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Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do.... (link)
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i think that you should talk to your parents and tell them how you feel and also tell them that you want to seek professinal help it will be better for you!!!hope i helped-tish
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i have been best friends with Alex for 4 years. This year, i found out that he likes me. And i like him. He has attempted to ask me out but i am always busy with something else. I feel very bad because he doesnt understand how much i really care about him. He is also known as the school hottie and he flirts with all the girls at out school. I dont want to go out with someone who flirts with everyone right in front of me; what do i do?? (link)
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hey, i think you should tell him how you feel i mean mabye if you tell him how you feel he would stop flirting with everybody in the front of you.give it a try.-tish
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Okay well here it goes.I have a friend named Jordyn and she is a girl.Well she tells everyone everything that she hears or what you tell her.It sucks cause i really like her but i have to watch what i say around her or what happens cause she isn't also afraid to change things around and make things worse than it really is.Is this really a good friend to hang around or no?Also is this a true friend?Please help me!!
Love always,
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i dont think that a real friend is someone who goes around telling other people there sercets if she really does this then shes not a very good friend. i think you should tell her how you feel about her telling everybody your sercets.-tish
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Okay this may sound really dumb or something but it really needs to be answerd cause i really need the help.My friend had wanted to kill herself and then her mom had put her into a center to get the help that she needs(good for her!!).But the problem is that she is on drugs and she drinks a lot and she is only 12 or 13 years old.Well i tries to kill myself a few weeks ago and now i'm fine but my question is that should i be her friend still and hang out with her even though that she wanted to do something that i tried?Cause my fear is that she will want me to think of doing that again?Plzz help.
Thanks again
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think about this why did you want to kill your self in the first place i think that you should go and talk to your friend and try and get her to stop what she is doing thats what friends are for.-tish
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what should i get my grandma for christmas????!!! answer fast plzzz i rate (link)
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i would get her any type of jewlary
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ok, well my best friend scott, has been my friend for ever and well i recently got a b/f named Nelson and ever since he has been so weird. Yesterday scott almost started this huge fight with him...2 days ago he came to nelsons b day uninvited....im really sscared of what scott is going to do next....i love nelson but i dont want him hurt...and i try to talk to scott but he pretends nothing happened...wht should i do! (link)
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hey there, i think scott likes you and that you should tell scott how you feel i mean it sounds to me like scott cares for you very much and dosent want you to get hurt.-tish
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well....i have this friend and its a girl.well she is like a prostatute..she goes around giving boys blowjobs and having sex with some of them and i keep talkin 2 her bout it and tellin her about it but she just wont listen..anyway i need help on what to do..do u hav a thought?!?
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hey,well i think that you should try and sit her down and explain to her what shes doing to her self and tell her again how wrong it is wat shes doing.well i hope this helps!!!!!!!!. -tish
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I am 35 and my older sister is 37.
I am a creative, intellectual type and she is a practical, common sense type. She does not understand me or why I love to read so much. She considers my creative writing a waste of time. What I love, she has no value for. What can I do or say to help her understand me? We are so different. She is a great sister otherwise. (link)
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i think that you should tell her how you feel about it and show her why creative writing means alot to u
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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do? (link)
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i think you should pick Christianity!!!!!. tish
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I'm 16 and I'd like to try out for the school musical, but I'm really nervous. what should I do to have a good audition? (link)
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hey there, i think that you should pratice and relax im sure you are ganna to great!!!!.-tish
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My best friend is pretty than me, more popular than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, just BETTER than me. And the thing is...I'm EXTREMELY jealous of her, to the point I get MAD at her when she gets more attention than me!! I mean I don't show it, but inside of me I wanna yell at her. I don't know whats the matter with me!! Today, my band teacher offered to my best friend that he would loan her the skill sax if I wanted to teach her how to play (the saxophone) so then she can join the band. I want her in band because it would be way FUNNER, but now I'm thinking I DONT want her in band. She'll be better than me, prettier than me, funner than me, and nobody will care about ME anymore! I'm so worried. But most of all I'm mad at MYSELF! I dont like getting mad and being jealous of leille but I can't help it!! Any tips on how to stop myself from getting jealous, then mad, at leille? (link)
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hey,i think that you should tell her how you feel if she is a really good friend she would help you get over it.hope this helps.-tish
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OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that. (link)
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i think that you should take the chance you two might just be ment for each other .take a risk.-tish
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i appologize now for this being long...but i just really need some advice!
