okay me and my boyfriend decided it would be best to take a "break" during the summer...(im 15 if that helps lol) he said that we would maybe go back out again next year during school, depending on our status at the end of the summer...so what can i do to make sure that we BOTH stay interested in eachother, because i love him soo much, more than anyone!
thanks!
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K2204 answered Friday June 3 2005, 7:49 pm: well, obviously, you dont want to lose him, and you dont want to be on this "break" so they best, and really only thing that you can do, is tell him how you feel! and maybe you two will get back together for the summer! you cant just let this time go by, and not say anything! tell him how you feel!
OrangeChikn answered Friday June 3 2005, 5:26 pm: Try to plan events with him, just as friends. That way even if you guys don't get back together, you can salvage the friendship!
sweetcorn answered Friday June 3 2005, 3:11 pm: You could try and explain to him that you are afraid he might meet someone else! You should find out why he wants a break? Is it because he has someone? thats what you need to find out because they usally say that when they have someone else but if he said at the end of summer i am sure he still loves you.Hope i helped love sweetcorn xx need any more advice inbox me [ sweetcorn's advice column | Ask sweetcorn A Question ]
CarlinTheAdvisor answered Friday June 3 2005, 1:17 pm: Well first off I think its kinda dumb to take a break like that. If you'll love each other than keep in touch on the phone and go on dates and stuff still. Just do whatever you feel is right but if you want him to stay interested make sure you talk to him still!
lilaquidas18 answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:31 am: Okay "Lets take a break" thats the lamest excuse a guy could ever say usually that is another meaning for i dont want to date you anymore and i have no reason. But then again its summer and guys want to do whatever they want with out being tided down.But then again maybe he will come back. Since its summer have fun with your friends and call him like twice a week and see how he is doing..Dont call him everyday cause that might just push him away to.. So just call twice and be like how are you doing but dont let him know all the time you miss him .Hope I helped.. Good luck..
Draak answered Friday June 3 2005, 4:56 am: Even though you may be apart for the summer, is there a possibility of you writing each other? I would suggest sending letters to each other either by snail-mail (U.S. Postal Service) or even e-mail. Letters and cards are a great way to let him know that you are thinking about him and letting him know you still care. Another great way to keep in touch is by Instant Messaging if that is at all possible.
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