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i think my face looks a little plain bc i hav no bangs but is it worth it to risk looking dumb 4 freshman yr & pictures??


please answer asap...rate high!!!
need answers in lik 1 week!

Bangs are for sure NOT going to help...i don't have nething against bangs but in my 7th grade pics i looked do retarded cuz of my bangs...lol..but yea maybe you just need a cool new cut, bangs might help but it all just depends on your face is long, round, ect...ask your friends what kind of hair cut you should get..they will be a great help because they will tell you what they think...hope i helped!
~Linda

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my friend is coming in to visit from out of state..shes lik a sister to me but im worrie about her and my friends getting along...i just dont want nething dumb to happen bc she wont be here long


advice needed desperately!

Just don't worry about that just get together with you your new friends and her and just hangout and do whatever you do...if they do end up not mess well then just spend time with her, if she's not going to be here that long i don't think your friends would mind not seeing you for a couple days...it's understandable...I hope I helped!
~Linda

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im going into my freshman yr & ive known this girl for about 7 yrs..shes changed alot and shes going thru so much...she trys to get noticed by doing stuff with guys..it disgusts me but i still want to know im always here for her & at the same time tell that whats shes doing isnt ne good


please help my friend and i stay close!

I think that you should talk to her about this...if she does things with guys just to get noticed tell her what you think about that..if your her good friend then she will care about what you think, also tell her to keep in mind that you are just trying to help her not hurt her and that you there for her....i hope i helped!
~Linda

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okay well im 13 and all my friends (they're 13 to) have like huge or big breasts and i feel left out cuz like i only have alittle of them and like i wear a bra n everything but like it still looks like i dont have anything... what can i do?? is there any way to make them grow faster!!>>>well I RAT HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! MUAHH!

**please help**

Well this maybe not what you want to hear but there isn't anything that you can do about that...just leave that up to mother nature...everyone develops at their own rate...i was pretty much in the same situation as u when i was 13 and now i'm 15 and they grew some more and they will continue to grow...I'll probably turn out like my aunt..throughout high school she wasn't that big and now she is ike a D or DD i can't remember..lol...but yea she grew later in life so it just depends on you.....i hope i helped and don't worry..they'll come....
~*~Linda

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hey, i had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend of 6 months, we are with eachother alot so theres no problem that we did if overall. but we had unprotected sex, i know thats bed but, he pulled out a few minutes early..could i still get pregnate? thanks alot =/

Well, I personally believe that there is always a chance that you could get pregnate...in this case it would be rare to get pregnate...but there is always a possibility that u could...i hope i helped
~Linda~

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what would be a place to shop for the first day of school clothes if you were a goth or punk

stores not websites please!!!!
thnx :-)

Definately Hot Topic!!!!! :D

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Does anyone knoe a site that has song lyrics for free?

search lyrics on google. then you will have a bunch of choices, just in case you don't find the song you want on one of them...
Hope I helped!!
~Linda~

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Sorry, I already asked this, but by accidenlty posted it under music instead of theatre:
I got choosen to be an extra in a FEATURE FILM! I was so excited about it, because I live in Connecticut, so I don't really have the oppurtunity to participate in real movies, until now. However I don't know what to do because the day I am called for to be an extra is this upcoming Saturday. On Sunday I am going to New Jersey for the day, for a family party. The Thursday of the next week finals in my school start, as well. No that I have all of this going on, my parents are telling me that they do not think it is a good idea for me to do this movie. The movie location is an hour drive from my house, and it films from 8 in the morning until around dinner time. I just don't know what to do, because my parents say that ultimatley it is my deceision, but they don't think it's right with finals coming up, & me not being home all weekend (plus i have drivers ed all this week). I really want to do this though, because I have never had the experience before, and I don't know if an opputunity like it will ever come again! WHAT SHOULD I DO??
By the way, my mom keeps telling me she has thought long & hard, and does not think it is a good idea, but it is still my choice. The way she says it makes me feel guilty, because I know she doesn't want me to, and I also feel bad because it is an hour away, which takes up her whole Saturday because she has to go there & back & there & back to pick me up. I just am so confused! Oh & I already told my friends about it, so I feel stupid telling them I am not (but that's not my main worry)..

I say go and be an extra. Being an extra was one of the greatest moments of my life. It was sooo cool. I feel that, that is the profession that I want to pursure and I am happy for that experience. DO IT!!!

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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing...

