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Last Update: June 15, 2005
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okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing! (link)
you cant stop comparing! its a natural thing..it happens without u being able to control it! just dont compare yourself so bad that you start gettin depressed about ur own body and just remember everybody does it. why the hell would you be lezo?


I have a blushing problem. Whenever I think about blushing or see my crush, I start blushing. My friends are like "your face is always red!" It's become like a habit now. How can I stop blushing like this? (link)
tell ur stupid friends to get a life and to come up with something better to talk about than "ur face is always red!" Cant ppl mind their own business??


okay i like this guy and i just talked to him and he said he could see me as a potential girlfriend, but i have no diea what that means. He aslo just got out of a dirty breakup (they were goin out for 8 months) so what is he trying to tell me?? please please help!! (link)
hes tryin to tell you he wants you to be his girlfriend! gosh!


ok so this may be a dumb question anyways...i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago n my friend asked him if he still likes me n he goes dont ask me that...could this mean he may still like me..what do u guys think? i told u it was dumb (link)
dont try reading into comments like that..it will only confuse you more and more until ur ripping at your hair.


okay me and my boyfriend decided it would be best to take a "break" during the summer...(im 15 if that helps lol) he said that we would maybe go back out again next year during school, depending on our status at the end of the summer...so what can i do to make sure that we BOTH stay interested in eachother, because i love him soo much, more than anyone!
thanks!
I rate!

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i think if ur lil boyfriend wants a break..its over! find someone new who appreciates you not this lousy cow!


ok, so i am/was really good friends with this girl. she was new to our school nd just because she was new and not totally ugly, every guy fell in love with her, and is in love with her. but, she really isnt that pretty at all , she has big boobs, but i have the same size, she is no skinnier than me, she is a size larger, and im a better cheerleader than her, but they still like her only because she is new. its not her personality cause she is kinda annoying. and she is leaving our school next year but for some reason they think they still have a chance with her. but, i still dont get why everyone likes her better? please help me understand. i rate 5 for not bad advise.
-jazelle (link)
who really cares! so she gets more guys than you, that's life! You need to stop getting into petty acts of competing for the boys.


i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help! (link)
here's an idea..read the other responces to this question which has been already asked a thousand times before!!!


My bf of over six months is really sweet and kind and I love him so much and I know he feels the same for me. But he is just to nice and he doesn't notice that his friendliness is kinda flirty but it doesn't bother me because I am the same way. Though lately theres this one girl that likes him and she hits on him all the time and he doesn't notice it and it's really bothering me so what do I tell him becasue he dumped me before for not telling guys to get off me so what should I tell him. I will rate high! (link)
tell him that you dont like girls flirting with him the same way he didn't like guys flirting with you and he should understand.


ok.. there is this guy that i like named ryan. For the past 2 weeks, everyone has been telling me that he likes me. Well i didnt believe them so i said i didnt like him. Then ryan found out i didnt like him, so 3 days ago he told one of my friends i was hott and he liked me but didnt want to go out with me anymore. Last night at church, he wouldnt even talk to me. I said hey to him and he ignored me. Then after church we was all outside and jordan asked ryan a question about me and he was like "i dont know adn i dont care right now". I havent done nothing to him, but he found out that i still like my ex. Also there is this guy name murphy that used to like me but i never liked him(we were just good friends, not no more tho, i hate him now!!). Well murphy has been telling everyone that i like him and i dont!! Ryan now thinks i like murphy and he thinks murphy likes me. So he is mad at me and wont talk to me. What should i do? (link)
TALK TO HIM!! tell him that you really do like him and that it was all a misunderstanding. And forget about your ex. Move on. And as for that murphy guy confront him and make it clear to him that it's never gonna happen.


I can't work. Yes, you heard me.

School work. I have a hella load of it to do, and I just can't motivate myself to do it. I get out the paper and the pens and the work and I look at it, form the answers in my head, but then just can't seem to write it down.

I want to work. I need to work. But I can't seem to do it. Also, I'm stressed to hell.

Can I have some solutions for stress? But not "listen to relaxing music" and not "take a long hot bath" because music doesn't relax me, and I don't own a bath.

