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Hey!
Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!

Girls always fight just dont talk to her and she ll come back to you..if she s a tru friend
good luck
((xo-Kalene-Ox))

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

It sounds like you may be not to be like mean and its not a bad thing at all..but see what she feels about you tell her how you feel...
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

If you still love him give it another shot..good luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

NO it deffintly doesnt i was dared that once before to and i felt soo grose after wards i mean if you felt grose afterwards then you are deff not a lebian if u kinda enjoyed it u may be and being a lesbian isnt a bad thing...but i dont think you are one!! good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Well I need help, and im asking you to help me, please.. Well me and this guy (he's 13m and im 14f) ill call him Chi.. We met online... And we have almost everything in common-even some alot of the fears.. Chi is like really kind, so far, but we never met in real life.. I met him on xanga..I think i like him and im not sure if i should say that i like him, im afraid it might scare him away forever.. What do you think i should do? ~~The Suicidal Punk~~

Dear The Suicidal punk,
A guy online...hmm i dont know about that he could be older ask for like a picture or maybe he could call you and see if he sounds thirteen or looks it because you never know..but ask him how he feels about you and if he says he feels some feelings for you tell him you feel the same...tell me how it went
Best of luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =)

I always watch 13 going on 30 and Sweet home alabama is one of my favs as well, um.. I also watch elf alot thats realy funny but it is a christmas movie? umm..Sweetest thing never get sick of that one!! good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying

If he was drunk he prob wont remeber nething in the morning and prob doesnt no what hes doing hopefully in the morning he ll wake up nd say what the hell did i jus do if not get lots of ben and jerry icecream lots of movies 2 boxes of tissues and cry your heart out hunnie..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i am 14/f and i'm in 8th grade...i have tons of make-up but i can never put it on quite right!! i can do mascara and concelor and i can do the blush and the lips that i can do good...but i have a horrible time doing the eyes...i dont know why but everytime i try to do them i just cant do it right..and it looks really bad! i cannot do eyeliner at all! and the eyeshadow just dosent work for me...does anyone have any tips that might help me be able to put it on alittle better?

well i use mac makeup and first i put on this shimmer color its liek a gold but it jus looks like a lil sparkle behind the dark eye shadow and then i put the darker shadow on its like a taupe and i no that sounds like weird but its very natural and makes you look rele pretty dont go wit a pink or a blue or even a white thats soo 6th grade..upgrade it a notch have fun with it!!
GooD luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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My dog is going on ten (thats like around 70 in human years) he's always been kinda weird but I love him so much. He's on medication because he's a shar pei and has a short attention span and stuff. His meds are kinda like the add medication for dogs. Anyways he also has seizures. He doesn't get them to often but when he does they scare me a lot. To top it all off about a month or two ago he has to have a tumor removed from his left armpit so that he wouldn't die. Recently we've noticed its come back on the other leg. The vet can't do anything about it and he's going to die. I don't know how I'll survive without him. I've known this dog since I was like 4 and can't remember not having him. Please help me to figure out what to do when he is gone. I no I'll miss him a lot.

Well ask your parents if you can get a new dog..and fall in love with him i remeber when i lost my dog i cried so hard but its okay...jus spend as much time wit him as u can..
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

no..
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not?

Well depends how far away that is from you..nd i think that if you dump him ull be rele upset expecially if you love him but i mean he ll meet new girls at his new school..so maybe you should..
Good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

hell yea have a blast your only like a year younger or 2!! You only live once!
Good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy.

Break up wit him before you go back to school because then he ll think u were jus going out wit him to get a present..good luck 2 ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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im 14.. My ex boyfriend ( of 9 months) is now going out with this other girl who is his best friend. I still love him very much.. and im almost positive that he still has major love feelings for me (but extremely sectretly and doesnt want to show it..you can just tell). Anyways, i love him so much, but sometimes he's not the best guy for me, but i can NOT GET over him . :( .. its so confusing but plz help! what do i do?

