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confusing ex-boyfriend
My ex & I have become sort of friends now. In a recent conversation he got very hurtful. He told me about his new girlfriend & how much he 'loves' her. I didn't want to seem jealous/hurt so I went along with everything like it was fine. He told me he hasn't thought about me at all since we broke up. Then when I said something about another guy, he said he didn't care. Does this mean something? If he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, would he actually say all this to me? I still have strong feelings for him.
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Because hes an asshole. If he had feelings for you, hed still be with you, right? there is the possibility that he is tring to stop himself from liking you, so hes saying that. either way thats messed up.
Good luck hun, i hope it all works out.
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well then, your an idiot, because he obviously doesn't care about you. leave him and his new chick alone and kill yourself. have a nice day
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Hmm. It sounds to me like your boyfriend HAS been thinking about you, quite a bit i would imagine, and so him telling you all about this new girl is his way of trying to get you to say that you liked him as well. He was trying to make you jealous, and when it appeared to him like it didn't work, he tried even harder by seeming to appear like he didn't care you were with another guy. I hope that answers your question, and i would do your best to be nice with this guy, because he obviously still has reminents of feelings for you, but if it gets too much you can just say "if your trying to make me jealous, its not working." Good luck!
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I don't believe your boyfriend when he said that he didn't think about you since you broke up. he's lying and ofcourse you can see that. When you said something about another guy, did he right away say I don't care or you ask him if he cares? Coz if he right away said that he doesn't care then maybe he really still have feelings for you. Talk to him again and look at his eyes if he really is telling the truth and read his body language. I'm sure you can find the answer there.
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Sounds like he may be trying to aim for your jealousy. Don't fall for it. He was probably looking for a reaction.
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he could be trying to find out if you still have feelings for him by making you jealous.. or he could seriously be just messing with you and making you mad.. i don't think that he has any feelings for you..it doesn't seem to fit.. just because you are closer as friends doesn't mean that he automatically has started to like you again... guys are generally straight forward.. they don't usually play head games.. so i don't think he would play with your mind before revealing any feelings...
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Well it makes sense thAT YOU WOULD BE HURT IF YOUR EX WAS TALKING ABOUT you, but the faCT THAT he brings up other people in front of you, prolly means that he has deeper feelings for you than you would ever know, i know its kind of strange but its the way guys work.If you want to get his attention, the easiest approach is to kind of not talk to him when he talks about things that hurt you. if he sees that it hurts you more than it makes you feel jealous, im sure that he will stop.
Sincerely
Bran
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