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Guy that I love is beind a jerk
Ok, so this guy that I am in love with and yes I am positive it is love, well he is being a total jerk about it. He doesn't want to open up and share emotions, he never wants to be around me anymore, he has girls as friends, but tries to like hint that they are more... I'm not sure what he problem is, he has said "I love you too" or "I love you" to me before but lately we have been bickering because of stress on both parts and its just dramatic and we both hate it... I try to tell him how I feel, but he thinks that its stupid infatuation and virgin attachment (he was my first). I think else wise because of the way I am... its hard to express in words how it is. He makes me heart flutter fast but slow, Im thinking nonstop about him, I've stuck up for him with friends and family... Ive battled my best friend over him and now no longer am talking to her. Im starting to think he is not worth it, but I cant fight the feeling of how much I care for him. It keeps bringing me back to him. What should I do?? Just forget him and move on? Crack down and be a hardbutt and make him open up? Oh and forgot to mention, he is moving on Saturday, 3 1/2 hours away... my mother knows this and says its a challenge but one we can tackle if I love him.. so she is with me on this. Frankly my whole family is, they adore him. I'll rate high!!! I'm desperate for help and please I want some help from people with at least some expierence in this..
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awwww.... well i kinda went threw a same thing but then its kinda diferent well i think he just doesnt wana hurt you n tell you he wanna break up with you r somthin and i think you should jus let him goo n i noo that its not that easyy but if you jus do that if he realii loves you the way you love him he will come bak too you for sure just trust me on this do not waste ur life on him he's just playin you r somthin and i amm soo sorry n i also think you should talk to him about it well hope i helped xOxOx//♥\
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This guy... he sounds like a jerk... and it sounds like he's trying to get rid of you, in little ways... by making you mad and stuff like that. And virgin attachment? What a dick. I'm sorry, but geez. I'd say drop him. Let him hurt for a little bit. Because trust me, it will... he'll realize what an idiot was. And if he really loves you... he'll come back to you.
good luck.
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why don't people ever freakin learn?? do you think people are kidding when they say don't have sex till your married? sex before marriage just leaves pain in its wake
btw it looks like he just wanted you for sex but thats just my opinion so i say move on asap before you hurt yourself more
(your gonna rate me low aren't you lol) o well
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I have been in the same shoes as you before. It's okay to love somebody and go through hard times with somebody, if they want you in return. You can't tackle the challenge of being with somebody just because YOU love him, he as to be willing to work at the relationship also. It's easy to say when you're not in the situation, but don't force yourself on him. A little nudging is okay, but when it gets to the point where you are the only one showing feelings, you have to let it go. I was in love with somebody before and he just didn't love me the same way. You know when it's the right person, because you won't have to work at trying to get him to open up. He'll just do it.
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If it's stressing for the two of you why deal with it? Ah. Love. You need to talk this out with eachother, and work out your problems. Or take some time apart, which to me sounds like the best thing for the both of you right now.
I've been in your shoes a lot. I've put up with a lot of things from my ex boyfriends, and I did it because I loved them and I stood by them because I loved them. Once our relationships were badly burned I realized how much better things were... and what I could have done to turn everything around.
Having a relationship long distance IS hard, but it is very doable. A lot of people go through with it and suceed.
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