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ok... uhh mi best friend is an untrustworthy lier nd only out for them selves... she is always lieing to me nd not inviteing me places.. wat should i do

Hun, get a new bestfriend! You don't need her as a best friend or just a friend if she lies to you and never invites you anywhere... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks

Put the cats in seperate cages and let the wounds heal. If they get infected or don't heal in like a week or so, then go to the vet. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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My daughter does not want to know me and is trying to exclude me from the rest of the family i am heartbroken she cant see that i love her and my other children she is married and has children of her own please find me some answers as to why this is happening

Have you ever thought that you could have treated her less then your other children?? I mean, she probably thought that you loved her siblings more than her... Just a suggestion. I mean, i don't like my mom at all and i never want to see her again and that's because it seems like she loves my little sister more than me. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I like this guy. But my guy friend HATES him and i'm so close to going out with this guy but my guy friend says he'll never talk to me again if i go out with him. my friend is begging me to stop liking him but i like him so much! I don't want to lose my friend but i want to gain the guy i like. what should i do?

Okay, friends are more important than boyfriends, but in this situation... your friend is just plain stubborn and maybe jealous!! He is not a true friend if he can't deal with someone that you like!... If the guy you like, likes you back, i say go for him! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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alright so im trying to get a flat stomach.. well trying to get some fat off my stomach.. can any one try to give me tips like any exercises that i can do and tell me what to do.. like how much i do, how many each day, and how long it will take to get to a flatter stomach ..im aiming to get a flat stomach in like a couple of weeks, but if it will take longer, thats fine thanks a bunch

Eat healthier for one thing. And every night, you can do 100 sit-ups and crunches a night or just do crunches and sit-ups for 1 hour... I don't know how long that will take, but if you start at that high of a number then you can get a flat stomach in no time! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)

It depends... Did you mind it or were you uncomfortable??? Because if you think he is going to fast for you or you don't want him touching you in those areas, then tell him. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..

well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne

please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..

Yes, i have heard ghost stories like that and some of it IS true. Maybe you and your family can think about moving to another house?? I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected

Hun, that is normal... You just gotta put yourself out there and you will find a guy that will like you and will get over your ex very soon! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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am 19 and my bf is 24, he hasnt called me in 5 days,we only been going out for a week but in the first two days we really hit it off, but i dont know why he is not calling me,he would call me faithfully but then it just stop,please help me what should i do.

Hun, he could be busy with stuff lately... Just call him this time! The boyfriends don't ALWAYS have to call... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I always thought my wife liked my body. But recently, in front of a whole group of friends, she stated that I'm "not allowed" to wear a swimsuit, which got a laugh. She then expounded on this, stating that I am "very white, and very hairy, and when I wear my work shorts, I get a "tan line" from just above my knees, to just below them. This shows in my swimsuit. Everyone thought it was really funny but me.
Do you think she was "just kidding', or did the truth slip out there?

She probably is telling the truth hun, sorry! You can get a tan to take out those tan line and make your skin darker, and get a wax or shave off your hair... You should talk to your wife about it so she knows that she hurt y our feelings because she probably doesn't know! She most likely still likes your body, but it could be improved mayby... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.

Yes they will hurt like the first week and then the first few days when you get them straightened!... You can chew gum with them, but do it like 2 weeks after you get them because they can get stuck in your braces and it will hurt when you chew. Any color would look good... i like pink! Oh, but don't get clear/white because they get dirty easily and it looks bad and the clear ones can actually stain you teeth! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??

Hun, it's not necessarily "bad"... Just keep in mind that if yall have sex, then it IS against the law!... Just tell your parents when you are 18 or 19... they MIGHT understand. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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i know that the green jelly bracelet means cunnilingus. what exactly does cunnilingus mean?

Oral sex. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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16/f.... this may be a stupid question, but what are those people called that you talk to about your problems and you tell them everything and then they give you advice and everything is confidential. They do it for a living. Nothing SERIOUS is going on in my life (ex. I'm not pregnant, I don't go drugs, I'm not a lesbian, etc.), but I feel like I can't talk to my parents (about guys or whatever) I never have and I probably never will. I'm an only child and I've been the center of their lives for 16 years and I hate it. I always have...I wish I can share the spotlight with someone, but thats not going to happen. Sometimes I wish they didn't care about me AS MUCH as they do. I feel like I need to go see one of those people because I've kept so much inside of me all my life and now I think I need to deal with a professional who can help me. And I'm afraid of a lot of things (I always have visions of disturbing things in my head, but thats a different story). How can I tell my parents I need one of those people without hurting them?

