yea uhh.....im gonna be your president someday....and if u got a question just freakin ask it...i don't know your name or anything
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Location: TEXAS
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Age: 14
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Okay. So there is a guy on my swim team. To put it nicely, well, he is just a littly creepy. Hah. So anyways, I'm 14/freshman, and he's a junior/17. First, he's 3 years older. It's not exactly the age thing, because I have junior and seinor guy friends, except they all have good intentions and stuff. I know alot of senior's think they can just get stuff from freshman girls, but they know they're not getting anything and they don't try, so I find nothing wrong with being friends with them. They're not like that, and I'm not like that.
Ahh sorry I'm rambling, back to my question.
Anyways, once at a swim meet and he's like hey my neck hurts, will you rub my neck? So I said mmm No. So he's like pleaseee and he keeps going on and on so finally, I told him no, I don't want to rub his neck, go find someone else to. Then he said okay..You want to come to my car with me and get something from it? I said no. He just keeps going on and on, and goshhh he dosn't go away. He asks me to go places with him all the time, and always asks for hugs and I don't want to touch him, I mean I barely talk to him, he's creepy, and he is not the kind of person that I want to be around, priority wise. He comes up to me and pokes me and grabs me and stuff, and I mean seriously, I don't want him to touch me, I've told him that, I don't think he gets it.
I don't want to go file for some sexual harassment or anything, because well that's too much and it's not to the point where he'd try and seriously do something, and it's not exactly emotionally hurting me or what ever people say, I just am annoyed by it and want him to stop. What do I do? (link)
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ok well at that point i would say "leave me alone or im gonna file sexual harrasment"
BUT since i don't no this guy that might be risky and i know lots o people that r that annoying to me and i do pretty well with it, don't get me wrong sometimes it gets to the point where u want to shoot them but try to be nice
by the way you said it, it sounds like he likes you so when someone annoying like you this is what i do
try to stay in groups, they are intimidated to talk to you in groups (usually)
whenever he is around try to get in a conversation with someone else and don't stop talking so he doesn't get a chance to talk and keep on talking till he leaves
and when you are stuck talking to him always answer with one word phrases when you can and act like you are looking for something or trying to get some where (you are looking for something... another person to talk to lol)
and if none of that works than you can use the most powerful weapon known to man besides knowledge.....the truth, just tell him to leave you alone..and act dead serious when you tell him that...BUT i don't know this guy so i don't know what he would do
so try what i told you and if that don't work than tell me
and if i know you than ask me at school or comment on my xanga or somethin cause its annoying to type out words completly on this thing, it only lets me put Laugh Out Loud once
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Hey! I totally re-thought all of that and your right.It wouldn't be right to have sex right now.I'm a strong christian and I can't even believe I thought about that.Maybe it was pressure? Not sure. Thanks so much though.Other people said i should just be safe and stuff.That really wasn't what I needed!You said I would be making a mistake or regret it? Have you learned the hard way? okay well I'm sure have other people to talk to, but if you could, please write back! thanx! x0o
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nah i havn't learned the hard way i learned the easy way, i read the bible lol
bible tells ya bout everything
and god never will put a temptation in front of you that you can't pass, never
and im glad i could help...and no i don't really have that many questions to answer...your my only one today lol
so ask away
