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can you get pregnant from pre cum? (link)
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YEAH!!!
Semen (the fluid sperm swim in) contains....SPERM!
Sperm + egg = Fertilization ( also known as pregnacy)
it only takes 1 sperm to complete their mission and each one is fighting to be the one to reach the goal...these guy are the toughest fighters in the worlds. even if you have 100 of them thats 100 sperm with the strongest will and mentality to reach its goal...become a human.
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so my friend fingered me a while ago. it felt good and everything, but it was the first time. 2 nights ago he asked me how it felt and i told him it felt good and he asked how did it feel good. I can't really explain how it felt good. i told him i'd give him an answer, i just don't know how to explain it, any help? (link)
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explain it to him this way (by doing this) ....give him oral and then ask him how it felt...then say thats how i felt too. :)
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how does giving a handjob lead to stds?
and why does he need to get medical attention..is something wrong with him? (link)
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ever heard of Syphilis?? is typically acquired via direct sexual contact with the infectious lesions of a person with syphilis....a skin lesion appears at the point of contact, which is usually the genitalia, but can be anywhere on the body.
read about it. there are other STDs that can be transmitted from your body to his or vise versa...a paper cut or a really cut short finger nail anything that can expose your blood to the surface will leave you open (no punt intended) into contracting something. When you are jacking them off im sure that they have shot their load on your hand or in your mouth right? and are you 100% sure that you have never have a paper cut? a sore in your mouth? chapped lips? never a scrape? Im not trying to judge you. just letting you know you need to really think about your health.
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This may seem like an age old question, but how do you find your perfect guy? Of course I know that 'nobody's perfect', but there must be someone who is near perfect for everybody. Someone who loves you for who you are, treats you with respect, isn't afraid to be themselves, laughs with you, wouldn't change you, would do anything for you, holds you in their arms, and is just a good friend who makes you feel special inside. I know this sounds like a lot, but there must be a guy out there who can fit some of this and is meant to be mine.
I've never met any guy I have fallen in love with, I have never dated because all the guys I know are jerks or players, I live in a little town, and I don't know where I can go from here.
I am actually cute, but I don't seem to attract many guys. Being myself does not seem to work either.
My life is kind of hard, and you know how you can get the feeling that something is missing in your life and you need someone, some guy, to fill that hole within your heart because nothing else is working? Well, I am positive I need to find that someone. I don't know if fate will oneday come and he will be standing at my doorstep, or offering to take me out for dinner, or on my college sports team... but how .. how do you find that one guy, know that he is single, and get him to notice you? ~17f
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I totally understand you. I myself have felt the same way many many times however the advice/opinion that i can sa to you is this
the question of how to find the perfect guy/girl is a question of questions, everyone asks but know one really knows i say this...
how to not find thr wrong guy or better yet how to avoid the wrong guy/girl
I really think avoiding the wrong person will help you find the right person.
I strongly recommend to do what i did and that was to keep a strong mental note of the thinkgs you really do not want to deal with and if its hard to keep your mental note then write it down and read it ...read it alot...so much it becomes your law. if you do not want a guy that curses write it down, dont want a player? write it down dont want a flirt? write it down down want a person who just wants to spread your legs? write it down...get the pic? what you really want to do is to train yourself. Dont want a nerd? a talkative guy? sensative? lazy? brown hair? tall? short? write and note it down and read and read read it over and over again avoid..learn to avoid the guys that you do not want in your life that you fell will not be worth it to you because you have a goal and plan. im not saying be mean and rude insult people but i am saying is to be street smart. I strongly suggest to always but limits to yourself..for example if you find a guy that you find thats interesting and cute and he wants to or asks you to do something you do not feel or want to do ...dont put limits if you dont like to go around robbing banks ...dont do it. if he likes to have one nights stands or do sexual favors and wants some in return don go for it limits yourself tell yourself and teach yourself not to go desperate and not to be hopeless, you have tons of time to accomplish things in life to set goals and reach them as you wait for your life companion be a winner a champion always remembering that life is hard but compare to what?
being yourself will never be the wrong thing...even if youre a wierd person the guy will always see you for who you are and you will be who you are not what he wants you to be. I strongly believe the right person should always bring out the best qualities in you and should teach you to be patient, calm, and make you feel relaxed and loved. till you meet him learn to be a young mature woman if you ever wanted to learn how to cook nows your time, ever wanted to learn to roller blade? nows the time ever wanted to learn how to do the dishes, laundry etc,etc do it nows the time...now dont go crazy on me and do things you know you are not suppose to do.
