im brooke .. im an all around nice girl and love to give advice so dont feel like you cant ask me for advice cause if i wasnt willing to give it i wouldnt have this in the first place lol
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Is it possible to not be able to kiss someone because their nose is "too big"? I haven't kissed anyone yet but I've heard stories of girls that's noses were "in the way" when they were trying to make out with their boyfriends. So0rry if this sounds stupid it's just, my boyfriend made a comment about mine && now I'm kind of self-counsious (sp??) about it.
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no its not a problem people are just stupid and it doesn't stop anything dont worry hun lol ..
brooke
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Okay. I never ever cry even when im alone. Ive never fallin in love never even close im more like a guy then a girl. Because im a player and everything like that. What all females think the average guy is. Well now im dating a guy named Evan. Hes so cute and we mesh so well together. He makes me happy im not even playing him!! Well he does...Alot of illegal stuff. And he has to handle buisness i understand that. But i he told me one of his ex's came back in town and he turned her down and all this even though it was like his first love. I was like okay hes like yeah i never thought i could do that. But now these past couple days instead of us talking on the phone for hours n hours we talk a few hours a day and i only see him like twice a week instead of everyday. He says he has to go do buisness but its just all of a sudden? and he is acting different then before but he says its because hes under alot of stress. Well i asked him if he was cheating and he said no and got really quiet i was like whats wrong? hes like nothing im under stress and im thinking and i dont know why you even think that. The next day i asked him again and hes like you really think im cheating? He got really mad and was like after me getting cheated on and i know how it feels and how close we are and you still ask me that?
I dont kno what to do i cant tell if hes cheating it feels like it but i have no proof.
Help if u kno what to do or have any advice (link)
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alright well that girl obviously is trying to get after him now and thats something you really need to get a hold of i mean you have to talk to her and be like .. um .. me and him are dating now i mean yeah you guys can be friends but he has a girlfriend you had your chance you ruined it and noiw your running back to him .. and then be like i dont know you could be really cool just from what im seeing your trying to get the kid im really starting to like .. and then talk to him about it and be like alright i trust you but i need to make sure you dont have feelings for her anymore make them two go to the movies and see if anything happens .. and be like this is the only way i can find out and if not that then sit him down be like .. i really like you alot and i trust you i just dont know how to feel im getting all confusion in my head because your first love is back and trying to get with you ..
hope i helped hun..
tel me how it goes..
brooke
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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
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okay well tell them at a time that no ones around or anything and be like ,"mom , dad, i have something important to tell you , so and so.. raped me, i said no but he still did and im sorry" and stuff like that, but you have to do something about it before anything else happens
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me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret? (link)
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well, i think you should tell someone. because if you do, the person you tell wont let you see him so he wont kill you or get to you because he probally wont find out if you told someone. and he will be in jail if they think its true
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when i see like sex seens in movies and what not i get this weird feeling in my vagina...what is this? thanks (link)
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well does it feel like a sudden zing going through your vagina, because that often happens to many people and it might be that your getting a little... horny
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I have a question..
what is better to use when going horseback riding
tampons or pads
thanks
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umm.. it doesn't really matter i mean a tampon will just stay there and a pad will just stay there but tampons are more for like sporty stuff
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Is it wrong to masturbate yourself?Will anyone find out without telling them? (link)
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it's not wrong and no one will find out unless you tell someone or someone walks in on you doing it which i doubt will happen
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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
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well .. if she told you to go out with him then she has no right to be mad .. and i don't think you should ruin the relationship because of her being mad i mean eventually she won't be mad no more.. you should like .. find someone cute and nice that like's her and they can get together ... i hope i helped
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My good friend is really mad at me I asked her what she thought of one of our guy friends and I thought she said she liked him. But we were in the hallway and I guess I didnt hear right. I told this guy friend because he likes her somewhat. well it turned out that i was wrong and he told her that i told him and she immed me and was cursing me out and stuff. I tired to explain to her that i missunderstood and that i was sorry. She then told me that even if she had i had no right to tell him and that she wont ever tell me anything again. She wont even talk to me. I feel really bad about the whole thing. What shud I do?