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Ok, so this guy that I am in love with and yes I am positive it is love, well he is being a total jerk about it. He doesn't want to open up and share emotions, he never wants to be around me anymore, he has girls as friends, but tries to like hint that they are more... I'm not sure what he problem is, he has said "I love you too" or "I love you" to me before but lately we have been bickering because of stress on both parts and its just dramatic and we both hate it... I try to tell him how I feel, but he thinks that its stupid infatuation and virgin attachment (he was my first). I think else wise because of the way I am... its hard to express in words how it is. He makes me heart flutter fast but slow, Im thinking nonstop about him, I've stuck up for him with friends and family... Ive battled my best friend over him and now no longer am talking to her. Im starting to think he is not worth it, but I cant fight the feeling of how much I care for him. It keeps bringing me back to him. What should I do?? Just forget him and move on? Crack down and be a hardbutt and make him open up? Oh and forgot to mention, he is moving on Saturday, 3 1/2 hours away... my mother knows this and says its a challenge but one we can tackle if I love him.. so she is with me on this. Frankly my whole family is, they adore him. I'll rate high!!! I'm desperate for help and please I want some help from people with at least some expierence in this.. (link)
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why don't people ever freakin learn?? do you think people are kidding when they say don't have sex till your married? sex before marriage just leaves pain in its wake
btw it looks like he just wanted you for sex but thats just my opinion so i say move on asap before you hurt yourself more
(your gonna rate me low aren't you lol) o well
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My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, and he happens to be one of my really good friends. For the past couple of weeks shes been treating him like dirt and she even told him that she had him rapped around her finger! I thought that was really mean of her. Anyways, they broke up today and now he is sooo sad. He loved her so much and I don't know what to say to him. He's so upset. What do I tell him? I keep telling him it's not his fault but he's just like ugh =(. (link)
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i say you tell him that she's just a worthless piece of shit and that he can sure as hell find someone better(opps sorry i forgot im talkin bout your friend) well in that case i don't know what to say, but thats what i would say (im a 14 yr. old guy)
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Short and sweet answers please: When did you have your first kiss? And my other question was: When did you go on your first date? You can just say how old..
Thanx in advance! (link)
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im a 14yr. old guy and i got my first kiss about...uhh.. i think about 1 month and like 3 weeks ago...and as for first dates...im not sure what you would consider a date so idk
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there were these kids today that were in my 4 th period class who were lookin at the picture of me and my boyfriend. to be honest he isnt the hottest thing out there but i really dont care i love my boyfriend to death. but they started diss him and sayin all this shit about him. they were sitting right behind me doin this and thought i was stupid and didnt noe what they were talkin about. can i turn that in for sexual harrassment? everything they said affended me and i got really sad and when i get sad i get quiet and that is what happened. i wanted to get up and hit ever single one of them and then show them what is so funny, but instead i thought it through and decided that they werent worth it so i ignored them and NOTHIN changed. they kept going and goin all period. (which was 30 mintuess left) here are my question:
1) could i turn them in for harrassment?
2) tomorrow if they start it again should i stand up and give them a piece of my mind?
3) do u think i should tell my boyfriend about this? (he doesnt go to my school)
p.s
i am a 14/f and a freshman (link)
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im a 14yr. old guy (freshman too)
no thats not sexual harrasment so you can't use that (unless they said somethin bout you that was sexual)
how to handle this all depends on your school but the fact that your b/f goes to a different school doesn't help make this easier to stop
if your school has a zero tolerance rule for bullying thats what you got to turn em in for...but like i said your b/f goes somewhere else so all i can come up with is that you just tell the teacher to make em stop (don't give em a piece of your mind that will make things WAY worse) and as for tellin your b/f bout it...thats up to you
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Anyone who calls me a nerd, dork, geek, etc. will geta one. Anyone who is a smartass about this will get a one.
I like to play DnD, right, and I have the DM Guide, the Monster Manual, and the Player's Handbook. Last month, I considered starting a DnD group. But that idea sort of died down. Well, a few days ago I picked up the Unearthed Arcana book, and I realized what all I could do if I was DMing a campaign. So now I've been asking my parents about it again, and they say once a month---at most. Also, they reccomend that we do one all-afternoon thing to see how they like it, what they want more of, what they like, etc. So I need to know how long each session should be and stuff like that.
