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i am getting mixed signals! grr.
hello. i am 15/f.
okay so there is this guy who i have a crush on. we are kinda friends. we talk a lot on facebook and we just started texting. i talk to him a bit at school, but rarely because we barely see each other. he is a senior so he had early leave. i see him right before he leaves the school to drive home. so you know everytime i see him i walk all the way up to the door that leads to the senior's parking lot and i give him a hug goodbye. the other day i saw him at the beginning of school and he gave me a hug. i was surprised because i am the one who usually gives hugs... so there is a play going on at my school and he texts me to come see the play so i can hangout with him a bit. i told him i didn't have a ride and he should come pick me up. he told me that he wished but he couldn't leave the school. so the guy i am crushing on, his name is jack, has a good friend named steve that has a crush on me. jack knows that i am not interested in steve cuz steve does pot and i don't like guys like that and jack knows that. so i am in school walking jack to the entrance to the parking lot and i was going to give him a hug but he was walking so it would be hard to just stop him for a hug so i decided not to but i think he noticed i wanted one because he leaned his arm on my shoulder. but then i notice he was walking faster than me but he slowed down for my pace. i thought that was wierd. and we both have facebooks and he answered a question that was asking if he ever had a crush on me, he answered yes. so i text him on monday night and i say "HAHA YOU HAD A CRUSH ON ME!:P" and he just answers back "HAHAHAH XD" so i told him i was making brownies and bringing some to school the next day and i asked him if i saw him would he want one. and he said "if you see me, then sure :p" but i saw him yesterday and i asked him if he wanted a brownie and he just says "no" and walks away. i dont know. maybe i am just sensitive. maybe he just acts that way all the time? we made plans to go to the movies the week before and we planned on going together the weekend that just passed. so on that day i text him "hey are you busy?" he answers "yeah. :0 por quee?" and i text him "MOVIES" (but in spanish). and he goes "what movie?" and i told him "didn't we agree on xxx" and he goes "oh yeahhh :p" so i go "hmm". he texts back "hmmm". i ask him "unless you want to see something else". and he goes "no i dont care :p". so i ask him "so we going are what?". and he texts back "not today :/". i think he has a crush on me. but i am getting confused. maybe he is kinda backing off a bit because of steve?
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well it looks like this guy is very interested in you but just remember that since he is a senior, he is probably lookin to attend college which could complicte things. i would take things slow with this boy because he is 18 and you are 15. goodluck (:
<3 Heatherr
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it sounds like he has a crush on you yes. if this guy is 18 though remember it is illegal for him to date a minor and can get into big trouble if he were to ever have a relationship with you. Also keep in mind that if he is a senior he probably has plans to attend college after graduation which means he will be going to another school and most people who attend college barley have time for relationships with someone that isn't out of high school only because they are on two different schedules and in college the studying always gets in the way
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