about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

whats considered sex?
anal? oral? vaginal? when do you really consider you've "lost your virginity"
thanks =)

Vaginal.
I know that all of those other ones are 'technically' sex (Oral Sex, Anal Sex), but you can only get pregnant through vaginal. That's what I consider sex.
I consider those others going PRETTY far with a guy.

-tekcoreht

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 weeks. He asked me to the Christmas Dance. I was thinking of mabye at the end of the dance I would go up to him and say, "I want to give you your Christmas present a little early." Then tell him to close his eyes and when he does then kiss him. We haven't kissed yet. Do you think he would like this?

14/f

That would be really cute, but there's a few things you want to take into consideration.
- If he's kind of a 'contrl freak' he might be a little upset that HE didn't get to make the first move. It might make him feel less 'manly'
- If he's kind of shy then this might embarass he. Are you sure he's ready?

These are just a few things to look at. I doubt that those are something you should worry about. Overall I think it's a cute idea!

-tekcoreht

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I used one of those Ink Refill things for printer ink and now i have ink on my hands. what can i use to get it off? I tried soap, doesn't work. I tried rubbing alcohol, it doesn't work well at all.

thanks in advance!

Try Fingernail polish remover...

-tekcoreht

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Okay so my bf and I have been dating almost half a year (6 months dec 10) his birthday is soon and so is Christmas..so what do I get him? Can you give me any ideas please. He's gonna be 16 if that helps

Well, since we all don't know him this is tough.
Try something he NEEDS-
(IE: Wallet, Belt, Hat, Watch)
Or try making something from the heart
(IE: Picture frame, '100 things I love about you')
Since he's going to be sixteen-
You can get him something special from JUST YOU and everytime he looks at it he'll smile for his keyring for his car. If he's getting a car. Since he is sixteen?

Just some thoughts.

-tekcoreht

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Help! I get gross sweat marks all the time. I've swithched deoderants and I shower daily! How do I get rid of them, please?!

There's this type of deordorant called 'Certain Dri'. It reduces your sweat glands under your arms so that you sweat less. I use it and it works wonderfully.

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I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I want to get him something great for xmas and I want to make him some stuff to. What can I do (take him somewhere or something), give him, and make him? Give me as many ideas that you can! *by the way he is a musician (guitar bass and keyboards) and he loves video games and stuff for PSP and DS if that helps* Thanks in advance!

I don't know how old you are, so I don't know if taking him out for dinner is an opion, but if it is-

Taking him somewhere: Take him to a nice restaurant and maybe go back to your house for a movie. That'd be nice.
Making him something: Since he's into guitars and stuff why don't you make a picture frame and glue guitar picks around the edges and put a nice picture of you two in it. Keyboard- If you have several pictures of you two together why don't you make a keyboard out of pictures.
(IE: The white keys are pictures of you two, and the black keys just stay black so he knows that it's a keyboard.) -- You can make this out of cardboard and construction paper. Very Simple
You also could get him a guitar pick and take rubbing alchol to it if it has any writing on it to get it off and write in Sharpie or a paint pin 'I love you' or the day yall started dating. -- Also, very simple.
For buying him something: Buy him a video game of some sort: Final Fantasy? Grand Theft Auto? Anything he likes. Ask him what game 'he's just dying for'

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why do you think religion is important?

For me it's so that I know I'm living for someone, something. It makes my life feel 'worth while'. Not only does it make it feel worth while, it makes it worth while, because you're living to serve and preach about that someone you're living for.

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im going to see harry potter tonight with some friends. i was windering if the moivie was scary or funny because ive heard both. thanks

It's not exactly scary or funny- it's emotional. It's got it's 'high' and 'low' points. I teared up a few times throughout the movie, but also laughed. Overall it was a wonderful movie. Except they left out a couple of parts from the book.

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Me and my b/f have been dating almost 3 months...I have NO clue what to get him for Christmas. I plan on talking to his mom about it eventually too, but he likes jazz and country music, we're both in band at school, and he's a big gamer. I don't have a whole lot of money, but any guys got any ideas or girls that have been in this position before...ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thx!