Also, these people are fairly low roleplayers, fairly high meta-gamers. I'm probably gonna give them each a disorder as encouragement to roleplay and make the games more humorous---not handicaps, more like being gay, thinking you're a vampire, OCD, having a lucky charm, etc. Is that a good idea? Also, any tips on how to create a scenario? Thanks all! (link)
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crap i havn't played DnD in so long and i never got to be DM so i don't think i can help you
but i guess that sounds like a good idea to make it funny... but sometimes funny shit just happens in the game anyway
for example: we were all in a marshmallow mine then my friend(who was a 2ft. tall drawf) was hit on the head with a marshmallow and for some reason he instanly gained around 2000 pounds and blocked the exit....we were stuck in a cave full of orcs lol so sometimes funny stuff just happens but w/e yor idea sounds good
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don't ask me why there was a marshmallow mine and why he was 2ft. tall i was't DM lol
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hey there's this guy i really like, and he keeps asking me who i like. i really want to tell him that it's him, but i just don't know how to. please help me! i really don't know what to say!
i rate high! (link)
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im a 14 year old guy and i say you just tell him that you like him but try to say it to him when you 2 are alone or sorta alone...or when no one you know is around or (you get the point)
as a guy it annoys the hell out of me when a girl never tells you that she likes you then you just give up thinking she doesn't like you
so just tell him you like him, you only live once so just do it
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Okay guys! I've been dating a guy for 3 months and I love him more than anything in the world! He promised me he would never leave me and for once in my life, I BELIEVE A GUY.OKay well we're both virgins and I think he wants to boost it up a little.How do I prepare for all that? If anything happens anytime soon...I want to be ready and things to go really good.Help!
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please please please please please don't do anything like that (a 14 year old guy just said this) but if you do, do it than be prepared for a sucky life down the road for a while... maybe not right then but later on you'll feel the guilt
for example: when(or if) you get married you don't want to look into the love of your lifes eyes and know that he wasn't the first, that you were selfish enought not to wait
but hey... thats just me, but really think about that, please don't have sex till your married
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how can i tell if a girl likes me 13/m if it helps
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im a 14 year old guy and i say just ask her
but i got a big honor code thingy.. when i want somethin done i do it myself, i ask girls out face to face(when i can) and i try to break up with them face to face(when i can)
so i say you just plain out ask her
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If your vagina isn't used to a lot of things wouldn't it be common sense if it got irrated, like from toooooooooo much perfume, soap and things like that? (link)
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wow....(guys are on this thing to you know) sooo since im a christian im gonna try not to think what you were doing lol
but that sounds bout right....i guess its sorta sensitive down there lol
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I'm a sophomore, and I'm strictly against the whole freshman-dating-upperclassmen-thing. But there's this kid in my class that I'm kinda into, and he's a freshman. I really want to hook up with him but I'm hesitant, ideas? (link)
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lol i know how that feels (im a 14 year old freshman if u wanna c me just go to my xanga..its on my advice thingy)
no one really knows im a freshman and when they do they just plain stop talking to me lol
there really nothing that wrong with doing that its only a years difference so i so just do it
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I'm a sixteen year old girl.
Ok. Well last summer I went on this camping trip with this Chrisitan club I go to. I decided to sit next to a friend who I had met about 7 days before we got on the charter bus to head to Colorado. Well I got on the bus and ten minutes later my supposed friend was hitting on me and trying to kiss me and such. I kept telling him no but it didn't seem to get into his head. He would try to rub my stomach, rub my legs, massage my back, and more. I was so scared. I tried to yell for the adult supervisors on the bus but he would always pull me to him and try to kiss me when I did that. I was terrified. I had been sexually harrassed twice before in my life so I knew what might happen if I didn't get him to stop. Well we got off for a break and I switched seats with someone and sat next to my friend Jessica but he convinced her to move and so he was next to me again. Well when we got there he started leaving me alone and everything was fine but then these three others guy started coming on to me too and I was scared again. I didn't know what to do. I told all the leaders I knew would listen and they said they would try to keep them away from me but they were never around when the boys were. Well I'm of course back from camp now and I haven't seen those three guys but my supposed friend won't leave me alone. I'm afraid of telling my parents because my dad will blow up and try to fatally injure him. I just don't know what to do. What can I do? (link)
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what kind of christian organization is this??!!
