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Crush
Ok so i have a crush on a guy i know from work. im pretty sure he likes me too. We talk all the time, and i feel so comforable aroung him. how do i drop hints that i like him without being totally obvious?
also- i would love to hear some opinions- there is a significant age difference. hes 17 and im a 21/f. i dont think it is illegal because of the 4 year difference, but i lways though the guy wsas supposed to be the oldest. i would love to see some opinions. thanks so much.
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well first of all you speak to him like you would as normal but also treat him a little diffrent but try not to rush things cause you may scare him away but if he likes you like you think i wouldnt worry to much about it and just ask him if he d like to go out sometime to the movies or something and socialise trade numbers and stuff and take it from there and 17 years of age makes him legal so no its not illegal as long as that person is willing to have a relationship with a person of your age and it doesnt really matter whos older cause liking someone doesnt always work out that way and well i hope my advice helps you .
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the age diffrence isnt a legal issue or so i think it isnt and it wouldnt matter whos older male or female if its illegal it illegal. But this isnt your case. I dont think you should hint anything. the good old rule of thumb is be yourself just be careful how you express your self you dont want him or any guy at work thinking your easy or a "plastic" ("bourgeoisie")
but you do want to let him and any other guy that your a playful friendly happy, responsible, respecting and resposible young woman as you are. you wont go wrong with you being you. Whe i hear of girls flirting it makes me wonder why flirt if you got the goods in other words you dont need anything to sell cause your not selling yourself instead you want to be what you represent because in the end thats really what and who you are. Being a co worker and letting him choose you over everyone else with great respect is what i would want to accomplish not be just another flirt. I hope this helps if it doesn let me know
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Age only matters if your goals are different. Couples with age gaps sometimes have problems because one is ready to settle down and the other is not. If you think you want the same things, give it a chance... just keep in mind that he is young and may not be done playing the field. Don't get your heart broken!
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