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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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i was wondering what kind of bra you would wear with this shirt, if any?

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_347592_-1_12646_12635

You can either get a really good strapless one from Victoria's secret (best bras in the world) or if you go to Macy's and get a Calvin Klein strapless those are really good too. Also, if you don't have like Huge boobs you could probably get away with not wearing one, but I would suggest you do anyway. Also, you could get a bra with the clear straps, but they stick to you and it's really uncomfortable in my opinion.

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I always get new sneakers for school but this year I have no idea what shoes i wanna get. Any cute ideas?



btw, im very preppy. so i don't want skater-ish shoes or anything like that. thanks!

Get flats. Those always work.

http://www.journeys.com/catalog_listing.aspx?c=girls&s=shoes/Flats

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What does this picture of a big tree mean?

http://img68.imageshack.us/my.php?image=40cq491zd3.jpg

I came across it one day, and I saw it tatooed on some lady's back

That would be the tree of life. [= it just represents life and how it just grows and continues and all that jazz.

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Okay, i wiegh about 146 pds, im 5'3 and the scale says my body fat is around 12.0. I was wondering if that number is good or bad for my weigh and height.

thankss !

According to a BMI calculator ((http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/))

Your BMI is 25.9. Which means you are overweight.

A normal weight for someone who is 5'3 should be between 115 and 125.


EDIT*** but after reading what I wrote, It doesn't take a genius to figure out that you need to lose weight ;)

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id really like it if you only answered if youve had these before. http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028419&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524442123065&bmUID=1184716430808 ive tried getting nose screws in and it just doesnt happen lol. yes i know you can have a piercer change it for you but i want to myself. so, have you ever tried these? is it really as easy as it looks? put the straight end in move it a little bit and push the other side in? or is it complicated too?

I personally do not have my nose pierced. But I'm going to!

Anyway, my friend Tiff has her's done and she tried using that one before but they get stuck and make your nose bleed when you try to put them in. Her and a few of my other friends with their noses pierced don't like them, they just use the straight ones you just push through or the screw ones.

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how do you make someone like you?
I mean i'm not ugly, over-weight or anything just he doesn't like me, I know it's not all about looks but I have been told I have a great personality too, heres a few pictures of me.

http://i17.tinypic.com/6atuarn.jpg
http://i15.tinypic.com/4yhyl2r.jpg
http://i12.tinypic.com/52onkmv.jpg

You can't make someone like you. If you force someone into something, it just makes things worse in the end. BELIEVE ME. Just be yourself and don't try too hard, because if you're acting like you're trying too hard, then it's just a turn off.

You're a very pretty girl. Just keep your head up. You're young someone will come along.

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Hi i'm a 14 year old female and i have never had my period before and i was always told taht you can NEVER get pregnant. So how can atht happen.

And also when you have sex for the first time and you have NEVER had your period like me won't it hurt. Like my mom told me taht you can't hav sex because you don't have the natural lubracante so if you do have sex it will rip your insides and you can't have kids or it would hurt really really bad.

There is some sort of "window of opportunity" for girls who haven't gotten their periods to get pregnant. Did you hear about the 9 year old girl in Mexico that was raped and was pregnant? Yeah, she didn't have her period.


And you can have sex if you haven't had your period yet. You still do make a natural lubricant, just not as much as you would if you were at age of menstruation.

For alot of girls sex will hurt the first time, if girls have "messed around" before they may have already stretched their vagina enough for a penis to go in easier. If you haven't, then you would be tighter and it would hurt more to go in. But it doesn't rip your insides!

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Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?

I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place.

Bi curious is experimenting with both sexes. Bisexual is when a woman likes both boys and girls, and when a guy likes both boys and girls. Homo means same. So if you are a homosexual you like the same sex as your own.

If a man likes other men, then he is gay. But, if he also likes women then he could be considered bisexual.

If a guy or girl just wants to experiment with the other sex because they are "curious" then they would be bi curious.

And what you personally believe is not what a bisexual person believes. There is such thing as bisexuality. If a man or woman says that she is bisexual, why not go all the way and straight out say you're a lesbian or gay? Do you see what I"m saying? I have plenty of bisexual friends and my best friend is gay. My cousin is a lesbian.

I can understand why you'd believe that, but that's really not what goes on in their minds.

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I have a job interview comming up, and I have a conert on a day I would have to work. Should I bring it up during the interview? And would they not hire me because of that? I was just going to say I had out of town business...

It's always best to let them know ahead of time because managers are pissy like that. My manager makes me call people the days I call out sick to find someone to cover me. Cause he's a dick and a half!


ANYWAY! Just tell them at the interview if they hire you that you had previous engagements for such and such date but are able to work the day before and the day after. As long as they haven't set a schedule for you then you should be fine.

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13/f

I need to find a great place that does hair. I want my hair an orential black and I want it straightened. I don't have a picture of what I want, but you probably already know what I mean. I need the place to be in Kalamazoo, MI or somewhere in Van Buren County in MI! This place needs to be good with hair. THANX!

It's amazing the things you find on google.....


http://www.yellowbook.com/?T=1&A=1&Q=Salon&BN=&WH=Van+Buren%2C+MI&x=0&y=0

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What is considered sex with two women? Like, if you're a virgin, and you're a lesbian, how do you know if you've lost your virginity? What if there aren't any toys? When you're straight and losing your virginity is penis + vagina penetration, what is losing your virginity when you're a lesbian, there's no penis?

