends that he was assuming about me, and i got mad and wrote him a very long xanga entry explaining in detail why he was a shithead and why he was wrong.

and then i had to work with him for a project, and now, all of the sudden hes been really nice to me... waving at me, making jokes... im just wondering what could have changed. why is he doing this? is it because of what i said?

how can i find out what hes feeling without actually asking?

well first off maybe he just had a change of hearts.. hehe .. and maybe he was like whats the point of fighting with her im not going to win anyways you know and what you did i mean i wouldve done the same thing because he has no right to say something about you thats totally not true and i mean the way you can find out is by like just playing along with it you know and sooner or later hell admit to his feelings or just like ask one of your friends to ask him or if you want ask yourself because that would be the best !! well hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

uhm..i know some love songs but not having to do with that subject here ill give them to you and if you likve them then yeah.. stickwitu-pussycat dolls, dont wanna try-frankie j, listen to your heart-D.H.T., because of you - kelly clarkson, gone so young - amber pacific, dats all i can think of right now so just listen to them and if you need more just im me on i LOVE Y0OW xOx !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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arlight.. I was just curious..how can you really tell the difference between spotting and your period? my boyfriend& I are sexualy active..we always use a condom..and I was just put on birth control a few days ago. I'm using Estrostep, and doing the one day starter, meaning I started taking the pill the day I got my period& so forth. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative..but I know they aren't 100% accurate..also, there is only alot of blood when I wake up in the morning, but during the day there's barely any..

1. am I spotting from the birth control or is it just a really light flow because of the birth control?

2. how can you tell the main difference between a really light flow and spotting? would spotting just be little drops?

sorry this was long:D thanks in advance!

okay well like spotting is just like little drops its not alot but its not totally red either.. uhm its probably from the birth control pills and dont worry about it being heavy because like your body wasnt doing anything and so it does that but if your scared then i think that you should see a doctor !! hope i helped !! ♥dina !!

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