I hope this helps if it doesnt let me know
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So I would prefer guys to answer, but girls if you know what you're talking about then go for it.
So I have a couple of questions. So when I'm giving a handjob, I can never tell if the guy comes/has an orgasm and I don't want to flat out ask. Usually there is something wet and sticky that comes out, but it doesn't seem like that much..so is this "pre-cum" or did he actually have an orgasm? I can't tell and I feel like it's not and that I'm doing something wrong. If I am, can you give me any advice?
Usually a little bit after, his penis does go soft. Does this mean he did, or do they just go soft after a while? In a different context, he said his boner will just go away on its own after a little bit. Is that normal? But also sometimes it seems like its still hard after that small amount of wet sticky stuff comes out.
I would really appreciate any and all answers! thanks (link)
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tell/ get your guy to see a doctor.
but to answer the question
males can pre-ejaculate semen (the pre-cum)
or can ejaculate/ orgasm (cum)
the amount depends if he had sex before you gave him the handjob due is low on sperm. If he does soft or limp it could mean he has orgasm or is just tired of just a hand job and wants to penetrate you.
medical wise get his to talk to a doctor to cheack his heart is ok and that his prostate is ok i wont go into details but medical wise its important for him to see a doctor... and no offense but dont have many sexual partners giving out handjobs can leave you open (no punt intended) for stds.
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Alright. Here is the thing. This past summer I got involved with a total ass(it happens) and he hurt me becuase I found out he was only trying to get in my pants (have sex) and when I told him I wasn't ready (I was fourteen when he asked me! Granted, he was sixteen at the time but still. Fourteen... now way) he dumped me... Yeah. Anyway, that's a whole nother story... I pretty much moved on and I am now dating this awesome guy and we have been for a little over a month. The summer jerk we'll call T and my boyfriend we'll call C. So C and I are doing fine and dandy but just last night we got into a little fight and I hung up on him. We were cooling down when wow, would fate have it? T texts me. Just a casual "hey, what's up? :)" and normally (cuz he's tried to call and text and see me a few times since we broke up but ive been hesitant cuz i KNOW what his intentions are) i just ignore him but since I was mad at C I was like what the hell and I started chatting with him. It was just texting so its not like it was a big deal and we were just catching up but I still feel bad... C knows about my past with T and he would be pissed if he knew I was talking to him. I don't want to talk to T either. But... I kind of want to try and be friends with him. Is that possible?? I mean. Yeah he hurt me and he never apologized but maybe he didn't know how much he hurt me. Maybe we can work it out and be friends. I'm tired of being angry at him and I want a friendship to work (oh by the way, T goes to a different school than C and I do) But there are a few problems with that... Number 1: C could quite possibly get mad. Number 2: T was an ass, what if he's a sucky friend too?? Number 3: What if i start to like him again...? That CAN"T happen. I am crazy about C but I have always had this thing for bad boys... I don't know... I'm just so confused and I don't know what to do so any help would be great thanks. But I do want this friendship. I'm over T but I'm not over what he's done to me and I think I need to be his friend to finally work though this bad blood with him and help myself. BEcause I feel like until I work this out I'm never going to be able to get closer to C or anyone. I need to be able to trust again. Btw, I am fifteen and C and T are both sixteen. (link)
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Im glad you kept an eye out for yourself as you can see people can be very cunning at taking advantage of opportunities...with that said you should not forget to keep that eye open. This t guy i dont understand why you would even want to even have any relationship with? If c is such a great guy then why would you get mad and fight?
one of you is not being understanding or patient. t on the other hand is just being t and will be doing what he always does wait for the right moments to slip your panties of you and spread the gates to your legs open to get to your pearl..i wouldnt even try him as a friend. You're a smart girl...stay smart and loyal. you know once you tell t about your problems about your relationship youll only give him a scent of the flesh he can devour...again be smart and stay smart dont hurt c...i mean he is a great guy right? and he hasnt hurt you right? so does he deserve for you to go get a bad friend just because you both could not agree on something?
think about it...
and remember you can always have sex tomorrow....today may not be the right time.
