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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

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hey i am a 13 cyr old gurl i live in pa i have like this one guy since 7th grade and i am really close w/ him now. i mean we talk alot and were good friends i want to tell him how i feel but i dont know how to go about help i know ur good at this hole advice thing.

well just tell him. maybe he feels the same. if that that good of friends with him then just dont ruin the relationship of u 2 being friends. but i would defitnitly tell him cuz maybe u 2 could have soemething..who knows..good luck

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ok this is a ? for the chicas... do girls like guys that are like medium sized and like really ripped? or do they like big bulkyness? jus been wonderin 15/m

i would say not like over doing it. but then again atleast have something. but everyone has there different taste/type

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Does anyone know any nice places to get Cartilidge earrings.. also, do you buy the cartilidge earrings by themselves. or do you buy a pack of 2 like i want small hoops but i duno where i can find em. thanks

well u can use almost any stub earing for ur cartilidge. u can by a pair and just use one. claires has some. and maybe afterthoughts.

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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more?

call her all the time on ur phone. hang out at the mall or something. have her come over to ur house. talk to her on the internet. just random things that seem special..good luck..

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ok well this boy Kyle, i've gone out with him on and off for about 2 years...be aren't dating or anything now but it's just weird. He wants to loose his virginity to me and i guess i would loose mine to him. But the thing is we aren't going out and i told him that and he's like well we could after we did this? I don't know what i should do though because like i mean i like him and all but i really don't know if he would use me, i've known him forever and he doesn't seem as if he would but I can't think of any other reason why he would say that? Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do?

thats total bs. i mean why would he say after? i wouldnt. i mean to me it just sounds as if hes using u, but u no him, i dont. so its all up to u. good luck...i no that ull make the right decision no matter what it is.

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ok im a pretty organized guy but i've been havin a really hard time tryin to keep up with my classes and work this year and itz drivin me crazy cuz i can't get the grades i used to be able to and i hate it. ne one help?? plz????

just concentrate on what u should be doing. get all of the important things done first. that and u can get an agenda..they help. or a daily planner...good luck

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umm does neone have xanga hurr? ill give ya my pw if some1 decoratez it nice and pretty fo meh please :D im me on aim cherrycoconut89

i have one. u can check mine out at: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=souperstar10

let me know if u want me to help design urs.

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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.

definitely tell him, he has a right to know.

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ok well Im going out with this guy named Shane and he's sweet and eerything , but he gets jealous very easy, like when a guy well lets just call him Chris, talked to me he got all up in his face!!, I truely love him but he can get jealous really easy and now I told him that I can talk to guys and he dosent understand!! he's 15 and so am I but what do I do ??

well if he gets jealous..maybe he doesnt trust u. cuz if he trusted u then he wouldnt care as much if u talk to guys. but just amke the point clear to him and talk to hiom and keep talking to him....good luck

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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~

if u come to a last minute thing just get them a gift certificate to the mall or to there favortive place or w/e,...good luck

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I had a dream over the weekend that I was raped. (Remember this is a dream) I was raped by this guy that is on my bus for school. It's been bugging me the past few days, and I don't know what to do. Whenever I see him, it kind of freaks me out. Is it just a dream? Am I responsible for the dream? I'm worried because some dreams actually do come true..

dont worry about it. its just a dream.

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I like this guy a lot, but he goes to a different school and lives kinda far away from me. Well we meet acouple of weeks ago and really hit it off. We talk on the phone alot and just resently i went to the movies with him. At the movies nothin happend. I didnt really know what exactly we were (friends, friends with benefits, dating). So i texted his phone later that night to ask. He said that he liked me and he wants to be more than just friends. Well last night at a basketball game we went to, i meet his parents who reffered to me as a friend of his. We just sat at the game and talked. Then afterwards he walked me outside and kissed me. I really like this guy, but i dont want to just be some girl he calls up to get some from, i really want to have a relationship with him but i dont know what the next thing i should do is?!?!?! I might have the chance to go see him again tonight, should i take it?????

Please help, i'll rate high because its so long

definitley go!!! and tell him how u feel. i mean is he has feelings for u and u really like him then of course u 2 should have something..good luck!

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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

have one of ur friends go up to him and ask him who he likes. or see if he has the closest of feelings for u. i bet he does like u tho..good luck!

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OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.

and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.

Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!

*confused chic*

well if u like him that much then just ask him out. that or just ask him what he thinks about u to. or just be like so who do u like these days. or something random...good luck..

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

well make sure that hes not just using u. cuz its a little weird that his gf is now outa town. but just wait to see how things go when she comes back..good luck

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I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. I have known his best friend for the same amount because his best friend is my friend's ex. Whenever I was with my boyfriend, his best friend I always seemed to flirt. We always playfully made fun of eachother & just played around. I thought it was innocent until I started to get strong feelings for him. My boyfriend had no idea of these feelings. There was definitely something between us though and I know he felt something. Now, my boyfriend's best friend has moved and I doubt I'll be seeing him. I know it's not fair to my boyfriend that I actually truly miss his best friend. How can I get my mind off this guy? I really do love my boyfriend.

ur bf deserves to know the truth no matter what. but tell him and keep reminding him how much u love him...good luck and i hope everything works out!

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Alright this is kind of weird... but i mean i want to know if this just happens to me. Alright when i masturbate i do it for a while and what not, but like after a while it gets really tender and i'm not turned on anymore and i get this pulse feeling down there. and my boyfriend has like rubbed down there and it happened. Does that mean i orgasmed? Or what is it? Sorry that sounds SO dumb but I have no idea. Is it just me?! help people! does that happen to you when you masturbate?

sry i wish i could help but i cant..good luck tho

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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

i think black makes u look thinner..but im not positive..good luck tho!

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ok my grandma is coming 2morrow and she wants my xmas list i have no clue what i want she spend like 80 bucks on me,im 13/f, i dont want like makeup or bath & body works stuff. i need ideas thanks
i give 5s to everyone

i always ask for cds, theres always one that ya want. ask for maybe some clothes if u need some. or little trinkets(ear-rings, necklaces, braceletts, etc), shoes, cd player, school supplies, hair straightener(if u dont have one adn if u want one), hair crimper, anything..be creative..good luck.

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

well im not a guy but i bet guys like when grls ask them. and some guys are just shy and wont ask..

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