Well I find excssive cussing unattractive as well... I would upset as well. You have been going out for 9 months!, and if at one point he stopped for you then there is no reason for him to blow you off or to be cussing around you again.... I would just have a one on one conversation with him. He may know how you feel about cussing, but it can't hurt to remind him.... Hope I helped!!
~Linda
...and remember that everything happens for a reason and don't blame yourself! :D

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ok so there is this guy at my school and he was going out with my friend but not anymore so anyway.. he is always so mean to me and is like this is none of you buisness and im like thats really gay.. and hes always sayin mean things and i hate it! what do i do

Judge don't pay any attention to him. If he is going to be a jerk like that he doesn't desereve your respect. He can't say mean things to you if you don't talk to him or if you don't pay any attention to him. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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I am so full of energy so after I was laying down for like 10 minutes, i ust had this blast of hyperness and i jus ran outta my room yelling..ahaha..my mom was scared..so when she realized I was just being crazy, she started cussing at me..BAD! she was like "F*** YOU! MOTHER F*** YOU!!!" i feel so sad now :-( what can i do?

Well, if my mother did that to me I would be very upset because I have a bery close relationship with her. I would just talk to her. Ask her why she cussed at you and how uncomfortable it made you feel. Just ask for a reason, it shouldn't hurt. it all depends on your relationship with your mother....
Hope i helped, and srry that i couldn't help more.
~Linda

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Ok, so schools out and I'm really bored...Where are some fun places to hang out /fun things to do, etc during the summer?

Movies
Beach if there is one where ever you live...
go to a friend's house
invite friend's over
go to a theme park
pool
play video games
chat
ice skate
roller skate
concert
dance
under age club
....ect....
Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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Have any of you ever felt like you couldnt like someone becasue his friends that are girls dont like you? Well thats the situation im in. I like this boy and im not sure if he likes me but hes always telling me how hot i am and stuff. His friends that are girls dont really like me and i kinda dont like them either, well atleast one of his friends that are girls. Shes such a bitch and i find it kinda hard to like him now becasue they would say bad things about me to him.

Well, I personally think that you need to just focus on the relationship between you and him. Don't worry about his friends right now... Just establish a relationship that he knows what your all about. If you just like him, get to know him and find out if you really do like him. Well, I hope I helped! Just remember, everything happens for a reason and their are only two people in a relationship. You never know one day you might go out with him and you might see his friends as your friends too. That girl will just have to get over it.
~Linda

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at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more??

It sounds like he likes you. Not just any old guy would just act like that if he didn't like you....
Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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i was thinking about gettin a nokia 6225. its a camera phone, but its NOT a flip phone. i heard the camera phones that AREN'T flip phones dont take very good pictures. is this true or not?

My aunt works for verizon and has worked with cell phones throughout her career. She said that it really doesn't matter and the performance is the same. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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I was wondering if i could talk to you sometime like on aim about my problem if you dont mind...my sns davidbouvierSP...i would really like it if you did it would help me alot

Sure anything to help someone out! If not just ask me on this website.

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my parents yell at eachother soo much its caused me to start cutting...i dont want my friends to know...so if anyone ask im gonna say my cat did it...i wanna stop but it feels like i desever(cant spell) the pain...ive thought about killing myself but that will make my parents more crazy

Well you really need to talk to someone that you can trust. If you have a good relationship with your parents, talk to them. Talk to a counselor at school or a really close friend. I've been in your situation and I talked to my mom about it and it all worked out. Now people that come to me with their problems that have to do with suicide get resolved. You can save lives when you work this all out. Feedback!! Hope I helped!
~Linda

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Why is sex such a big deal?

It's because that there is a key factor:
you could bring life to this earth. Plus, It is also a symbol of true devotion between two people. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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so if i'm fooling around with a girl in my hot tub and we're NOT having sex, but like she gets me off with her hand or orally, can she get pregnant from the sperm floating around in the water? the jets are pretty powerful and could possibly float it into her. how likely is it and *sigh* do i HAVE to wear a condom? thanks..

Sperm die very quickly in hot temperatures. You should have no problem in the hot tub. So I would say no, you do not have to wear a condom in that situation. Hope I helped!

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well..i just started a job as a hostess and i have to wear black pants and a white shirt.
i was wondering where would be the best place to look for these? somewhere cheap and stylish

well, i'm a walmart girl and there stuff is just fine for me, at great prices too.

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