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What is ths least painful way to take virginity?
We are going to have sex soon and we really need to know the least painful way to take virginity. Can anyone help us make this a better experience or do we just do it and hope for the best?
Thank you!
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I agree with my friend KayJohnson:) It will hurt either way. Some girls cherrys may not pop tho. So; But eventually it will stop hurting and it will feel really good. Trust me; I knoe (:
Let me know how it goes!
-KayChapman<3;
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Honestly, It's going to hurt eiether way out. But as he keeps going it'll not hurt as bad. Your cherry might pop *which is when you start bleeding; but after that, everything shouldn't feel that bad. I hope for the best. :)
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I know you wont like what i will say but you asked for an opinion and my opinion is what you will get...ehemm...
I honestly think that can help is to not rush into the "sex" craze, rather than worry about the pain you or she will feel concentrate more on the feelings and the consequenses this step will make on your relationship. It really doesnt matter what position you do or how hard you push or how dry or how darn turned on you are, i personally would rather focus on knowing that i can assure my lover that i trust them and they can trust me. i can trust them not to pressure me and they can trust me not to pressure them, we both can trust each other emotionally, and physically and thenot only trust but respect each other... you might say man i didnt ask for a lecture and im sorry but its not, see the answers that im telling you how its all in there.
If YOU want it to be less painful consider this
You can always have sex tomorrow ...today may not always be the right time....what??!!
ill expalin .if you dont want it to hurt be willing to STOP when it does start to hurt not every vagina is the same not every hymen react the same and not every female will bleed but every female does have feelings and every female want to feel loved and secure and no female wants to be used or even feel used, its tough enough for them to have to be spread open have their most precious and intimate parts of their bodies explored and fondled it'll be worser if a guy just thinks about his feeling and needs. so when it starts to hurt stop again today may not be the right time, take it slow, were not talking a an ear piercing were talking something sacred...Virginity
I hope this helps if its not what you wanted to hear its ok ill understand why you low graded me.
thanks
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there really is no answer for this question because everyone is different. Sure you could hope for the best, but what one person likes another person might not. Some girls dont feel any pain while having sex or losing their virginities. Others might, and for some it hurts for more than just the first time. Assuming that you are a girl l can just say to try the missionary position, which is you on the bottom with your legs spread and knees bent while he slowly begins to gently thrust gradually. Or if you go on top and figure out yourself what ways hurt and what don't. At least when you're on top you can control the motion and speed and much more because sometimes guys may love you but when they have sex they may let their hormones get the best of them and get carried away. Just be careful and take it slow, mostly you really shouldn't think too much about it. Sex comes naturally, so let it. l hope l helped.
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