Also, please if you could give me some ways to motivate myself, in general, but to do school work mostly? Drinking water seems to help a little, but I need a lot of "get up and go" attitude right now. Merci. ^_^ (link)
I know what you're talking about. Main problem is laziness, you just can't be bothered. You can't bring yourself to actually try even though you might really have the potential. All i can say is just do it and getting things done means less stress because you would have less on your mind including unfinished business.


My ex & I have become sort of friends now. In a recent conversation he got very hurtful. He told me about his new girlfriend & how much he 'loves' her. I didn't want to seem jealous/hurt so I went along with everything like it was fine. He told me he hasn't thought about me at all since we broke up. Then when I said something about another guy, he said he didn't care. Does this mean something? If he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, would he actually say all this to me? I still have strong feelings for him. (link)
Sounds like he may be trying to aim for your jealousy. Don't fall for it. He was probably looking for a reaction.


Ok. I was planning a surprise for the best teacher of all time. I had the principal call my teacher out of the room and had the assistant principal come in and i discussed the surprise and collected some money. Right after my teacher came back, my friend shouted out, "Mrs. *******, we have a surprise for you." The class went dead silent and I almost burst into tears. During my next class, I wrote him a note explaining that if he had any consideration for other people, he wouldn't have blabbed. He is now officially supermad at me, and I feel terrible. I think I came off as a bitch and i need to fix that by the morning! Ahhh (link)
There's no reason to be feeling terrible. You wrote a letter instead of yelling at him so you're far from being a bitch.


ok so ive just had a rumor spread about me. they say that as soon as this girl at my school (that i dont like)and her bf break up (cause he is moving)that i will ask her out. now im not shady and would never do this to my two best friends. i just wanna no if i should kick the kid who started the rumors ass or should i let it pass and what should i do about it please help me (link)
Let it pass, you're already going to make the person who started the rumour look like an ass once you don't actually do what he said you would so who cares about it!


well i found out a boy likes me and we were talking on aim and he kept saying that im pretty and stuff. . . i am shy and i know how to respond to that but its only nice to say somthign aboutt him back but what should i say, i feel funny :/ (link)
say "thanks..ur not so bad yourself".


Hi my name is shaby
as the question suggests im a totally confused ,insecure guy , a victim of inferiority complex ,introvertism ,shyness,underdeveloped social skills ........
I donot have many friends and i wanna be loved by people ...
i act like a pushover which I shoudnt be......
i also am a coward and i cant ask ppl for favours or refuse people for anything they want even if its for their own good ....
plus i try avoid uncomfortable social events bcoz obviously of which i wont be aware or known ...... nor i will know about other people ......
my mind goes conmpletely blank when someone asks me anything ....
plzzz help me .... im so depresesd i cry to myself ....... i find it dificult to open up ... im so lonely i feel like killing myself
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Your only problem is you don't like yourself. Learn to love yourself and everything else will fall in place. You're just as good as anybody else and you need to realise that.


does anybody have a quick and easy way of learning to swim? (link)
Jump in the deep end and float.


Hey guys and gals, i was wondering if someone would be considered anorexic if they only ate once a day, or even nothing all day and maybe once the next?
Thanks (link)
It's probably not anorexia but it still is pretty unhealthy. Eating is very important for our bodies to stay functioning properly so skipping meals and going without food for one whole day is really serious. If you simply don't get hungry see a doctor to see what is causing you to lose your appetite and how to get it back.


I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!! (link)
It's a part of life and you probably have trouble dealing with it and some confusion because it's the first time somebody you know is going to die. Just take it as it is.


I bought a shirt from Abercrombie today and washed it when I got home (I don't like how their clothes smell). Well, when I got it out of the dryer, I noticed that I accidently grabed a Large and it's wayy too big. I don't know if they'll let me exchange it since it's been washed. What do y'all think? I can't just forget about it becasue it was a 48 dollar shirt. (link)
Return it anyway. They don't know it was washed.


Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong.. (link)
i think you need to stop worrying about celebrities lives and pay attension to your own.




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