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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
Just get over it and make out with someone. That's the only thing you can do. If you wanna be good at it the practice!
Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's.
Just about anywhere. I just got my girlfriend one from Hollister.
do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious
It doesn't matter when you're in middle school. It really doesn't. And if you still want to be in it in high school then go for it. No one is going to be like, "hahah what a fruit; she's in orchestra!!!", or anything like that.
ok...i just bought and ipod mini off ebay and it didnt come with instructions so i have no idea how to use it...help me!
It's really not that hard--
*Use your finger to go around the circle part for going up and down
*Use the menu button to do to your menu (yeah duh) but there you can choose how to file your songs (i.e. by artists, albums, etc.)
*Use the middle circle button to pick something (kind of like an 'enter')
*And the side buttons are to go back and forth
My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.
He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.
But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.
So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?
I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?
18/f
Like you said yourself, why would Eric lie to you if you're good friends? I could never see anyone making shit up like that just for the hell of it. Mike, though, does have a reason for lying. If he really did say it then why on earth would he tell you? Yeah you want to believe your boyfriend but I guarantee you that Eric is probably the one you should believe.
How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think?
Yeah I'm around 40 looks 60 personality myself.
okay im 16/f.
i was in 2 bad car accidents and my leg is paralyzed along with all the other bad injuries. my leg is just "dead" it impairs me. my doctor says i should have it amputated, but i don't know if i can make that descision. can you please help me?
Unless I had gangrene and I absolutely had to get something amputated then I don't think I would. Yeah, you can't use your leg but at least you have one, ya know? But if it causes a lot of pain then you should probably go ahead and do it.
16/m. I find that I have much dificulty in telling stories to my friends, like to a group. Even with jokes sometimes. I have no trouble whatsoever with talking and joking around, but when it comes to tell a story, I just can't do it, not even about me. It sounds terrible, I lose their interest too quickly, and they completely miss what I was trying to say. I feel confident about it, but whenever I try nothing comes to mind on what I can do to improve myself. I listen to other people tell stories and jokes all the time, and try to learn from them, but when I apply it to myself, it just doesn't turn out right. I think its leanining more toward a lack of practice. What do you think? Any suggestions on what to do or how to approach this problem? Thanks in advance.
I really don't think it's either. Some people just aren't good story tellers. I have a friend that is a very social person and has no problem with shyness but can't tell stories for shit. It doesn't stop her though, she tells about 9 a day. So, I don't think practice helps either.
If you had to pick one over the other, would you pick diamond earrings or a pearl necklace?
earrings--http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=52U4&start_id=66&CategoryId=501&category=Diamonds&
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necklace--
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57I5&start_id=91&CategoryId=66&category=Jewelry&
If it were me I'd go with the earrings. Of course I wouldn't wear either but definatly--the earrings.
OK so like i have this guy whos like my best friend. Online when it talk to him, hes so sweet and nice and funny. Then when i'm out with our friends, he either ignores me or like makes fun of me. I really dont understand it. Does anyone know what this means? And just explain it, please
He doesn't want to looked whipped infront of other guys. Just like how a guy will act differently towards his gf when around his friends.
okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt.
If you're fine with kissing and all that stuff then you aren't prude. And so what if you haven't done anything else? Guys don't want whores. And as for the whole "do I look right down there"...whatever it looks like, it's supposed to be like that. Don't worry so much. And you could always watch a porno or something to see other girls..
Hey! I seriously need fashion help!! I'm 4"9 so its sooo hard to find clothes that fit me from abercrombie and stuff!! (yes im 13..its a small family thing..) I have medium-brown layerd hair,black eyebrows long eyelashes,small upper body frame,flat chested...and yellowy/light skinned. I basically need a head-to-toe make over of what you think would be the right style,fashion,or even an out-fit for me that matches and looks soo cute!Also,maybe a little guild on how to find your own,hot origonal style? im sort of looking for that ghetto-city edge cause thats were i am.Please help thanks lots,and please girls answer this lol!
rate 5's for awesome answers!
shop at abercrombie kids if not A&F
I heard that gatorade is really bad for your teeth and like rots them or somthing is that true??
Only because of all the sugar in it. But so are soft drinks.
ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do?
Not really that weird. A month and half isn't all that long. I know what I was 13 and broke up with a girl, I was ready to go out with another one the next day. Middle school relationships don't mean anything at all. It feels like they do but they really don't. You'll be fine.
You know how people always get those surveys on MySpace? with long lists of questiosn like "do you prefer nestea or lipton?" or "eaten an oreo in the past month?" where do you get those?
Copy it from someone else. Thats how most people get them and everyone has the exact sameone anyways.
a lot of my friends have drifted away. what are some activities/ things i can do to get them back and let them know i still care?
Anything from chillin at your house watching a movie to taking them out for an expensive dinner. All you have to do is put out an effort.
My AIM hasn't been working for 2 days. When I click on the little AIM guy to sign on, nothing happens for about 10 seconds, then the sign on screen flashes on the screen for like a half second and then goes away. I don't think it's a virus on my computer, because I already scanned it, and it does the same thing on my parent's computer which I don't use very often. Is this happening to anyone else? What should I do? I was considering deleting it, and downloading the newer version. Would that fix it? Please help. Thank you!!
Yeah just re download it and it should work.
Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop
Have someone hit/pintch you everytime you cuss. Or just tell remind you every time you cuss. But really, the hitting/pintching thing works better.
hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachotehr?
Are you sure you're in love? Because I don't think so. But anyways, make sure it's ok with your best friend. I know I'd be pissed as hell if one of my friends asked my little sister out behind my back. And make sure you know how to treat girls because he will be on your ass.
i dont kno how to tell this guy i like him. we both kno that in the past we liked eachother(never actually went out)...everyone thinks i should tell him even though he loveed like 3 states over...what should i do and how should i tell him?????help i rate high!
He loved 3 states over? What does that mean?