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can girls give hickies to guys or are guys usually the only ones to give them to girls? (link)
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it can go either way but its sensless to walk around with a bitemark on your neck, that just makes people look down on you or on the girl...its harder on the girl...many will claim it makes her look like a slut or a easy girl. Do her a favor and dont make her/him look that way
dont let folks judge your love one. keep the hickes in private areas.
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Sooo there is this guy at school who I thought was really cute so we ended up facebook messaging eachother he started the conversation and we were flirting hardcore. So anyways he told me like 3 times he wanted to hangout and I gave him my # and it's been 2 week and he still has yet to call/text me! He will flirt with me on facebook but when it comes down to actually texting/calling me he dosent do it eventhough he asks me to hangout. Ugh I dunno what type of validation he wants but what should I do in return to attack his ego a bit? I don't like guys who play games (link)
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I know you may ot like what ill say but
Dont flirt, be yourself
People get high off of that if he likes you he shouldnt flirt he should just be himself and prove it
If you like him you dont need to flirt beyourself at least youll always know if it was really you he liked or if it was just the flirting.
dont attack anyone that will just make you look desperate and he might get high off of that. ignore him and erase/block him as a contact...at least you know now that he wasnt interested in something serious or good with you. if he asks again just say no thanks, if he asks why? then just walk away...he is not the only guy on this planet there are guys out there that will not need you to flirt and that will accept you for who you are with out being fake.
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there is this kid i really like. i went to a baby shower and he was there but then after that i never saw him again, until my friend was talking to me about a boy and it was actually him..i got really surpised. my friend gaved him the link of my myspace and he requested me..we started chatting and then he asked me if i have a phone or aim..and i gaved him both..he texted me and we started texting and we still are..he is a really funny kid and we talk about love and different types of things he said he wants to see me so we can all chill but i dont have the time because am going to new york,the ther day he was going to pick me up to go to a party and i ddint went..he was actually sad because he told me he wanted to meet me ..but i want to know if he likes me because i like him alot :( (link)
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I think he likes and finds you interesting and thats a good thing, not everyone finds love right away. In my opinion i think you should see this as a good opportunity to find a really good friend good friends do make the best friends and your significant other should be your best friend, the person youll trust that will not betray you. I am saying to dont get your hopes too high and dont get your feelings hurt go with the mentality of being a friend, youll never go wrong
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..if a guy actually loves you like he says he does or if he just wants you for the sex? (link)
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You Are AWESOME!!
Good Question
I wished more would ask this question to themselves or outloud.
Guys have a tendency to giving many many many clues when it comes to sex but its your responsibility to see the signs and avoid the person...say what??!!
What i mean is you really need to do one thing before finding out if a guy wants sex.
1. Decide for yourself am I this kind of girl? do I see myself naked in front of this guy? Opened up? grabbed? squeezed? explored? fonded? can i really see myself naked bent over? penetrated?
all these questions could sound stupid, senseless and even humurous but the reality this is what does occur when you do decide to have sex And only you will have the last say if you do or do not want to do. in other words you will need to make up your mind and stand your ground, be willing to demand respect but be polite and do it with honor You must be willing to prevent things from even getting there and must be willing to walk away from the relationship.
2. don let guys hug you. Alot of guys get a high when they get to feel you up. its really there way of testing waters, if youre willing to let them get close to you then your willing to let them get to the next level.
3. Dont let guys sweet talk you. as soon as you get a sweet talker 1. turn him down or 2. ignore him but most important of all dont encourage him.
4. If you hear a guy talking vulgar you should know that his intentions are the same as yours.
5. Study, study and study him after all he wont be the one getting poked or penetrated ...you will so you need to study what you are going to end up dealing with.
5. You can always have sex tomorrow...today may not be the right time. What this means is think think and think. learn to be patient. do not get overexcited. If you want to feel what it is to be a woman then learn to think,behave and be wise like a mature woman. having sex isnt all of that especially when you end up getting spread open and the guy turns out to be a jerk.
6. Is he a jerk? well is he? if hes a jerk and everyone sees it ..heck even you see it but wont accept it then dont expect him to not be a jerk if hes a genuine jerk then thats whats hes going to do with you...jerk you around.
