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ok here's the thing,
ok i'm going out with this one girl & she is madly in love with me. see i love her too but.... i also love this other girl that i've went out with. but she broke up with me. so wat do i do?
SOMEONE HELP A POOR DUDE OUT PLZ!
-thanks
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well really the only thing to do is think who you like more and well the gurl that you use to go out with loves you back thats always something to look into without destroying your other relationship and if it turns out that she dosent feel the same you always have somebody who loves you and well you love too and if your ex does feel the same you gotta decide who is more important and who you would be happiest with good luck
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Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy? (link)
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wow honey my heart goes out to you b/c im also 16 and a virgin and yes dont play yourself he druged you that sum fucking asshole druged you i would go to the cops exspecially if he's 18 than you can really screw him over honey dont stand for this tell somebody
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My boyfriend is going to be 15 on the 25th and I am already 15. On june 5th, we will have been going out for 8 months. I feel comfortable with him and I love him. We have been talking about having sex but we just aren't sure if we should because of the ages we are. I know its illegal until you are 18 but we really want to. And also, what condems are the best to use? Please help! (link)
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well you and your boyfriend cant get in trouble with the law if you have sex becuase your both under 18teen but what i will say is once you loose it you could never ever get it back and condoms arent always 100 percent and well sex does complicate the relationship so my advice is to wait until you and only you think your ready for sex and the conqucenes that follow good luck much love
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When is it acceptible to say "I love you"? How soon is too soon, and when is the point that if you havent heard it should you wonder? 20/male (link)
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well honestly only you know when your in love nobody can tell you and have you every heard of the saying love at first sight good luck
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Ok, i have a crush on this guy in highschool, hes a freshman...im in 7th grade. For our town, its not a big deal to do that(just letting you know.) I only met him once and it was at a show. I'll be seeing him friday, cuz theres another show. But the problem is that he doesn't know me. Like he might, but I doubt it. I want him to notice me this friday, so how do I do it?
PLEASE HELP!!! thank you to who ever does help
P.s. My best guy freind is running the show and everything. Like he is in charge of it all (link)
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well since your in 7 and well hes probley in 9-10 or 8 well if hes 8 yeah let him know you exsit but then again if hes in a much higher grade then you probly wont get the results you want but hey if your confindent you do what you need my motto is well ade is nothing but a number but not if its like 10 and 30 you know how it is
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ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys?? (link)
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yes dosent she know that condoms arnet 100 percent protective
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my father abuses me what should i do (link)
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your father abuses you sexually wow my heart goes out to you honey really what you should do is go to somebody you could trust or better yet go to the cops MAKE HIM STOP PLEASE SEEK HELP ASAP. and dont worry about how he feels because if he's doing it to you he probley doesnt care at all and beleive me it is easiyer to give than take advice but this is advice you nee to take good luck hope i helped please rate me if you can good luck rember get help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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well you could just be illregualer but it could be because your getting it again so if you think that theres really something wrong go to the doctor
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Well I been seeing this guy for about two months now and its great...sometimes. what I mean is that we dont always get a chance to see each other and when we do have a chance he goes riding with his boys. But then there are sometimes when he can be a SWEETHEART idk when he goes riding with his boys WHAT THE HELL IS HE RIDING??????? lol but sometime I feel that his friend are more inportant then me. (link)
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honey than you need to set him straight i mean im saying to tell him to stop hanging out with his friends but explain to him that your the one dating him and not his friends and well to find out what there writing just casually ask if you can go along hay you need to have fun be aggresive let him know that your still alive and breathing
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When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ? (link)
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well im still a vigin but i read a lot af sex novel and well i watch dr. ruth and she said that sometimes the reasons why women dont get a orgasm is becuase they dont know how to please themselves for example they dont masterbate so and once you do and well if you already know what you like dont be shy tell him how you want it
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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please! (link)
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wow im sorry that happen to you and well if you think your pregnet than get tested and i know every body makes mistakes and well if you have a boyfriend that you really love and could trust than tell but if you dont think hell understand than i dont know and if you think that vtheres no other possible way he could every find out about what you did than hey what he dosent know cant hurt hm but rember if finds out later when you guys are more serious hell be even madder but get tested!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me (link)