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well .. i think you should IM her or Call her and be like listen i know your mad at me in all but i didn't hear you correctly and i know that i didn't have to right to tell him that you liked andd.. i just wanted you to to get together because i thought you liked him but turns out you didn't and i don't want us to be fighting like this .. i mean right now is when you need a friend the most .. and i don't want you cutting again and i can be that friend that tell's all those people off for you .. because they obviously are too immature to handle anything and can't stop spreading it around to everyone.. ( if i were you i would slap all ) but anyways hope i helped
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx (link)
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well .. love is a feeling that you can't describe but it's like ..when you guys can be goofy together and it wouldn't matter you wouldn't make yourself look dumb .. and you could look really bad one day and he could say your beautiful and when your not together they call you to hear your voice and you could be serious about it too.. and.. i don't think there could be love at first site because love isn't for the looks . .
hope i helped
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okay, let me break it down for you...my best friend (lets call him X) has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is my friend (but not like a best friend) and i told X that i liked him. He said that he had liked me for like a year and a half before he got together with his girlfriend. So, we are still best friends, but i dont know what to do. Should I still like him because i know that i dont have a chance because he's already got a girlfriend and they are close (but i dont think he loves her as much as he says he does..)? Should i just like him as my best friend only? Or should I keep loving him, and he will never know how much I love him? Help! Im so confused!! (link)
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Well i know what your going through cause thats how it is with me.. because yeah he dumped me but claims he still likes me but is still with her and say's he loves her and shit but i think you should be his bestfriend but secretly love him ..and then when they break up you can tell him and maybe he has as much feelings for you as you do for him ..and maybe he is thinking about you and wants to be with you but just doesn't want to tell you cause he scared you'll feel different and scared his girlfriend will find out ..
hope i helped
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Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden.. (link)
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well ... i think you should find out if your crush is goin with someone and if he's not then go maybe we should go together and then tell the person that asked you before that you would but you already have a date and if your crush already has a date then go with the other kid that asked you in the first place. .
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well...i just saw the movie 'something like love' and it got me thinking. does love like that actually exist? i'm sure not many people have seen it yet as it is a new movie...but they just seemed so, i don't know, made for each other. it was surreal. i know in real life guys might not stand outside and sing to you with a guitar to win your heart...but the way they felt for each other...does that really happen? thanks! (link)
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yeah it actually does happen surprisingly .. i mean yeah it doesn't seem like it would ever happen but it really does if the guy loves the girl that much and want's to be with her that bad he'll go to any extreme just to be with her ..
hope i helped ( i know what movie your talking about too im goin to see it today i think)
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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not. (link)
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i think you should tell him thats the way relationships start! =D i mean you guys could go out for a while if you tell him =D
hope i helped
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Does anyone no how to get eye makeup off, anything but vasiline or is thta the only thing that workds?
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you can buy eye make up remover ... lol
hope i helped..
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I am a freshman in high school and i recently lost my virginity and i know to use protection but my question is can you only get pregnant when you are on your period? or only when u are not?
help if you i rate!!!!!!!!
~Blundered blonde~ (link)
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you cannot get pregnant if you have you period like if you had sex and then got your period your not pregnant and if the condom didnt break ur not pregnant
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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oh your not too young i mean ive already had sex.. but like .. you can just talk to him and see if he is ready and i think you are ready i mean if you two love each other your ready but make shure you guys are really like .. "ready" cuz you dont want to be like.. all broken and stuff afterwards ( dont mean to sound bitchy if i do hun lol) and i doubt like.. you would get pregnant if you use a condom you wont get pregnant.. hope i helped .. tell me how it goes hun ..
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ok so this new boy *Eric* transferred to our school on monday (valentine's day and yeah i needed a valentine)... and the class went on a field trip together. and when i listen to my friends conversations, it's all about setting ME up with the new boy! i was happy that my friends would do that for me (especially since i needed a valentine) but i didnt know much about him. but i decided that i would have anyone to be my valentine rather than having no one as my valentine. when my friends asked him if he wanted to go out with me (even just for valentines day) and he said no because he didnt know much about anyone yet. and then yesterday i was making plans with my friend about having a double date with her and her boyfriend and me and *Eric*. and somehow, word got out that i was going to ask *Eric* out and it got to him and i sit right in front of him in Social Studies. then this obnoxious kid Brian that sits next to me, asked *Eric* if he liked me and *Eric* pointed to his mouth and pretended to barf! i was so hurt, i couldnt focus on the class the whole time (not that it doesnt happen often lol). what should i do? is that thing he did just a cover for his feelings? should i ask him out still? PLEASE HELP! i rate good!
Oh, and I'm 13 and *Eric* is 14 (we're in the same class though) (link)
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i think he is just trying to be cool in front of the kids in ur class.. and you should still ask him to hang out before the double date n maybe his true feelings will come out. n you never know even if he dontlike you now he can like you after you hang out ! hope i helped .. tell me how it goes hun . !
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( you know thats kinda cool too im thirteen and my boyfriends name is eric and hes 14)
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
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u dont have nothing to worry about yeah he is young but it is normal because all the kids that age are doing that now .. its just a normal thing now ..but it is kinda wrong since that girl was 17 , hope i helped , tell me how it goes..
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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help! (link)
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dont worry about that hun, if he likes you enough to want to go farr with you he wont care about how your body is he will only care about how you feel and if your ready!
hope i helped tell me how it goes
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