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k, so me and the ex. we dated for over 2 years. he broke up with me because he thought we were too serious. it's been about a month now, he's over it. i'm not. what are things i can do to completely get over it, besides hang out with friends (they all work a lot), find another guy (im not interested yet), or write. please help me.

Well I think you just answered your own question. Those are the basic things that you can do. I also sugest finding a new hobby, something you two never did together that you can do by yourself.

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Today the old navy opened in my town. I went shopping of course and they had a board saying We are hiring. I took one of the tags and went home and applied over the computer (thats the only way to apply). Do you guys think that i have a good chance of getting hired considering they just openned and they had signs saying "we are hiring" Or do you think they would have all of their employees that they would need.

thank you

Old navy is famous for not removing their help wanted signs.. but there still could be a good chance you'll get called back.

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i have had braces for 3 weeks and im going back in 5 days
and there just metal
when do you get colored braces
HELPPPPPPP

Well they should have the color bands on them now, but if they don't it will be soon. I had gold ones put one from day one bc i didn't like the silver metal look.

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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!!

If he is such a wonderful guy, then I'm not really sure why you'd want to break up with him. The trouble about high school relationships is that girls hang on to the guy too tightly. Go have fun with your friends, leave your man at home. I'm not telling you to cheat on him or anything, but don't let him stop you from having fun with the girls.

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Well, I'm 14 and I'm a female. I have always been very self concious about my stomach because I'm not skinny - but I'm not fat either.

Is there any diet plans that I can get online for free to help me eat better? I'd like to start getting in shape and getting rid of my fat.

The best way to go isn't a diet, but a lifestyle change. To loose weight and keep it off you have to totally change how you live your life. Drink water, not soda.. switch to only whole wheat grains, and try your best to cut out fatty meats like beef. I wish you luck and sorry that I don't have a website to give you.

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If I look like this..(Im the one on the right)

http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y7/waioluaiai/?action=view¤t=noo-1.jpg&refPage=&imgAnch=imgAnch1

What are some tips to make me look more like Jessica Simpson? Thanks so much!

I'm not sure why you'd want to look different then you already do, but if you really want to look like Jessica you need to dye ur hair a lighter shade of blonde and get like a spiral perm, ur hair is flat and her fair is allways very full and pretty looking. Also I sugest very bright makeup applied lighly esp. blues and pinks.

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13/f
can you break your hymen from playing soccer for 6 years straight?

Yup.. and a lot of girls do break it from playing sports.

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Do people tend to make more guy friends in high school?

It all depends on the kind of people you go to school with. The best tip I have is just hang out with everyone, don't focus on getting guys to be your friends.. bc you will get a reputation you don't want!

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Ok, weird question...

My son is 8 years old and his height and weight is quite normal. He is at about the 50th percentile on the charts.

His feet have not grown in 3 years. He has worn the same size 1 shoes since kindergarten!

I never thought anything about it until we were shoe shopping last night and my husband seemed worried and said we should call the doctor.

Do you think it's normal and that he has slow feet, or maybe his growth is stunted??

Thanks for the advice!

I doubt his growth is stunted.. but a trip to the doctor on something like that is always a good call if you can afford it.

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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.

I know you say any advice will help, but you are not going to like mine. I say that it is best for you to wait for a few years, say untill you are Jrs. in High school and if you still think you love eachother then have sex. If you MUST have sex now, use protection.

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whenever i eat mi stomach bloats very bad.
so i try not to eat so it doesnt stick out.
does anyone know what i can do to make it not bloat?
please hlp me and sometimes when i eat it hurts and makes me want to puke what should i do?

It sounds like you may have a gas problem. Take gas ex before you eat, it will decrease discomfert

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Is it strange to sing to music as a 13 year old guy that ranges from like girly stuff to rap even if I don't even like the song or artist???

I hate to break it to you hun, but you are perfectly normal. I am an 18 yr old girl and I still listen to everything from punk to pop to R&B... some people just like a lot of different music, nothing wrong with it.

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My two best friends just recently started drinking over the summer. I have been away and just found out about this recently. I however, dont want to start drinking they are, I think it is pretty pointless and I dont need alcohol to have a good time. I KNOW that I am able to say no if I am put into a pressuring situation by them, but I am afraid our friendship isnt the same anymore. It seems like they want to move on to bigger and better things, but they truly are my best friends in the world. What do I do? 15/f

The most important thing to remember is that true friends would not care if you didn't want to drink. If they are only going to hang out with people that distroy themselves by getting trashed, then those are not the people you want to surround yourself with.