That's a shyciatrist (spell?), counselor, or shrink... Take you pick of you want to call it... I don't know how you can tell you parents hun... sorry! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Lately Ive been looking on the internet and at the mall for some Flat Clogs. Not the ones with the heels, but the ones with the buckle on the front and theyre brown/tan. I cant seem to find them at any websites. Does anyone know where I can find some cute clogs online? Thanks.

If you mean Birkenstocks (spell?) then they are everywhere! I don't know any place online, but i know there are some very cute clogs at Nordstrom! Or Payless or any other shoe store... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelea Ox

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Hi!!! I am 14 and a girl, lol. Ok, well my ex bf broke up with me like a few months ago and we are still extremely close. we do alot of things together and we both know that we still love eachother. he said that he thinks we have a chance again, and i do too. And I know that its ok when he flirts with other girls because i flirt with other guys...it's just human nature. he knows that no matter who I flirt with that I will still love him and I know that he will still love me. So I guess you're probably wondering, "so whats the problem?" well I was just wondering how I might make the relationship move a little faster because we both know that we will eventually get back together, but how do I know what to do in order for it to get to that point??? Thanx& much Love

Hun, if he likes you, go for him! Don't wait! Because you may never know that a girl wants him too!... If you want to move the relationship fast without just asking him out, you can just spend a lot more time with him and flirt with him more than the other guys you are around... But don't do it too much, because you might get on his nerves! Lol. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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ok, im 14 and have loved this girl since i met her in 6th grade,,,,, we went out when i was in 7th near the end of the year. we lasted until the end of the first month of summer, the reason we had ended the realtionship is because she thought i cheated on her, which i didnt but her mind was made up. after that i didnt know what to do, i tried to date other girls but they werent the same. she is the love of mylife and will be until i die. she says she loves me but does not want a b/f. i left out one thing, after we broke up she went out with my best friend, i thought to myself shes doing it to get back at me. but b4 we went out they were together b4 i cam along. so as time went on she wanted to stop because it was me.him.me and him again. i would do anything to be with her but she doesnt want a b/f "right now". what should i do?

Hun, if she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, you have to respect her decision!... If you keep bugging her, she will get annoyed... Just keep i close eye on her and spend time togethor as friends and be real sweet and nice to her and compliment her all the time! Since Christmas is coming up, get her a gift! Like a bouquet of roses and a teddy bear or something!... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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i cant stop cracking my nuckles and their already all swollen and stuff and i know theyll hurt alot when im older if i dont stop but i dont know how. does anyone know how to stop cracking nuckles? ill rate! please help!

Yeah i know what you mean! I do it too! Lol. Well, put a rubberband on your wrist and snap it instead of cracking your knuckles and eventually it will become a habit... i hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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my relationship of 5 years is going down the drain. we have a one and a half year old. today he got upset because he could not find me. he was at work and i went to school to do some papers. when he got off of work he called me a bitch and a whore and he did not believe me that i was at school. i was about to go back to school for class so he hid my makeup, messed up my hair, and threw laundry around the house. then he followed me to school with his bright head lights on. my son was crying and i told my boyfriend to change his diaper and put him to sleep while i go to school cuz he was fussy. his reply was he was not going to do shit. i am stuck as what to do. i do not work much cuz i am a college student. is it ever ok to tolerate this kind of behavior. it is becoming regular. what should i do and how can i do it? i am bad at making decisions, especially the right ones. thanks for listening.

OMG, talk to him and tell him that you will give him ONE more chance, but if he blows it, your gonna leave him! If he screws up, try to live with a friend nearby or your parents if they are nearby or just get your on apartment... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Hey, I'm stuck in this bad situation. I like two guys. Well, one guy I like is really sexual, like I've never done anything with him, of course since I'm only 14.. And the other guy well hes like great, he always calls me beautiful and really cares for me but always says that I like the other guy. Who would you choose? I think I have an idea, but I'm not so sure. Thanks!

The one who really cares for you for sure! I mean, the other guy who is sexual might try to forcey you to do stuff... i hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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