ima 14 female freshman...
it starts off in 7th grade, me and this guy got 2 gether..we dated for a year. broke up in 8th grade..he messed with sum 7th graders. we were supposed 2 get back 2gther, but he ended up switchin schools. during the summer after 8th grade, we kept in touch..talked on the phone, chilled @ the movies and all that...and yes we were frends wit benefits!!...freshman year started we didnt talk so much, thats wen i met this guy..we dated 4 2 months, and juss a few weeks ago i broke up with him..once my ex boi found owt i was single again..we started talking...(and b4 i broke up wit my boi he told me he would b waiting 4 me!)...so it was true he was waitin 4 me!...we been talkin alot latly! im guessing we do go owt..its juss i dont know if i can trust hiM!..i know how he is..im just scared ima get hurt again!..bkuz he sorta did mess roun wit others back in 7th grade! (link)
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well i think you should tell him how you feel i mean you dont want to get hurt again so i think that you should tell him that and see what he says about it.hope this helps.-tish
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I have a problem: some part of me wants my older sister's approval so much, yet I am nothing like her. She is a good and decent person, if not a little conservative and practical. She is a good role model, but I am not her. I am intellectual, studious and questioning. When I ask her the big questions, she thinks I make a big deal out of little things. But I think she never asks herself the big questions in life or is afraid to.
Why do I want her approval so much? She is a good person and I love her, but why don't I have the fortitude to be my own person? (link)
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hey,i think that you should be happy with your self dont try to be another person its not you be true to who you are.-tish
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my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i? (link)
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well,i think you should talk to your boy friend and tel him how you feel that way you wont feel lonely anymore .as for kissing this other guy i think that would be a bad idea because if you do you might never get your ex back. hope this helps.-tish
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How can you tell when someone doesn't love you anymore? He gives me affection only when I ask for it, but he doesn't give it himself anymore. He gets mad at me a lot. We've been together for almost a decade. I'm still in love, but how can I know for sure if he loves me anymore? He says he does but I don't think he's telling me the truth. He makes me feel like I'm just in his way. I know it's probably time to move on, but I want this to work because we have a child together. Thanks for help in advance. (link)
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well,i think you should tell him how you feel that seems like the best thing to do.-tish
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ok, i am in 6th grade and all my friens have already made out with a guy (well most of them.) i have a boyfriend and we were going to makeout but i chickened out because i have never done it before. this has happened before and i really wannt to learn. how do you make out? i rate 5 for all attempts! (link)
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well, you just let him start and you fallow thats the only way to learn how to kiss
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What are some flirty words you can say to a guy?
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there arent really alot of flrity words but you could play in his hair or you could take his hat or if your good friendz you could sit on him
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Well hi um im like a really paranoid person i guess or something.. and this is going to be kinda long so please help me on what to think.. well my boyfriend hasnt called me and i havent seen him in two days.. well its driving me crazy not knowing whats going on cause i dont know if he is breakin up wit me or what, or even if he left somewhere for the holidays but i would think he would tell me.. but then i think one his friends that like me told him something because ever since i got wit my boyfriend his friend has tried what ever he could to break us up.. so im also wonderin maybe he told my boyfriend something.. i jus dont know and i keep crying.. but ive tried callin his house and ask for him an they jus say he not there real fast and hang up.. so i dont know if he has got em to lie or if he is really not there.. so please help me on what you think id understand if it was hard to help... thanks LADESSA! (link)
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well,i think you should go by his house and find out whats up or if he has a cell phone call him on that .well hope this helps
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Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m (link)
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well,i think that you should give it a try just have faith in the relationship and anythings possible.hope this helps .-tish
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