7. learn his thoughts his goals his plans, his desire for marriage and children....now before you go all headless chicken on me think about it if he sees himself married and settling down wouldnt that be a sign of maturity? yes he can change but were not talking about how or when he will change where talking about avoiding the guys that just want sex. If his mentality is to grow up reach gols and reach them together with that special someone then whats that telling you?
8.How is his relationshiop between him and his family (parents) is there respect? how does his father treat his mother? how does he treat hi mother? how does he treat his bro? hi sis? these are huge signs as to what kind of person he is
9. whats he like at school? work? home? church?
how different is he when hes alone in in front of everyone else. Is he fake? diffrent? or just wearing diffrent masks? if he is a diffrent person then he may just be showing you a mask from his collection of his lies.
10. Does he swear? curse?
look at how he swares does he use the "c" word? (you know the Cu_T) the "P" (puss_) his vocabulary will give you a window to see into his views towards female respects, and the female biology ...if hes willing to use those words he might be willing to use them towards you.
11.dont kiss on the first date or the first year!
say what!!??? ... you want a relationship right? not sex a relationship should never include sex
it should always include respect, support, patience, communication, care, understanding and compassion. sex should not even be in the same picture because if you need to spread your self open for him to be sweet or understanding then where in the world is the compassion?
12. No touchy touchy
that means no grabbing no spanking, no poke, sliding hand over certain areas, no coupling, no fonding, no licking, or heavy deep breathing, no inserting or fingering, no nibbling--> they lead to bites, no french kissing and now grinding, and no sexual physical contact.
13. No pressure. Your not trying to buy something so why the sales pitch and pressure. if his intentions are good he will not bring up sex, unless youre both going out for a long time and everything is fine and even then if everything is fine why intoduce sex?
things you should keep an eye on him
1. sexual gestures
2.touch/grab/fonding
3.licking his lips
4. looking at you up and down
5.staring at your breasts?
6.staring at your rump?
7. staring at you genetilia area?
8. asking you for a kiss?
9. asking your for a hug?
10.talking dirty?
11. Not taking no for an answer
12. Asks you to have sex
13. talks about sex
14.only wants to talk about sex
15. wants to get you alone
16. invites you over to his home to be alone with him
17. wants to spend alot of time with you in dark places
18. does not encourage you
19. does not help you
20. doesnt bring out the best qualities in you
21.doesnt care about your family
22. doesnt care about your dreams and goals
23. doesnt consder your feelings and thoughts
24. only thinks about himself
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how old do you have to be to buy condoms or is there an age limit for buying condoms at all? If there is is there any other way I can get them without stealing them? (link)
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As far as im concerned no. Is there any way of getting them with out stealing them? Yeah...this is my advice to you use your mind and will as your condom
its free with no regrets, guaranteed not to get you HIV, STD's, Pregnant and will not make you look like a fool if you do have sex without thinking it thoroughly. Remember you can alwasys have sex tomorrow today may not be the best time.
