Hi everyone!My name is Haley.I have been through a lot of crap and I know from my own experience how to help you. I love giving advice on friends and love life. I'm a cheerleader, dancer and I play field hockey. ask away!!! much
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hey im 14/m and im stumped. i cant thing of sweet things to say to my gf i love her to death and she thinks im the sweetest thing in the world but i like went stupid and cant think of anything else and its really bugging me can someone tell me some things so say i really need it to help me get going again. ill really appreciate it thx everyone. (link)
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ur hott. sweeeeet. damn girl. ow ow. beautiful,
ur cute.
actions speak louder than words. so if ur happy to see her run and hug her! she'll love it! hug her from behind. kiss her on the forehead. its really sweet.
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im very lost,i lost my self!what are some ways to become original? some how i just dont feel like i am me... (link)
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maybe you just need some inspiration. who are some people you admire? singers, actors, etc..
you can express yourself with your clothing, music, and personality.
a lot of teens dont know who they are yet. its completely normal. but decide how you want to be and
then you can do your best at being you!
magazines can help. i like teen vogue. i got a lot of style inspiration from them. but it really all depends on what you want to be.
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Im working on information about being Anprexic, so people could give me some stuff.. like links, (yes i did good, thanks.)
-What do they usally eat?
- how fast do they usally loose weight?
-whats the down effects?
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do u mean anorexic?
and umm they dont eat and they starve themselves.
so you definitely dont want to be it. yea the down
effects would be dying and turning into a stick!
its not healthy!
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Ok well somedays ago i went to this party.....my best friend was there but his g/f wasnt......so he was flirting and doin all that shit with this other girl.....his g/f found out and they broke up.....so we started talkin and she said she was likin me more and more everyday and would consider goin out with me sometime.....well a minute later her "boyfriend" called and siad he wants to get back together with her and he lied to her just so they could get back together.....so she pretty much abandoned me. but she did say "I really do like you maybe as just a friend but you mean a lot to me" I need help!!! (will rate 5's for any) (link)
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it sounds like she was on rebound. she probably likes you but not as much as her "boyfriend".
your friend doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend
so when its over if you still like her you might have a chance. but dont get your hopes up on this girl. she is taken.
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well my uncle reely h8's the music i listen 2 and the things i wear. like bandanna's and beggy jeans with chains on them. cuz am punk. so he reely insults me, and it was really hot 1day, and i didnt wear a jacket ot anything, so i left the house and see him just before my friends house. and he pulls over and asks where im going, and if i want a lift,and he asks why im dressed like that, and why i have my skateboard with me, im like because i want to have it with me, and refuse the offer for the ride because i was nealy there. so then he tells my mom he saw me, and he says to her " i saw him with his skateboard, and he didnt have a jumper or jacket on!" and like he lyks to be mean to evryone. im getting realy onnoyed now. what do i do.
p.s, by the way i asked another question like this but in this one thers more detail (link)
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you should explain to your uncle that you have your own style and your free to express yourself. if
he doesnt like it then thts his problem. i think you
should tell him to leave you alone! lol
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Okay so I sit with 4 other girls at my lunch table. 2 of them are really good friends of mine. The one girl, Jen, only sits there cause she has trouble walking. The other girl is friends with my one friend. Anyway, one of my friends, Brittney and her friend Sarah, told Jen that I was saying all this stuff about her when I didnt. Brittney and Sarah were the ones gossiping about her. So Jen freaked out at me and im innocent. My other friend, Ashley tried to tell Jen that the other two were gossiping, but Brittney denied it and Jen called Ashley a liar. Im innocent and I want to avoid a confrontation but how do i prove to Jen that i wasnt the one gossiping and that the other two were? Ive been having to eat lunch in the office cause my "friends" dont want me to sit with them. I also have some dirt on Brittany, and I dont want to stoop to her level, but should I tell people about her? I know it sounds mean but she did wrong and i want her to know how im feeling. Sorry, this was long. I appretiate your help. Thanks! (link)
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they dont sound like very good friends. no
you should not tell people her secrets!!! tht will make them even more mad at you and people will think your a bitch. you should try hanging out with some new groups who dont cause so much drama. if ur friends decide to forgive you then
cool but if not they're loss. your better off with
some real friends.
hope i helped!
if you need any more advice just leave me a message in my inbox!
xoxo,
Erica
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okay. like. i guess you could say im skinny. or normal. but in my opioionn im fat. i always pinch my stomech or w.e and its gross. i have thoughts about being annerexic or belimic. and i dont want to be annerexic cause like i love to eat. and if i could like perge or w.e i sware id be belmic in a heartbeat. and its like i cant stay on a diet im tempted too easily and i exsersize but i mean im sick of the fat on my stomech and i dont do any sports. what can i do. i know my thoughts arnt "healthy" and i want to change it. but the fat on my stomech has GOT TO GO.
