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Ok, so right now I'm the "new kid" at my school, and making friends seems harder than I thought it would be. Everybody already has their little cliques and everything from last year, and it's so much harder for me to meet new people when nobody is intrested in getting new friends. Since the begining of the year I have acted really shy, just because I guess I still haven't really moved on from my friends from my school last year. I also just made cheerleading for my school, so I also need to start getting to know the hirls on my squad too. So basically I am asking for some tips on how to be more outgoing and really get to be able to express mydelf and meet people. Thanks in advance! (link)
the main problem with people namely kids today is that their to concerned about what otherpeople think. you have to get over the act that your not at your old school anymore, because those people will always be your friends. it will probably be easier for you because you have a group of girls that you will have to get to know, but if that doesn work out,lunch is the best window of time to make new friends. just go up... and i know this will be hard... but just go up to the people that you want to sit with and ask"is this seat taken" if they say no then your set, and if they say yes, o well its their loss, and would u really want to be friends wit a mean peson anyways.
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Bran


Ok well im 16/f and i cut my self . On my wrist and dont tell me to use a rubber band cause it dosent work ive tryed or write in a jurnal cause ive done that to.. IT DOSENT WORK. my friend always asks why i have cuts on my wrists and i say oh my cat cut it. and if he finds out he will think im doing it for attention but im really not my mom passed away 3 weeks ago. and my dad abuses me. I have no relatives. so i have no one to talk to . so i turned to cuting . It really helps me but i need to stop . Because of what i tryed to do. Commit suicide but i stoped because my one and only friend caught me and grabbed me and took me home. I have had a really screwed up past . i was raped at the age of 13 and took drugs at 14 so now all of that made me really depressed . I really am loseing faith so someone please tell me what i could do to help i dont have enough money to go to a theropist so dont tell me that. im really scared of my dad so please help..

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i did have the same problem cutting but i turned myself to a brighter side of my life, not saying like ponies and rainbows, but to a better way of thinking.i didlnt really realize that i had stopped cutting until i saw more scars than scabs, and after that i couldnt do it anymore. but i dont know what i would do if i had to go through all the stuff youve been through, i dont think that i wuld ever be able to go back toa normal life. but you just have to know that there is something better out there and that it cant be that far away.Dont know if that helped.

Bran


Why am I totally in love with this guy named brandon ryan jones??? haha (link)
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My ex & I have become sort of friends now. In a recent conversation he got very hurtful. He told me about his new girlfriend & how much he 'loves' her. I didn't want to seem jealous/hurt so I went along with everything like it was fine. He told me he hasn't thought about me at all since we broke up. Then when I said something about another guy, he said he didn't care. Does this mean something? If he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, would he actually say all this to me? I still have strong feelings for him. (link)
Well it makes sense thAT YOU WOULD BE HURT IF YOUR EX WAS TALKING ABOUT you, but the faCT THAT he brings up other people in front of you, prolly means that he has deeper feelings for you than you would ever know, i know its kind of strange but its the way guys work.If you want to get his attention, the easiest approach is to kind of not talk to him when he talks about things that hurt you. if he sees that it hurts you more than it makes you feel jealous, im sure that he will stop.

Sincerely
Bran




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