Sex with two women is lesbian sex. However, it is not technically sex because there has to be penetration by a penis. Because if someone considered losing your virginity penetration by any object, than any little girl who masturbated would be a slut. You TECHNICALLY can't lose your virginity when you are a lesbian. Sex is vaginal penetration with a penis.

While "lesbian sex" isn't technically sex, it's just messing around basically.

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ok well i just got my hair cut. i liek the hair just not the color.
thats a pic of me with my hair
http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p289/dionnespicy/CIMG3582.jpg
what color should i dye it? and how should i dye it? i was thinking a few different colors or something. thanx

You don't have the right cut to go crazy with a whole bunch of colors. Maybe you could get a few chunky highlighs and low lights like blonde and darker browns.



EDIT***** I don't know about purple. Not if you did purple chunks throughout your hair.


Maybe if you got an accent piece in your hair that was purple, but not a whole bunch of it.

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ok, I've decided to get either a hamster or a gerbil. I've done a LOT of research on both but I want opinions from some one who actually has one or the other to give me an opinion. so tell me, Hamster or gerbil?

They're pretty much the same really, they just eat different kinds of food and such. Me personally, I like gerbils. I think they are much cuter especially the white ones with the red eyes!

Gerbils however can get fairly large, as with a hamster you can get like a dwarf one and they stay little forever. They have about the same life span, and they smell equally bad if you don't clean their cage.

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what do you say about making out and fooling around with a guy friend? is it ok? nothing wrong with it...i'm not too sure, it's hard to explain, but you don't have to be in love to make out with a guy or anything, do you?

Why would you have to be in love with someone to make out with them? If that would be considered a whoreish thing to do, then consider me the biggest whore in the world!


It's fine to make out with someone who isn't your boyfriend. I think just about every guy I've ever kissed I wasn't "in love with" or was dating.


As long as you're not going around and having sex with every one of your guy friends then really, who cares?

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In your opinion...
who do you favor most: Tyra or Oprah?
Please list the reasons why in relations to the other person. I've been curious, so thanks!

Tyra. She talks about issues that teenage girls can relate to for the most part. Oprah is all about saving the world by buying one person a car at a time.

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how do you do cool things with your pictures such as:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=152264288&albumId=0

^view page 2 of his pics

Photoshop.

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I am a 14 year old female and i havent gotten my period yet but i want to have sex. My question is can i have sex even though i havent had my period yet. and if i can have sex is there any chance of me getting pregnate??

To answer your question, you can still get pregnant even if you don't have your period. There is some weird "window of opportunity" to get pregnant. And obviously you can have sex if you haven't gotten your period yet. You can have sex at any age. 5 year old girls can have sex. If there is a vagina and a penis and there is penetration, then there is sex.


But if you can't even spell PREGNANT then you shouldn't be having sex.

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Ok i am SO SO SO SO UBER BORED


Barely any of my friends can han gbut yeah idk what to do and my mom is out of country and my dad works all day.

What should i do?

:[

anything please help me!!


rater

You're going to think I'm crazy, but seriously, organize your room. Like clean out your closet and organize everything by color and length of pant and length of sleeve, what's for winter fall and summer, put your shoes in order by color and style.


OR!


Go online and go to youtube and watch movies all day OR! Go to ebaumsworld.com and watch videos on there


OR!http://ebaumsworld.com/games/play/1106
Tetris. Most addicting game ever.


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seriously, what's up with gas prices nowadays? yesterday my dad filled up gas that was $3.41 a gallon! why is it so expensive?

The price of gas generally goes up in the summer.


Oil refineries are generally on coastal states such as Alabama, Florida, California, etc. It obviously costs money to ship the gas to the other states so states that are farther away from the refineries, so that's why in centralized states like North and South Dakota, Arizona, Nebraska, Colorado, etc. it is more expensive. By September the prices should start going down.


Also, we get close to 90% of our oil from the middle east, which is why alot of people believe we are at war. But lets not get into politics. Basically, it's so expensive because of shipping it and that it is such a high demand for oil. In Hawaii it's close to 7 dollars a gallon. Be glad you don't live there!

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does tanning in a bed make your face break out in acne?
usually my face isn't bad at ALL
but lately i've been tanning, and i'm breaking out reallllly bad.
and if that's true, is there any way to prevent it?

i'm 15/f
thankyouu

Everyone's skin is different. As I'm sure you've heard tanning isn't that good for your skin because if you do it too often it CAN cause skin cancer. But, of course, we do it anyway. I tan and I have no problem admitting that I do.

You're 15, you're still young and going through hormonal changes and that could be why you're breaking out. But me, being in the sun actually makes my skin alot better.

I tend to break out on my back, and the whole time when I was on vacation in Florida my back was completely clear. Now that I have it covered up and am not in the sun as often, it's starting up again.

You can always try using acne face washes. I like clearasil. Pro-Activ never worked for me. And also, remember to use a moisturizer that has an SPF in it so that your face doesn't burn when you go tanning. SPF 15 should be fine for your face for when you tan, but when you're actually out in the sun you should use a higher one like 30.

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