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I do sit ups and crunches. Do them when your watching tv or something and also before you go to bed. Start by doing 50 a day then work your way up. Right now I can do like 200 before i go to bed. It might sound obsessive but it really doesn't take me that long and it works. Also get someone in your family to hide the junk food from you. It really helps! and when I get hungry for a snack i eat something healthy like a clementine.
good luck! :)
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Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv (link)
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For all you people that said you shouldn't have a boyfriend at 13. Shut up!!! you can have a boyfriend you should just make sure it doesn't get serious. Also remember anything you do with him could give you a bad rep and make you look like a slut. Anyway,
with parents you have to ease into trust. You could ask them if you could have a boyfriend but not go out on dates and then once they get used to that ask if you could have group dates with friends. or like if you wanna go to the movies your mom could come and just not sit with you. Remember your parents love you a lot and thats why they are doing this. they want to protect you. I think you should act more responsible and then your parents will let you do more stuff.
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ok I have a pool and i go swimming like everyday but my hair is getting very damaged from it. Like I take a shower but my hair just look damaged in a way I can't describe its just not silky. Its kind of like it looks scragly and unbrushed. I don't want to stop swimming.
Does anyone know any products or things I could do to make my hair healthy again. Please help I rate high! (link)
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Use a stronger conditioner and also wet your hair before you go in the pool. Your hair is like a sponge so if it sucks up all the regular water the chlorine won't get in your hair as much. I know this sounds weird but my hair dresser told me that.
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i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy (link)
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awww i love puppies!
here goes my cute names....
kayla
daisy
Cally
Bailey
Bean
Missy
Sandy
Peppy
Fantasia
Baby
Princess
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ok so this saturday is my friends birthday and there is going to be funday at this park (not an amusement park) along with fireworks.. i want to go but my dad got tickets to see a baseball game (only a $10 ticket) and they are staying overnight
half of me really wants to stay home so i can have friends over and have a good time while my parents and family is out..but part of me feels guilty because i saw how disappointed my dad was when i told him i want to maybe stay back
he said i could stay back if i slept over a friends house (i would really stay at my house) but i dont know if i should chose going with my family or staying back
***my fam and i already saw a mets game, tony hawk skate show, and a pro softball game so its not like we never do stuff together..but im alwways hangin with friends**
what would you honestly do in this situation? (link)
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why is everyone saying family? I mean this girl has already done so much stuff with her family. HONESTLY i would go with my friends.
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After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks
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Maybe you should take a bath and make the water colder. It has happened to me to when I'm in the shower TOO LONG and the water is too hot. So keep your showers short and not too hot.
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what are some good ways of getting rid of pimples? like what are some good products so my pimple will go away like REALLY fast (link)
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proactiv....
but if you cant get that at the moment use neutragena deep clean gentle scrub then put on clean and clear advantage acne spot treatment.
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Hello
1.I am on a diet and my mom bought me these chewy wholesome granola bars. I dont know if alot of people eat them...but are bad for you?
2.How many calories and carbs should i have a day for sufficent weight loss?
Will rate 5's and send feedback:)
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1. Granola bars are healthy for you.
2. For example if you have 2000 calories and day but only burn off 1800 the remaining 200 will turn into fat. You should eat the amount of calories that you know you can burn off.
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ok...so I have wen't to the beach this summer right and I hung out with this girl one day and she asked for my phone number so that we could hang out again tommorw (I am a girl and we were just being friends) so yea gave her my cellular...and all week we hung out and stuff and I wen't to her house and she came to myine and we just did the normal stuff that girls do and well...she has this brother who was crushin on me and I did not think anything about it I mean at school it happens alott and I am just the girl who they crush on and ask out...I AM SO NOT BRAGGING! I am just saying this to tell you that I did not know the brat was hanging around me the whole wek just for her brother so that he could get my phone number and call me every two seconds and worry the piss out of me so COULD ANYONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO BLOCK A NUMBER ON A VRIZON WIRELESS PHONE! P.s I do have a b/f and he is on vacation right now and he is comeing back tommorw! ANd yes I have begged this dude to PLEASE STOP CALLING AND TEXTING ME! BUT HE WILL NOT! (link)
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tell him your a lesbian. That should get him to leave you the hell alone!
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i always call my bf. He nerver calls me! whats up with him? (link)
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he is scared of the phone.
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ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help. (link)
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You can send him an email or IM him.
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how do you like a guy like a bf but not attracted to him? dont say that means you dont like him or the personality thing because wait i dunno why you shouldent say that. ill rate 5! (link)
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you like him as a friend and im sorry to say it.
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ok my mom is WICKED over protective. tonite i wanted to go to this little concert thats going on at 6:30 about 20 minutes away. I asked her if i could go with my older cousin and shes like "well you didnt even tell me what time or where.." and i told her where and shes like "NO WAY" and it seems like she's totally against the people that live there ( even though they arent bad) and plus I was meeting up with some of my friends there. How can i get her to let me go to SOMETHING?? oh yeah..I'm 14 (link)
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Why does she hate the place your going so much? Tell her that you will stay with your older cousin the whole time and be back right after the concert is over.
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Hey, this is classicbetty. I just dyed my hair and it came out way darker than expected. I know it'll fade soon, but I was wondering if any of you knew about how long that would take? Thanks! (link)
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Get a deep cleansing shampoo for getting out clorine it will get out some of the dye.
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