that just ain't right
i say you file charges (that would go under attempted rape)
or just tell your dad and save yourself some money from the lawyer and you won't have that little problem any more lol
btw im a 14 year old guy that strongly hates people that do shit like that
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Me and my brothers best friend got really involved and I gave him my varginity!! Now I am not allowed to be near him becuase my brother feels that it would hurt me more. The fact was that he used me and I dont hate him. I want to see him so I could tell him how he really made me feel but no one will let me! What should I do? (i am now almost 16 and he is 20)
What should I do? I want him to know how much he hurt ME! (link)
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WTF??!! why would you have sex when your freakin 15 anyway?? you should feel bad...and even worse you'll feel bad for the rest of your life
when (or if) you get married you'll look into the eyes of the love of your life and you'll know that he wasn't the first
and it sounds like your brother loves you a lot
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I have been lookin for a god place to download music off of some one told me about something called bear share...is that a good one i dont want any that will give me viruses or anything
ill rate 5's.. (link)
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i suggest xanga.com/music_galore.com its really good free music and i've never heard of bear share but really that site i gave you is good
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Are people on here as stupid as they appear, or is all just an act? (link)
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no they are pretty stupid....and to tell you the truth i don't have a freakin clue on why im on it right now.. im like the only freakin guy that uses it lol
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So I'll be dating my current boyfriend for three months a week from today. He's the first boyfriend I've had that I can honestly say I really loved. The problem? Things are just getting annoying and boring. When we first started dating, he would do all these cute things with me, like whenever I joke around and try to fall he'll run and catch me... just little things like that. But I'm starting to wonder if he takes everything too seriously. If we're arguing about something little, I'll joke around and say "Take it back or I'll fall over!" And he'll get this seriously sad look on his face and whimper "No..." He can never take a joke it seems and I'm starting to get annoyed with it. I guess I just want him to act more mature. After all he is 19 and he could be acting more mature than he has been lately. I don't really want to consider breaking up with him right now, so is there any other suggestions you have on fixing this first?
Signed, Annoyed But In Love (link)
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i'll probably get a low rating or somethin for this but w/e
by the way your sayin this it sounds like you want him to act less mature not more mature
acting cute and sayin all that stuff is immature not mature just thought you ought to know
(a 14 year old guy just said this lol)
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(Im 15/F He's 15/M)
My friend asked the guy I like does he know me (just to start the convo then she was planning to go further in on what you think of her etc...)well he said no which I know is a lie because we went to the same elementary school, we rode the same bus for three years and we have a class together this year. Plus we talked when were younger (we are sophomores now we talked in 7th and 8th grade.) but when he found out that I found out he liked me and I started showing I liked him back too we became distant. Then in 9th grade we didn't talk at all just he always stared at me and I did the same to him just not as much. Last year I told him I liked him he avoided me at first but then he seemed cool with it but it never went farther. This year he showed me he still likes me by always staring at me and him and friends always pass by where me and my friends are his friends would try to make him talk to me and for example like picture day him and his friend were doing all this stuff trying to make me smile when i was taking my picture it was so obvious they were so loud ... and when we were in line his friend kept trying to push him into me. So why would he say he doesn't know me? Was he just scared that she was going to ask him does he like me or something? Or is this his way of telling me that he wants to move on so leave him alone?
Sorry it's SO LONG. Please no smart ass answers!!! Talking to him about it could work but I wouldn't know how to start talking to him again or even bring it up because that's how we stopped talking in the first place.THANKS in advance. (link)
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im a 14 year old guy and it sounds like he just forgot your name....i do that a lot. almost 1/4 of my friends i don't know their names lol
so in my opinion it sounds like he just forgot and that he might be a tad bit shy
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is there anyway to amke your butt get bigger??? (link)
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uhhh eat more?
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i started my period about 2 months ago. my vagina is changing..is that normal? if so what changes are normal???? (link)
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ok everytime i answer these question i always get a 1(maybe its cause im a guy lol) but whenever something ever happens to you like that just ask your parents or your friends....but thats just me
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