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Ah, I don't know what to tell him.
My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, and he happens to be one of my really good friends. For the past couple of weeks shes been treating him like dirt and she even told him that she had him rapped around her finger! I thought that was really mean of her. Anyways, they broke up today and now he is sooo sad. He loved her so much and I don't know what to say to him. He's so upset. What do I tell him? I keep telling him it's not his fault but he's just like ugh =(.
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There's nothing you can do really, but tell your guy friend you are here for him. It's a breakup, and he will have to get over it. Your other friend on the other hand is a bitch, and you should put her in her place.
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truth is there really is nothing you can say he's still going to miss her and if he really did love her its going to hurt for a while sorry i don't have something better to say
i hope i can help you
SQuiRToFLeMoN <3
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You should keep supporting your friend and telling him it's not his fault. Let him know that his ex was being a jerk, and that she missed out on a really great guy (him). Tell him that the girl who dumped him will regret it for the rest of her life, while he'll be having new adventures with girls.
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i say you tell him that she's just a worthless piece of shit and that he can sure as hell find someone better(opps sorry i forgot im talkin bout your friend) well in that case i don't know what to say, but thats what i would say (im a 14 yr. old guy)
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You could tell him that he could do better then that what kind of a person would treat another like dirt if they care about them. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
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Just be there for him and exlain that its not his fault and he's going to move on and that he's so much better than what he thinks. Let him know how you feel and let him know that your here for him.
-manda
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I totally understand. What I would do is explain to him how good he really his and that the right one will come for him. Give it time.
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The Best thing to do for you to do is to tell him the truth. Tell him everything you just told me. True he is sad right now, but if you fell he is being used, how will he fell when he finds out? And the fact his friend knew and said nothing! No it is better to learn form a friend about such things then from someone else.
I hope this helps.
Let me know if it does.
Best of luck
~Teen Guru~
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well why did they break up????....you can tell him to try and go talk to her to make things better....try try talking to her to ..maybe you can help.if she gets mad and doesnt want to talk about it then dont try anything else cause you wouldnt want to be stuck in the middle....trust me....let them handle it and see what happens.....just remeber....poeple change..things go wrong...just remember life goes on....
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First, I woul tell your friend to stop being such a witch. There's no need to treat your ex like dirt, though it seems to be the popular thing to do.
As for her boyfriend? Just talk to him, that's probably what he really needs right now is just someone to talk to. About anything really. Words of wisdom and inspiration will probably naturally come to you as you speak more to him about the situation.
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