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Friendship Trouble
Okay so I sit with 4 other girls at my lunch table. 2 of them are really good friends of mine. The one girl, Jen, only sits there cause she has trouble walking. The other girl is friends with my one friend. Anyway, one of my friends, Brittney and her friend Sarah, told Jen that I was saying all this stuff about her when I didnt. Brittney and Sarah were the ones gossiping about her. So Jen freaked out at me and im innocent. My other friend, Ashley tried to tell Jen that the other two were gossiping, but Brittney denied it and Jen called Ashley a liar. Im innocent and I want to avoid a confrontation but how do i prove to Jen that i wasnt the one gossiping and that the other two were? Ive been having to eat lunch in the office cause my "friends" dont want me to sit with them. I also have some dirt on Brittany, and I dont want to stoop to her level, but should I tell people about her? I know it sounds mean but she did wrong and i want her to know how im feeling. Sorry, this was long. I appretiate your help. Thanks!
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well i think that u shouldn't be friends with any of those girls b/c none of them r true friends b/c their just a bunch of drama queen gossip girls.. try to find a new group of friends to hangout with.. be open to them andnice.. and try to avoid drama! well i hope i helped good luck! bye!
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I think that if they were really your friend then they would have believed you. I think you sound like a really nice person and i believe that you should have no trouble meeting new. it gets you out of eating in the office you know? Usually people that gossip like that it bites them in the butt and they will get what they deserve but you dont need to do anything. It makes you the better person if you dont. If you tell them about the dirt you would be gossiping to and then that doesnt prove that you were innocent so if you dont say anything then they will figuare it out but finding new people to sit with is the positive way to go. I believe you can do it.
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they dont sound like very good friends. no
you should not tell people her secrets!!! tht will make them even more mad at you and people will think your a bitch. you should try hanging out with some new groups who dont cause so much drama. if ur friends decide to forgive you then
cool but if not they're loss. your better off with
some real friends.
hope i helped!
if you need any more advice just leave me a message in my inbox!
xoxo,
Erica
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