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I was almost 15 and he was 19
Me and my brothers best friend got really involved and I gave him my varginity!! Now I am not allowed to be near him becuase my brother feels that it would hurt me more. The fact was that he used me and I dont hate him. I want to see him so I could tell him how he really made me feel but no one will let me! What should I do? (i am now almost 16 and he is 20)
What should I do? I want him to know how much he hurt ME!
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You should listen to your brother because it is obvious that he cares about you and doesn't want you to get hurt so just take his advice and just forget about him. But if you are unable to do that then you should tell your parents that way they know and make sure that he pays for what he done. I hope that I helped you but if not you can visit me at my column but if you don't good luck.
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WTF??!! why would you have sex when your freakin 15 anyway?? you should feel bad...and even worse you'll feel bad for the rest of your life
when (or if) you get married you'll look into the eyes of the love of your life and you'll know that he wasn't the first
and it sounds like your brother loves you a lot
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Well, if he was 18 at the time or older, sue him for statutory rape.
BTW, it's spelled virginity.
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Write him a letter or an email perhaps, but I wouldn't suggest you try and talk to him in person.
It seems likely that he is a selfish little prick, and will probably never understand the extent to which he has hurt you. You'll have to come to terms with what has happened on your own. Put your thoughts down in writting, even if you never get a chance to send them to him, it will help you and your happiness should be your first pirority.
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well you can call and talk to him like that or call him to met some where and tell him how your feel just dont tell anyone your going to see him or when your brother hangs out with him you can ask your brother to bring you alone just to tell him.
hope i helped
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A guy like this one would not give a crap if he hurt you or not. The law stipulates nobody who is 18 or above can have sex or a relationship where trust is shattered and the adolescents is confused by it. He cannot have a loving relationship, sexual one even at 19 with someone 15 or he can be charged with rape. Your brother knows this and is protecting you but also for some reason his creep of a friend.
Your brother and you need to get wise and go to your parents and nail this guy's ass to the wall. You also need professional counselling or a psychiatrist to help you understand this wasn't love, it's fooling you and you were victimized. They will also show you how to move forward and not allow this to ruin every aspect of your life.
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