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im a huge mess(pls read)
my mom my brother and my sister all do drugs and i no thats gonna be me one day hiding from the cops like my brother...im constly fighting the urdge to cut agian...not that many people like me because im emo/gothic/scean...my mom has a deadly dease....my other sister jen well shes a drunk and we never no where she is or if shes even alive..i get made fun of also.......i always have to face a smile or a laugh bc i dont want anyone to knoe how i realy feel ... i have people i dont even no makeing fun of me...every bf i have had has beet me up....school is hell for me....i always have to make my friends feel better and totly forget about how i feel bc i cant stand when people feel the way i do.i would be cryin now but no i have to fight it bc then ppl ask ?s that i dont wanna awser so yes i cry alot also....and my friends tells her boyfriend dan everything i dont want him to know and i dont trust him not to tell other people..my friends say im beautiful but i think im not.I HATE MYSELF.im a huge mess who is not going to get help from a pro counsler beacuse i have befor and they make things worce....i have no one to talk to...im hopeing maybe someone can help me,make me feel better
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sometimes, and im speaking from experience, you just need to hear it straight. 1. drugs are bad, as you know, so have the willpower to stay off them. 2. cutting isnt the answer. 3. dont concentrate on oyur mother, or jens problems now, you have your own. 3.choose your men wisely, dont rush into tings get to know them. 4. let maybe one person know how ou feel, a problem which is shared is half way there to being solved, two heads are better than one. and please dont hate yourself because of other people.
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heyy sweetheart first off im so sorry that your being put through all this crap no one should have to go through this. please dont cut yourself, even though it may feel like its giving you the satisfaction that you want, there are other ways to make yourself feel ok. get some real good friends, stay away from people who try to infulence you especially the boys. its ok if you dont want to go to a counselor thats totally understandable but that means you just have to be taht much stronger for yourself. always stick up for yourself and have condfidence in yourself. try and make some really good friends you can relate to and hang out with them to get your mind off of your family for a while. although its probably not your responsibility, try and take care of your mom and let her know that you love her. ignore the people who make fun of you and act like your better than that never stoop to their level. when your friends tell you your beautiful, even if you dont, say really? thanks a lot your real pretty too. it will boost your self esteem so much when you start thinking positive about yourself. anyways hun i hope i helped feel free to talk to me anytime x0xchristinaxx on AIM anytime so much luck to you take care of yourself <3
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You dont have yahoo or messenger?It would be easier for me to talk to you there.Anywayz im making a myspace so give it to me and i will help you more there.What i have to say is,dont let them influence you in ANY way.This is a warning.Your present life maybe sucky but it is in YOUR hands to make the future better.How?By taking care of your health and education.Imagine yourself one day with a college diploma and you get to have ANY DREAM JOB you EVER wanted...wow and youll be rich,successful and everything you want!You just need to have an aim in life,a GOAL.And to reach that you have to plan how youre going to reach it.And dont NOT cry,keeping it in too much will get you scary sideaffects.You can even FAINT from not letting it out.God created you to make the world a better place and NOT to cut yourself.Cutting yourself will only get you skin disease and scars.Scars NOT only on your skin,but will scar your life,when you grow up and see these scars,you will be like oh,i remember why i did this and youll get all depressed.I think you should also turn to religion more because if you seek God for guidance,he will help you.Being close to God makes you see life in a more beautiful way.If youve tried telling your family to stop what theyre doing and they DONT then its their choice.If they intend on RUINING their life then thats also their choice.At least you have a BIG example infront of you of what happens to people that take drugs.About your boyfreinds beating you up,its because you let them take advantage of you.If a guy TRIED to even THINK about hitting me...oooh,i woulda...haha(poor guy)This is considered abuse and you shoulda reported it to the police RIGHT AWAY.If ANY guy EVER hits you,dont sit around wondering what to do,DUMP THEM AND CAUSE THEM A SCANDAL!!GO tell everyone what he did and tell the police and hell NEVER think of talking to girls again!You should really stick to religion,learn more about your religion and about christianity,jeudism,and islam.I have a website for islam if youd like to check that out.You need to think about how to make your life great and at the same time end up in heaven.Id be more than glad to talk more and help you,just give me your myspace or whatever you have and i will see you there.
my myspace is [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) just made it though so its kinda crappy lol
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First of all I want to say I'm very sorry that you are thrown in this situation. The best way to stop getting made fun of is to stop caring. Don't cut to get them to stop, it will just make it worse. You need to learn to love yourself, and then everyone else will love you too. I know this from experience. One other thing, dump the guy who beats you up, it isn't worth it. I know when i was younger, I would have taken anything to have a boyfriend bc I thought i needed one. But I now know that I am a strong woman, and I need no one. Hope this helps. Bye
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Hey. i am pretty much busy today (August 21st) But If you want to IM me any time between 1-7 <3. My screen name is CheerHs OX --> just tell me your the girl from Advicenators.. No one should feel this way.. you can talk to me about it if you want.. Please dont cut yourself. Your not like your brother, sister, mother either so dont be afraid .. somtimes you need to just cry or else it builds upa nd you result in cutting.. =( i wish i could give you a hug.. seriously..
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