Well, since we all don't know him this is tough.
Try something he NEEDS-
(IE: Wallet, Belt, Hat, Watch)
Think of things he really likes-
(IE: Games- Final Fantasy? Grand Theft Auto?)
Or try making something from the heart
(IE: Picture frame, '100 things I love about you')

Just be creative. I know without a doubt that he'll love anything that you give him, because of course, it came from you!

-tekcoreht

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Who sings this song & what's the name of it?

"Don't be shy. Let's cause a scene like all overdramatic lovers do. Lights, camera, heartbreak."

Indie Rock n Roll
By the Killers

I think..

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what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball??

a thong

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Can anyone tell me where I could get those Easton 'Unbreakable' Drum Sticks and prices for them? Thank you!

http://www.midwestpercussion.com/sticks/easton.html

try looking around there.

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My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy!

It's an unwritten rule: Bestfriend's boyfriend is off limits.
It shouldn't matter how much you're 'into' him it's your best friend's dude, let her have him. You might want to let her know that he said he liked you, I wouldn't want to date someone who said they liked someone else. It's very selfish if you take this boy away from your best friend, and chances are if you do she wont be much of a best friend anymore.

Conclusion:
If you really want a boy who goes off and likes other girls then this guy is the guy for you.

-tekcoreht
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.

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If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette?

definitely go with the bemer.
what a luxury car

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My bf didn't kiss me for a long time because he was nervous and didn't want to do anything wrong. We finally did, and it was great since I care about him but otherwise, I didn't really like it. I don't really know how to describe what I didn't like. He opens mouths mouth too much and it's slobbery and wet. Kind of passionate, but wiping off my mouth afterward is definetly not. It reminds he of getting licked by a dog or something. Yuck... I don't know what to do because we've kissed several times since that and they all seem the same. Should I say anything? I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know how scared he is of doing "wrong". Please help!!! I care about him so I don't want kissing, a display of affection, to be what gives us problems. That just seems silly to me.

Instead of out right telling him that what he's doing isn't affecting you, why don't you just show him what you'd rather want. With my boyfriend I like to change 'tempos' randomly. It kinda let's the GIRL have control over the kiss. Whenever he's opening his mouth too big go a closed mouth kiss for a bit and then try the opened mouth one again. During the kiss just try different styles and techniques YOU like and hopefully he'll catch on. This might take a few times for him to get used to and hopefully follow the flow.

Conclusion:
I know that a lot of girls they 'let the boy take the lead and you just follow' if you want his kissing style to be different you need to help him by showing him what you want. Otherwise he's left in the dark.

-tekcoreht

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ok so I have this back problem.. my muscles are waaaay too tight for my age (15/f..they are like rocks and suppose to be like silly putty), my bones at the base of my skull are too small and the hole that connects my spine to my skull is too small, and I have pinched nerves.. so my doctor perscribed me hydrocodone for the pain but the problem is it's not working.. at all.. so does anyone know any stronger medicine that I could ask my doctor about that might actually help my back? The pain keeps me awake at night so I need something strong. Sometimes it makes me cry because the pain is so overwhelming even after I've taken the hydrocodone... and I don't ever cry because I have extremely high pain tolerance.. so I need something really strong

Thanks in advance! (sorry so long!)

Whoa, hyrdocodine isn't working? This must be some serious stuff.
I'm not aware of much stronger forms of pain medication there are. Whenever I had meningitis they gave me morphine. That worked GREAT, but it gave me horrible side effects like dreaming of bologna and thinking my sister is Snow White.

-tekcoreht

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hey- ok my parents sre aginast me dating balck guys but i see no problem with it and i like a this guy and all but my parents have told me that they would disowne me and i dont want that!!!! but i like this guy and dont know what to do ! thats so much!!!!!



