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my uncle with a prob!
well my uncle reely h8's the music i listen 2 and the things i wear. like bandanna's and beggy jeans with chains on them. cuz am punk. so he reely insults me, and it was really hot 1day, and i didnt wear a jacket ot anything, so i left the house and see him just before my friends house. and he pulls over and asks where im going, and if i want a lift,and he asks why im dressed like that, and why i have my skateboard with me, im like because i want to have it with me, and refuse the offer for the ride because i was nealy there. so then he tells my mom he saw me, and he says to her " i saw him with his skateboard, and he didnt have a jumper or jacket on!" and like he lyks to be mean to evryone. im getting realy onnoyed now. what do i do.
p.s, by the way i asked another question like this but in this one thers more detail
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Your uncle seems very stereotypical, and that's the thing that bothers him. You're not the way he wants to see you. Explain to him that you're still the same person, but your music interests, and clothing interests have changed somewhat. Explain to him that skateboarding not only helps lose weight, but it's fun. [I'm not calling you fat, so please don't take it that way.] Anyways, Just tell him you have your own style, and that if he doesn't like it, he should just get over it, or stop talking to you. I got annoyed like that too when all my family said stuff to me about dressing different and listening to different music. [I used to be like you. I still am, sorta, but, now I don't even call myself punk or whatever. I use my own style.] Now, I don't even care what people think of me, ESPECIALLY family. If people don't like me for the changes I've made, or who I've become, then, hey, that's really too bad for them. He'll get over it, but in the mean time, talk to him about it. I hope I helped you in some way.
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Go for anything you wanna do. It's your life, and if no one likes it, fuck them. Just do your own thing. If you wanna be goth, go ahead. =] I went through that too. Haha. You can be anything you wanna. Have fun trying to do your thing.
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you should explain to your uncle that you have your own style and your free to express yourself. if
he doesnt like it then thts his problem. i think you
should tell him to leave you alone! lol
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