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Hey guys well I'm having this issue with my boyfriend and I feel that I need advice on. Yesturday we argued because he gives his phone numbers to girls and of course they call him, and yesturday was the same situation in which a girl had called him and he didnt want to admit he gave her the number. But then after he did. I don't wanna say that he's cheating on me because as far as I know he's not. But he is very social and talks to alot of girls in school, I'm not on the other hand when I have a relationship I like to back away from being too friendly with other guys because I know for a fact that brings drama. I don't like the fact that when I bring up that I don't like having to deal with all these girls he gets upset and starts acting defensive because he's not cheating and he doesnt understand why I don't like it. I tell him that if he were in my shoes he would be pissed off too, because he's really jelous but he doesnt have to deal with this because I don't doit. Im debating on whether to start talking to guys and giving my number out too because at the moment I dont think the relationship is being fair towards me. I don't like to think I'm a control freak but I don't like that half of those girls he gives his number out to speak to me bad and they like him, even though he claims they don't. I feel he doesnt respect me. What do you guys think? Let me know.
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hey girl, okay well i recently just broke up with my bf bc of that same issue. there should be no reason for yer bf to tlk to other girls when he has you. idc if he is social or not, he is committed in a relationship and you deserve better than that. it doesnt seem like he respects you and you should demand respect (: i would tlk to him about this and if he is not willing to change then drop him girl and find a real man (:
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It's not bad for him to talk to his friends boys or girls...but giving his number out to other girls and call each other, That A deff. NO!! Sepicaly when the girl likes him. I would be PISTTTTTT if my boy friend did that! And if he didn't stop i would dump him, i don't no everything about you too so i am not going to say to brake up with him but you should consider it if he keeps do it. Explain to him calmly what you don't like him doing so he can understand it from your point of veiw.
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I think theres nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends, however as long as your feelings are reslpected. I think your guy should introduce his friends to you i mean after all you are a big part of his life right?? and youd do the same right? so stay connected with his friends and if they are good friends they will want the best for both of you and help you both whenever possible. I dont think you should ever get jealous however it is not right for your significant other to provoke you or to stress the relationship after all you are his girl and i dont think hed appreciate it if you did the same...at first he will be like its cool, then fine then hey whats going on and finally single again. I think you should try what he is doing just experiment then youll get to see if you really are a strong couple or just a couple. In my opinion find a person you cannot live with, instead find a person you feel you cant live without...in other words you are free and should not feel obligated to his behavior...i know folks will say they are young who cars its just young "love" but I DONT THINK SO...if you dont do anything you are just contributing and encouragin people to continue with this mentality. Avoid a guy that does not have the qualities you have...after all dont guys look for whats more convenient for them?
I really think both of you should respect each other. Its a good ractice to learn about one another and never be afraid to think that this is not the only guy/girl in the world, there is that right person the will mesh with me out there...thats why I do NOT encourage SEX at such young age in a younge relationship.... once you have sex you are obligated to that person and it can have some really stressful and heartbreaking consequences people dont talk much about that part they only say go for it have sex. Not to put you down but i really hope you havent given him any, and if you have then this is maybe why he feels he can do anything. If you havent good dont give it to him. If hes asking for some and is behaving this way cause you havent given him some then be smart and dont give it to him instead let him go You have nothing to loose and have lost nothing except your time...and time can be forgotten with the rght person who will erase all traces of his presence.
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