Signed,
Confused lover

Even thought this might be hard, try and find another guy. If your parents are against this chances are they'd do what they said they would to you. Try and search other places for someone special. I know he's out there.

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ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. then also wed. in music, my friend derick goes if eric asked you would you say yes, and i said no because eric was right behind him && he doesnt know i like him, and then derick goes eric she said no, but i dont know if he was just jokin or not.. then today and yesturday eric kept tryin to start a convo with me but randomely they were all either about sckool or sayin how desperate britt was.. im so confused..advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f

You're giving him mixed singals.
I do believe he likes you, but if you like him you need to make it known a little more subtle than you have been. Actually let him know that you like him so he knows for sure that he can ask you out and not get rejected. The next worst thing from a guy getting dumped is a guy getting rejected by a girl. This is why he might not want to ask you out. He's probably making up this 'liking britt' because he wants you to be suspesious and maybe come out and say you like him. He's basically trying to make you jealous.

Conclusion:
Just tell him you like him. He's trying to make small talk to spark similar interests so you two can have a lengthy conversation. Go along with it, talk back, be friendly. Just let him know you like him anyway you can.

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I met this guy, and I had a one night stand with him. I am 19 and he is 23. The problem is, I did not want to have sex at all. I just wanted to kiss, but he kept pressuring me to go further and further, and I eventually gave in to everything.

While we were having sex, it hurt so much. I was crying and telling him to stop but he kept going. I tried shoving him away but he didn't stop. I could have probably easily punched him in the face and made him stop, but for some reason, I didn't. I lied and told him it was hurting because I had been raped as a last attempt to get him to stop. He still didn't, and I eventually just sucked it up and let him finish.

Throughout the whole ordeal, he said some pretty mean things to me, the worse being that he had to pretend like the sex we just had was the best he'd ever experienced, just so he'd be able to finish himself off. And you know what I said? NOTHING. After I laid on the bathroom floor crying for awhile, I laid in bed with him, staring at the ceiling for 3 hours while he slept.

I do not have the slightest idea why I let him use me. I usually am smarter than this, love myself more than this, have more integrity than this. I am numb all over and wonder what the heck happened, how did I let it happen. Please, any insight would be appreciated.

I'm not going to sit here and tell you what you SHOULD have done, because what is done is done. Nothing can change.

In the situation you were you in, you did as much as you could possibly do to stop him, correct? Well, since at first you did finally tell him you'd have sex with him, so filing 'rape' might not work on the account that he might bring up the fact that you did say yes.

On the other hand, when it started to hurt you, you asked him to stop and he didn't. This guy was a selfish jerk who just wanted to pleasure himself even if it hurt you. Which in the end you found out that he had to pretend it was good. Which goes back to my first opinion about him- he's a selfish jerk. No one in their right mind would finish KNOWING it's hurting a woman. That's horrible.

There's nothing more you can do about this guy. Plain and simple, but you can prevent yourself from ever being used like that again. You might have already gone through this in your mind, but I'm here to stay it out loud- If you meet a 'nice guy' try to not let him take you to his, or your house/apartment right away. I mean, a nice quiet coffee shop is okay for getting to know people. If this guy gets all mad that you're not going to go to his house, now you know he just wanted to get some.

In conclusion:
Meet the guy, know the guy, love the guy.
Then you know that you're ready for sex with him and he's ready for it with you.

-tekcoreht

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In school, we are learning about noticing good paragraphs. And for our project, we have to identify certain writing styles. Lets say that the style is descriptive imagery. I have found a paragraph and I want to know WHY it's good. I don't know how to explain why it's good, it just is. Would anyone know any ideas on how to explain why it's good?? I'm not asking you to do my homework, I just need some ideas.

Thanks.

For descriptive imagery?

Say it describes the setting of the paragraph and sets a certain mood. It helps you better understand where the person is who is writing it and how they are feeling while they are writing it. It appeals to your five senses- smell, taste, sight, touch and sound so it is very realistic to you and it feels like you're right in the passage.

Good enough?

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