...go one low grade me its kool
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k so last summer around july went to a beach in mexico on a 5 day trip with some friends, im 20 , hes 21 , we met this guys from uk and end up kissing with one of them, then ran into them the next day at a different club, and next day one of my friends asked one of the guys their hotel room so we can call and meet the next day at a different club met the next day at a different club the past 3 days been kissing with the same guy his brother accidentally mentioned he had a girlfirend , but this guy said he didnt, i decided to ignore it since i didnt plan to even spoke to him again after the 5 day trip since we live THOUSANDS of km apart so theres no point and we met at a beach ,anyway so that day we went to the beach like at 5am after the club we all went there and had a great time , we were not all together, i was with this guy and my friends with some other , but appart..anyway we decided to meet on our last day in there ( they were staying for a nother week and we were going back to our city ) the beach is in my country , not in my city, and they are from another country. anyway so the last night he wanted to have sex but he was real drunk , told him i wouldnt have sex with him even if we found a hotel cause we had a problem with me getting in his hotel cause i was not staying there and he couldnt go to mine either , i said no because im not the kind of person who has sex with someone i just met less than a week ago , he was okay with it and since it was my last day he asked for my number and email , i didnt wanted to give it to him cause it was pointless so he managed to find a pen at the club and made me write my number and email in his arm and in a little paper since he didnt wanted to loose it , so we left and left my friends and the others at the club, and went to the beach late at night like 4am , had a great time just talking , walking , joking , so finally had to go back to my hotel cause it was like 6am and my plane was leavin in 2 hours. when i got back to my city i left to another country on vacation with my family...and the guy who was still at my country called me i was so surprised he did cause i really didnt thought he would .. next day he called again,,,and the next day ,,and the next day ,,,AND the next day ,,he asked me to add him to msn so i did when i got back to my country.. he didnt call anymore BUT he did texted me like probably 5-10 times a day everyday for the next 2 months probably and kept talking on msn everyday for hOURS then he asked if i knew he had a gf...and i said i did cause i heard his brother saying it , and he asked why i still decided to make out with him i said cause i didnt thought this thing between us was going to last beyond the second day we kissed and i didnt thought he would call, add me on msn, or text me when i left the beach..and he said he wasnt a cheater but he really liked me and he wouldnt do it if we were together, still i gave him the choice to stop texting me cause i didnt wanted to get him in trouble with his gf he said it was fine , that his gf was crazy he didnt care. (found out they were together for about 2 years and a half ) so one day the girl texted me ..saying he had a gf and that he lied to me and begging me to stop talking to him, i said he didnt lie, i knew he had a gf and hes the one who decided to keep in touch with me , not me , this caused them to broke up he said he didnt care and didnt even knew if he wanted to get back with her , anyway so we continued talking and texting everyday,, i think they got back together cause the girl started texting me lots more times now from her phone and insulting me ,calling me a slut and stuff when i was not the one trying to look for a hotel at 5 am at a diff country ¬¬ ..so we kept talking , and suddenly he stoped talking to me , and i didnt try to talk to him...i assumed he was really trying to make it work between them ..so i was fine with it ..then after about 3 weeks not talking at all or text or anything. he sent me an email just like asking how was i doing and what i've been up to and stuff i reply and he didnt wrote back, then didnt knw anything about him for another w weeks and then another email...and then again ...like we stoped talking everyday but every 2 weeks he wrote me an email just like checking how was i doing . its been a month since he and i havent spoken not even an email. and just all of a sudden he went online and talked to me just for like 20 min , quick stuff like catching up how you been? hows school , told me about his job and then he had to leave and it was nice speaking to me soon.....anyway what i mean is ..its been almost 5 months since we met, we only met for 5 days ,,kept talking a lot the first 3 months , fone, texts, msn,, and all of a sudden stoped talking but he randomly emailed me just like quick updates,,, i DONT GET IT if he's trying to stop talking to me why does he still wants to "keep in touch" by checking how im doing? i mean we dont talked like we used to but its like every 2 weeks he wants me to know hes still alive hahah if you know what i mean, i dont get it , like whats the point of all of it ?? this is not what you would expect from someone you ramdomly hooked up in some foreign country and you might never see the person again, proabbly next summer cause they all want to come back to the same beach and told me we should schedule the same dates cause ill be prolly going on summer too.......anyway sorry if it was long theres no way to sumrize it just wanna know your opinion about it ..
*note: we never had a long distance relationship or anythng like that (link)
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Please do not get offended by this.
My opinion on this is...