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i have bags under my eyes and i would really like to know how to get rid of them because they make me look so tired all the time. is there anything i could do to get rid of them without having to buy anything? if not, what should I buy?

Love, Danielle

While getting a goods night sleep is the best way to fix ur problem, putting warm tea bags on ur eyes works too.

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Last night was my last day of my sugar pill and me and my boyfriend had sex i was still on my period like a little bit. what are my chances of getting pregnant?

You should be fine, but next time use a condom.

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I am on the depo-provera (sp?) But not even two days after i had gotten the shot i had un prottected sex and the guy came inside me. I was wondering what the chance of me getting preg is and what are some signs i would see within the first 3 weeks to a month?

Please help im really scared!

The most sure way to tell is by buying a pregnancy test. All the other signs can be imagined if you are too worried about it.

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For the past 2 years I have gotten really close with this guy who is A LOT older than me. He's 36 and Im 14/f But latley we've gotten really close. Like were dating? I don't know. its not like he's a pervert or anything. But I've i guess fallen in love with me. We're both musicians and we share an amazing passion together. I can stop it whenever I want to , but i can't. I guess you can't help who you fall in love with. The thing is that no one knows about it and hes married! So im really confused. but if i tell my mom or anyone there goes my lessons with him and band and everything ive worked for. and i love him. what should i do and is this okay that were together?

Honey, I'm going to try to give you advice here without sounding too harsh. I realize it is hard to find someone that you really connect with, but this man is not the person you think he is. For one, he's married, which most likely means he isn't in love with you. He is also a criminal if he is having any type of a sexual relationship with you, even if it isn't actual sex. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from him for awhile because he does not love you.

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i have a few questions about the hymen.. what is the hymen? and where is it located and how far in is it in the vagina??

The hymen is a membranous tissue structure that partly obstructs the vaginal opening. It breaks because of force, but that force does not have to be sexual intercourse. The following website has a drawing that shows the location.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen

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I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and we are both virgins, and today we were making out and things were getting a little "hot and heavy" so to speak and he told me that the wants to lose his virginity to me. I was a little shocked and didn't know what to say in return, so I said something stupid like "Oh? Really?" and he said "Yes, because I love you and I want to experience everything with you" He is the only boy I've done anything with other then french kissing, and I know that I'm not ready to have sex right now. But I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings when I didn't say anything back to him when he told me. I guess I was afraid that if I told him I wanted to lose my virginity to him [which I do....someday] he would want to have sex right then and there. What should I do? Any advice at all would be wonderful.

Thank you

The best thing to do is to trust you're heart. I know that sex is tempting, but it is not just something you want to do for the heck of it. If he is the right guy, he will wait for you to be ready. If you have sex with him soon please make it bc you want to and not because you are afraid of hurting his feelings.

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my mom my brother and my sister all do drugs and i no thats gonna be me one day hiding from the cops like my brother...im constly fighting the urdge to cut agian...not that many people like me because im emo/gothic/scean...my mom has a deadly dease....my other sister jen well shes a drunk and we never no where she is or if shes even alive..i get made fun of also.......i always have to face a smile or a laugh bc i dont want anyone to knoe how i realy feel ... i have people i dont even no makeing fun of me...every bf i have had has beet me up....school is hell for me....i always have to make my friends feel better and totly forget about how i feel bc i cant stand when people feel the way i do.i would be cryin now but no i have to fight it bc then ppl ask ?s that i dont wanna awser so yes i cry alot also....and my friends tells her boyfriend dan everything i dont want him to know and i dont trust him not to tell other people..my friends say im beautiful but i think im not.I HATE MYSELF.im a huge mess who is not going to get help from a pro counsler beacuse i have befor and they make things worce....i have no one to talk to...im hopeing maybe someone can help me,make me feel better

First of all I want to say I'm very sorry that you are thrown in this situation. The best way to stop getting made fun of is to stop caring. Don't cut to get them to stop, it will just make it worse. You need to learn to love yourself, and then everyone else will love you too. I know this from experience. One other thing, dump the guy who beats you up, it isn't worth it. I know when i was younger, I would have taken anything to have a boyfriend bc I thought i needed one. But I now know that I am a strong woman, and I need no one. Hope this helps. Bye

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