Stand up and stop crying and find a new guy hes moved on so should you!! I know it hurts happened many times to me but life goes on..try to get him jealous liek hes getting you jealous!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i have the habit of bitting my nails. =( i dont want to bit them...but i cant stop! i would do anything to stop bitting them!!! i dont want to bit them anymore and everytime i try to stop i just can't stop myself from bitting them! PLEASE...if you have any ideas on how to stop, please tell me!!!

get acrulics on and they wont come off soo you cant bite them lol or put on nail polish and then it will taste rele bad when you bite them..haha funy ? good luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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okay I'm not ugly I get compliments all the time
but I don't I feel like I'm ugly and i can't love myself I'm not fat but think I am.my friends love me and I like to be on the spot light ,I'm really trying to love myself.I had boyfriend ,we broke up because I was moving.now I miss him bad.I don't show it.It been three years and I can't find a boyfriend.that only makes me think I'm ugly but know I'm not,I'm really confused .how can I love myself and find a loving boyfriend.

Do stuff to make you feel good about yourself work out that makes you feel rele good after you do it get some cool new outfits that make you look great get some makeup that enhances ur beauty work on some new hair dues and i bet u ll feel beautifuL!
Good luck 2 ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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ok so im goin to start off with the story..me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year and 9 months...and this new gurl popped up in the picture and shes "just a friend"...and me im not liking this..well one night he left my house and acted like he was goin home and goes over to her house to show her his new car soo he says..well i fliped out and yelled at him..soo now its been about 2 months and this is still goin on and i have told him i didnt like it and to stop..but its like he doesnt care what i say they hug in the hall talk on the phone text eachother when im with him..and i cant take it anymore..i have tried to talk to her about it and told her she need to lay off but she just dont get it..i need to know what to do about this cause im all out of clues..please help me soon..thanks..--BabyGurl--

Thats wrong!! you cannot take that dump him that is soo not fair to you..i cant believe that he did that to you..move on or mabee do the same stuff to him..and see how he feels bout it then say see..how it feels..get him back aww ii feel soo bad..good luck to you
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????

I'd give up hes way to old for you rite now..maybe when your older things would work out but you cant run after someone whos just not into you at the moment..i bet you hes moving on i sugest you do to...good luck hun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok there is this guy I really like and he really likes me we talk sometimes but only over the internet because I live in wisconsin and he lives in new jersey... I really like him and I asked him to come visit me for the summer.. he said he would love to and he will plan on it... I really like him but is this bad??

I am 14
He is 18

You guys live really far away but i have a long distance relationship to but its only like an hour away and we ve been going out for 8 months but we are the same age...umm it depends if u ever met him before he may seem rele sweet but hes 18 hes into alot more things then you like sex mi friend got into something like this and was rapped..i think that you should try to find some guys around where you live meet up wit him this summer and see how things go but follow yur heart

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Okay, so some of you may remember me asking a question about going out with a guy 2 days after I broke up with another one. Well, I took that advice and now Ricky and I have been dating upwards of a month.

But lately I've been having second thoughts! Like, everyone I talk to says that we make a weird couple, and I'm starting to agree with them! Like, he's the Great American Redneck (seriously), with almost the entire stereotype of the word! He goes hunting, fishing, drinking, and wears camoflage(sp?) to school, and is in LOVE with country music. He wants to be a mechanic, loves racing and cars. He's like, the complete OPPOSITE of my type. AND he's obsessed with me!

And I'm so much different. I'm the, I guess you could say, rocker chick/goth. I do like country music, but I'd take a good metal/rock song over a country song any day of the week. I can't STAND hunting or camping of any kind, and I will not TOUCH beer. Yes, I'd love to know how to change a tire and possibly fix a few common engine malfunctions, but other than that, I really don't care much about cars. If it runs, GOOD. If it doesn't, OH WELL.

It's not that I don't like him, 'cause I really do. It's just that he's so different from me, and I'm just not sure. I've never dated someone like him. All the guys I've dated have pretty much been "bad boys" or something like that.

My question is, should I stay with him despite our differences? I do like him, but it's just... Strange.

Oposites attract and you like hima nd he likes you who cares what your friends say the onlee reason that your questioning this is because they said something who cares what they think he seems liek an awesome kid nd he doesnt care what ppl think...i think he sounds like a great guy i say you keep him...but folow ur heart..good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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