its best to keep rule # 1 in front of you a rule our parents told us Dont talk to strangers
I dont mean not to socialize i mean you can get a feeling inside you ...that feeling that says someothing doesnt smell right. If you did hear someone mention that he has a girlfriend then that was your answer not clue or hint but your answer to say to yourself wait why am i behaving this way? No one can force you or obligate you to give him your info..now days its more important to flirt and be wild than to really think ahead of what may come. He wanted sex and you most likely would have had sex even though you said you dont have sex that early but you do have sex and he did feel led on. Im not trying to lecture you so forgive me for giving that impression but the best thing you can do at this point is do not talk to him anymore, who knows what about him he does or he doesnt have a girlfriend ...i dont know!? Now if you had a boyfriend and he did what you did what would you feel? think? react? and do? i bet youd appreciate it if other folks would be smart not to give some random guy a lead and kissing a stranger? someone that you met in a bar doesnt mean much ....and someon mentioning he has a girl and you ignoring it that way ...in my opinion isnt very wise...like i said ignore him move one and try to learn from this to improve you life and avoid future trouble. Even though i know you will more than likely low grade me its ok and i really hope this helps
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Hey guys well I'm having this issue with my boyfriend and I feel that I need advice on. Yesturday we argued because he gives his phone numbers to girls and of course they call him, and yesturday was the same situation in which a girl had called him and he didnt want to admit he gave her the number. But then after he did. I don't wanna say that he's cheating on me because as far as I know he's not. But he is very social and talks to alot of girls in school, I'm not on the other hand when I have a relationship I like to back away from being too friendly with other guys because I know for a fact that brings drama. I don't like the fact that when I bring up that I don't like having to deal with all these girls he gets upset and starts acting defensive because he's not cheating and he doesnt understand why I don't like it. I tell him that if he were in my shoes he would be pissed off too, because he's really jelous but he doesnt have to deal with this because I don't doit. Im debating on whether to start talking to guys and giving my number out too because at the moment I dont think the relationship is being fair towards me. I don't like to think I'm a control freak but I don't like that half of those girls he gives his number out to speak to me bad and they like him, even though he claims they don't. I feel he doesnt respect me. What do you guys think? Let me know.
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I think theres nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends, however as long as your feelings are reslpected. I think your guy should introduce his friends to you i mean after all you are a big part of his life right?? and youd do the same right? so stay connected with his friends and if they are good friends they will want the best for both of you and help you both whenever possible. I dont think you should ever get jealous however it is not right for your significant other to provoke you or to stress the relationship after all you are his girl and i dont think hed appreciate it if you did the same...at first he will be like its cool, then fine then hey whats going on and finally single again. I think you should try what he is doing just experiment then youll get to see if you really are a strong couple or just a couple. In my opinion find a person you cannot live with, instead find a person you feel you cant live without...in other words you are free and should not feel obligated to his behavior...i know folks will say they are young who cars its just young "love" but I DONT THINK SO...if you dont do anything you are just contributing and encouragin people to continue with this mentality. Avoid a guy that does not have the qualities you have...after all dont guys look for whats more convenient for them?
I really think both of you should respect each other. Its a good ractice to learn about one another and never be afraid to think that this is not the only guy/girl in the world, there is that right person the will mesh with me out there...thats why I do NOT encourage SEX at such young age in a younge relationship.... once you have sex you are obligated to that person and it can have some really stressful and heartbreaking consequences people dont talk much about that part they only say go for it have sex. Not to put you down but i really hope you havent given him any, and if you have then this is maybe why he feels he can do anything. If you havent good dont give it to him. If hes asking for some and is behaving this way cause you havent given him some then be smart and dont give it to him instead let him go You have nothing to loose and have lost nothing except your time...and time can be forgotten with the rght person who will erase all traces of his presence.
If you need more time email me at oktalktome@yahoo.com
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Just like the subject says I guess. How are they different or are they? (link)
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they are similar but not the same
head job means oral sex and play with the head but no orgasm
blowjob means oral sex with end result being an orgasm
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I have a little babysitting business with 60+ kids but durin the holiday season it certainly slows down so i was thinking of doing a holiday speacial of some sort. Except I don't know what to do. Should I do 1 hour free or 2 hours free? Also, should I have rules that go along with it? If its 2 hours free, I need to be there for 5 hours or if its 1 hour free I need to be there for at least 3.. or what?
Thanks, and all tips and advice is grealty appreciated. (link)
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Do a 1hour free when you sign up for..
or get 8 hours for the price of 6 or something like that
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HI i'm 14 and my penis is 6.5 inches when i'm erect is this good or bad??? Please somebody tell me! (link)
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it means you are trying to get attention.
So whats your question? is it bad cause? good cause?
