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ok, im 14 and have loved this girl since i met her in 6th grade,,,,, we went out when i was in 7th near the end of the year. we lasted until the end of the first month of summer, the reason we had ended the realtionship is because she thought i cheated on her, which i didnt but her mind was made up. after that i didnt know what to do, i tried to date other girls but they werent the same. she is the love of mylife and will be until i die. she says she loves me but does not want a b/f. i left out one thing, after we broke up she went out with my best friend, i thought to myself shes doing it to get back at me. but b4 we went out they were together b4 i cam along. so as time went on she wanted to stop because it was me.him.me and him again. i would do anything to be with her but she doesnt want a b/f "right now". what should i do?
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Hun, if she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, you have to respect her decision!... If you keep bugging her, she will get annoyed... Just keep i close eye on her and spend time togethor as friends and be real sweet and nice to her and compliment her all the time! Since Christmas is coming up, get her a gift! Like a bouquet of roses and a teddy bear or something!... I hoped i helped!! :)
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Well...I am a girl, and I know that when girls say that they "don't want a boyfriend", most of the time they actually mean it. I mean who knows maybe she does still like you and she's just taking some time off to clear her head. Another thing is that she most likely WAS trying to make you jealous when she went out with your friend. She probably figured that since he was an easy target anyway, she might as well make you jealous. Also! Since she thinks that you were cheating on her, maybe she's trying to make you REALLY want HER again, and not the other girl...even though there never really was another girl, she just thought that there was. Anyways what I'm really trying to say is, GIVE IT TIME. Girls NEED time. Trust me I know. If she really loves you like she says she does, she will come back for you. By the way, most girls mean it when they say that they love someone. Just live life normally, and try to stay friends with her...being friends will make her miss when you were more than friends!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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