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well i dont mean to get to personal but in health class i did a project on that and well if a gurl gave you head and she had some kind of infection then you know but i wouldnt panic just yet first go to a doctor they can help you
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx (link)
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well your right im not going to say that your to young and nobody can stop you but if your asking for advice it seems to me that your not sure if your compeletly ready but rember the choice is yours and every thing has connquences
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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley (link)
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wellim the same age as your boyfriend and well i havent had sex yet but than again i havent found anybody that i can trust and i agree wuth you just b/c were young dosent mean we dont know what love is and well nobody can tell you when your ready you have to decide that for yourself and well if you do decide that your ready just make sure you can trust him and that you take your necessary procautions you know every thing has a conquence but remeber only you can decide so good luck please rate me
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I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!! (link)
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well dont worry because although thatv some people dont stay friends after they break up but other peoples do and sometimes there friend ship becomes stronger so if you like him and he likes you why not you know it may and it may not work out but he you never know intil you try and its just like any other thing theres no garentee
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My bf of over six months is really sweet and kind and I love him so much and I know he feels the same for me. But he is just to nice and he doesn't notice that his friendliness is kinda flirty but it doesn't bother me because I am the same way. Though lately theres this one girl that likes him and she hits on him all the time and he doesn't notice it and it's really bothering me so what do I tell him becasue he dumped me before for not telling guys to get off me so what should I tell him. I will rate high! (link)
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well this is a toughy if you say he dosent reliaze it then make him reliaze and well if that dosent work than shit make that flirty bitch reliaze that hes your man not hers good luck
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I have very dry skin and I was wondering if anyone knew of a really good body scrub that is fragrance free?? I have very sensitive skin and I can't use anything that has ANY kind of fragrance!! Thanks!! :) (link)
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wellim not a docter but i know where your coming from so my guess would be to get baby lotion because thats not scented or to use coco butter
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What to wear? Casual? or special? arrrg please help lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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well really my answer would be to just dress like you why try to dress loke someone your not go as your self .hoped i helped
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Well im a 16 year old female.. yesterday my aunt died.. no clear reason why.. she basically went brain dead when she fell over in her flower bed.. she was only 33 years old.. okay i was one the first people to arrive at the hospital and i didnt think it was something serious like death i thought it would of been like she was working to hard and got real hot or something.. cause my aunt was always a hard worker she'd work 16,18 hour days and still made time for her two kids 3 and a 7 year old and her husband she didnt sleep very much so thats what i thought happened.. turns out im completely wrong and i feel so stupid.. i mean yea im sad she's gone but i never thought about someone dieing like that.. i couldnt sleep last night i kept thinkin bout her which i know is normal.. and then last night i jus felt really horrible cause i talked to my boyfriend and he is always there for me and he made me laugh a couple times and then when i got done laughin i felt like i shouldnt be happy.. i know moving on will not easy for me cause ill always miss her and have her in my heart but i feel bad for mainly my family like my grandma and grandpa her kids and her husband.. i have alot of tuff big guys in my family including her husband.. and that was the first time i seen alot of them tuff big guys cry yesterday that just hurt me more.. i also seen her in the hospital bed.. i thought she actually had a chance of living even tho the doctor said she had a very low chance of living i had so much hope in my heart and then wheni seen her all the hope was crushed cause i knew that wasnt my energic happy hoppy aunt.. i never seen my aunt still in my life.. she was always like a big kid.. well ever since yesterday i havent felt my self at ALL.. i mean seriously i feel like i want to change how i am towards people which might be for the best cause im really a bitch but now i dont want to feel hateful like or mean towards anybody..and now i wanna make sure i have peace with everybody cause ive always been a big fighter.. which of course sounds good cause fighting isnt good or being hateful.. but im okay with changing those things i jus dont want my whole personality to change.. cause im really outgoing and i love to be fun... i jus dont want to become shy and boring.. so does this happen to people thats what i want advice on.. like will i change.. im going to try not to but can it happen and me not realize...? Ill rate high promise.. (link)
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honey dont worry about it im sorry that your aunt died and it seems you are to but the world dosent stop and you shouldnt change who you are b/c your aunt died i think you should stay as you are and the way your aunt remeberes you and about begin a bitch that me 100 percent and people wouldnt have me any other way love sweet apples
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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!! (link)
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well first i would really stop and think for a moment it all depends on who you like more and if you go up to austin and he still avoids you than just let him be because than its clear that he dosent want to talk to you and about b.j maybe you should try to make amends and give him a try good luck rate me please
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