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female.
this may be a weird question .. but i was wondering .. is there a certain way to hug someone thats more "flirty, cute or sexy?" a hug that shows that your interested in someone? like putting your arms around a guys neck instead of his waist? i dont know!! suggestions?? (link)
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I think be respectful and kind light hug that always will be in my opinion sexy...expecially if you have an intimate ( sexual ) life with that person...its always more flirty and hot if you do that behind doors not in fron of everyone else...i guess it depends if you like to share with everyone else your "flirt" or if your a more personal person
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Ok so i have a crush on a guy i know from work. im pretty sure he likes me too. We talk all the time, and i feel so comforable aroung him. how do i drop hints that i like him without being totally obvious?
also- i would love to hear some opinions- there is a significant age difference. hes 17 and im a 21/f. i dont think it is illegal because of the 4 year difference, but i lways though the guy wsas supposed to be the oldest. i would love to see some opinions. thanks so much. (link)
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the age diffrence isnt a legal issue or so i think it isnt and it wouldnt matter whos older male or female if its illegal it illegal. But this isnt your case. I dont think you should hint anything. the good old rule of thumb is be yourself just be careful how you express your self you dont want him or any guy at work thinking your easy or a "plastic" ("bourgeoisie")
but you do want to let him and any other guy that your a playful friendly happy, responsible, respecting and resposible young woman as you are. you wont go wrong with you being you. Whe i hear of girls flirting it makes me wonder why flirt if you got the goods in other words you dont need anything to sell cause your not selling yourself instead you want to be what you represent because in the end thats really what and who you are. Being a co worker and letting him choose you over everyone else with great respect is what i would want to accomplish not be just another flirt. I hope this helps if it doesn let me know
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There's this kid that I had a little thing with for a few weeks.Then one of his best friends randomly said he "doesn't like me anymore." He tried to talk to a few of my friends ,but they denied him.And he knew I was interested in him.He isn't good looking or popular ,he actually hasn't had a girlfriend since 8th grade and we are in 11th.I do actually like him a lot ! The reasons I think he likes me are : he talks to me on IM every single night (he talks to me first) for like atleast 2 hours ,he texts me when he's at work just to say hey,he asks me to chill every weekend and sometimes during the week,and sometimes his friends ask me about "us".Yet whenever we have long deep talks (which is almost daily) he gets into how he doesn't bother trying to get a girl and how he isn't trying to "talk" to any girls and how he believes in "love at first sight"..which tends to confuse me.Yet,I never hint that I like him either and I kinda go along with what he says just so I don't sound dumb.This has been going on for about 1 month and we kissed one time when we first started talking.He says he talks to me the most ,(out of girls) so idk...
i need advice! and i'm to scared to bring up "him and I " as a topic unless he brings it up first..HELP! (link)
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Wow...good Job!! caring for your feelings. I think its best to wait and to remind yourself not to fall deep, to keep some distance from him let yourself breath. The thing you do not want to do is reveal to someone feelings that they themselves do not feel the same. I personally would not let this subject come up, if anything id let talk to me about it BUT he has to not winn you over but more of give you trust and change, you should remind yourself what kind of man/guy you want in your life BUT mor importantly remind your self what kind of man/guy/boyfriend/lover you do NOT want in your life.
i hope this helps if not let me know
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We are going to have sex soon and we really need to know the least painful way to take virginity. Can anyone help us make this a better experience or do we just do it and hope for the best?
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I know you wont like what i will say but you asked for an opinion and my opinion is what you will get...ehemm...
I honestly think that can help is to not rush into the "sex" craze, rather than worry about the pain you or she will feel concentrate more on the feelings and the consequenses this step will make on your relationship. It really doesnt matter what position you do or how hard you push or how dry or how darn turned on you are, i personally would rather focus on knowing that i can assure my lover that i trust them and they can trust me. i can trust them not to pressure me and they can trust me not to pressure them, we both can trust each other emotionally, and physically and thenot only trust but respect each other... you might say man i didnt ask for a lecture and im sorry but its not, see the answers that im telling you how its all in there.
If YOU want it to be less painful consider this
You can always have sex tomorrow ...today may not always be the right time....what??!!
ill expalin .if you dont want it to hurt be willing to STOP when it does start to hurt not every vagina is the same not every hymen react the same and not every female will bleed but every female does have feelings and every female want to feel loved and secure and no female wants to be used or even feel used, its tough enough for them to have to be spread open have their most precious and intimate parts of their bodies explored and fondled it'll be worser if a guy just thinks about his feeling and needs. so when it starts to hurt stop again today may not be the right time, take it slow, were not talking a an ear piercing were talking something sacred...Virginity
I hope this helps if its not what you wanted to hear its ok ill understand why you low graded me.
thanks
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