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Why do guys play games?
Sooo there is this guy at school who I thought was really cute so we ended up facebook messaging eachother he started the conversation and we were flirting hardcore. So anyways he told me like 3 times he wanted to hangout and I gave him my # and it's been 2 week and he still has yet to call/text me! He will flirt with me on facebook but when it comes down to actually texting/calling me he dosent do it eventhough he asks me to hangout. Ugh I dunno what type of validation he wants but what should I do in return to attack his ego a bit? I don't like guys who play games
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I know you may ot like what ill say but
Dont flirt, be yourself
People get high off of that if he likes you he shouldnt flirt he should just be himself and prove it
If you like him you dont need to flirt beyourself at least youll always know if it was really you he liked or if it was just the flirting.
dont attack anyone that will just make you look desperate and he might get high off of that. ignore him and erase/block him as a contact...at least you know now that he wasnt interested in something serious or good with you. if he asks again just say no thanks, if he asks why? then just walk away...he is not the only guy on this planet there are guys out there that will not need you to flirt and that will accept you for who you are with out being fake.
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Well how old is this guy? Guys can be shy too and making the first move is hard. There can be lots of flirting and strong signals, but he is probably nervous. If you are willing to suggest hanging out, he should take that lead and loosen up. Next time you are flirting online, just mention an idea. "Hey want to come over?.." or.."Want to hang out at the mall..? or the movies..etc. Even make it a group hangout the first time if you will feel better about that.
But to answer your question, he might not be playing games, he might be shy. So try lightly suggesting a day to hang out..if he doesnt bite the bait then, move on.
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