Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me!
ok well dont cheat on him jus cuz he says it takes a lot to hurt him cuz once you do it you will mess errything up. i think that you are jus too curious wit this girl. dont mess something thats already good up for something or someone that might not be.
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ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/
girl i dont even know who is who cuz you keep on sayin the other kid. name these bitches from the beginning and then maybe i could answer your question.
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im a 16 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months... we have had sex in the past btu today i let him take my anal virginity... and it hurt really bad... now i knwo the first time it will hurt that is just a given but will it always hurt? i want to do it again cuz the good feeling i got out of it was really good but the pain was really bad... will that eventually go away? i have one more question... i swore on my life i would never let anyone take my anal virginity but i let him to show him how comftorble i am with him and how much i love him but now im having the feeling somethings going to go wrong... am i just thinking to much because of the trust i put into him or what? im so confused please help?
well first off you dont let people do you in the ass thats just wrong. and who knows maybe it wont hurt anymore once your asshole gets bigger. jus dont get STDs and use lubricant and im sure you will be straight.
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do?
ok well if he has a girl you need back up and wait for him to cut her loose. dont mess wit him while he has a girl even if they dont see each other. you wouldnt want that to happen to you. slow yo roll miss thang. you aint known him but a minute. jus chill out and wait for him to let his girl go first.
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Okay well I have liked this kid whose 1 year younger then me for a while now. He has two other twins so let's just he's a part of triplets. My best friend Allie well kinda my best friend likes his brother, and I kinda like him too. Well she likes the kid I like a bit and I like the kid she likes a bit yet I really like Alex, and she really likes Sam. Besides that. Alex is taken and it really makes me sad, yet Sam isn't. I don't think he likes either of us tho =o/ Yet Alex said if he wasn't taken he'd go out with me .. But besides that also.. Everytime I am like talking to Alex or Sam everyone tries to embarass's me or however you spell it. Like on Friday I was talking to Alex and Allie came up and was like "Hey penis" and Alex was like you have a penis? and they both laughed! Usually I am more the talkative type and Allie doesn't really talk but idk what to do? I know this doesn't make too much sence but what should I do? I rate high!
i dont think i would worry about him too much. try and find you a new guy but not sam. dont play yo friends like that. it aint right. but if you really wanted to you could wait on alex to get his together and possibly get wit you.
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Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....
1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.
2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?
well your boyfriend isnt gonna know that you lied to him and you have had sex before. you should have told him the truth but that aint my business. and after people have sex sometimes things can change. but not always. dont make it all that you two wit each other. you should be doin it cuz you both have feelings for each other and thats another way that you wanna express them.
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or maybe me just typing this all out will help me come to a conclusion of some sort..well here i go.......About 12 months ago I was going out with my bf at the time who i had been going on and off with for about 9 mths..but i never go to see him much like 3 times a month becuase he lived farther away..but the time we spent was fun yet our relationship was mostly physical(no sex tho) Anyway i wasnt happy and I cheated on him a couple times becuase i was so unhappy i needed sumone to be there with me more..So i desperately was looking for a reason to dump him besides the lame I need sumone i can see more thing...Anywho meanwhile this chad who i was good friends with and had been hanging out with and such had an older brother that i never really had met before until one day i was over to his house and heard crying...his brother jake and his gf of 2 years had broken up for good and he was a wreck..it was the first relationship he had been in and they even lived together for a while and the whole 9 yards...anyway I am a very sympathetic person and I tried to help him out..and I told him my problem of never seeing my bf and how i wanted sumone more sensitive and etc..well Jake and I started talking more and being I was friends with his brother I was over to the house alot...anyway to cut to the chase jake and i after 1 month of totally crushing on each other and late night calls and stuff he shly asked me out ( i was soo happy! this was my reason to dump chad and I had found someone who was cute and i could see alot and I had soo much fun with and he is into music and woow i was soo happy) so ofcourse i said yes.......now 11 months later jake and I are still going out but stuff to me is horrible..let me explain the first 6 mnths of our relationship was amazing, we spent all of spring and summer togther and made soo many memories and i could never get him off my mind... when school started that was when halo came out and he started be absessed with it..well know he doesnt come to school much anymore and stays up til 5am playing Halo and forgets to call me..But the thing is when we do hang out its still soo amazing, but thats only on weekends becuase i no longer see him in school now..and lately on the phone when we talk we often get arguing over stupid stuff and sumtimes i think its becuase i get aggravated with him for not getting his license and skipping school and not gettign a job..but the thing is i love him..and sumtimes i think about dumping him.. but then it seems like my life wouldnt be the same without him as my hunni..b/c we have soo many memories together and everything..But my concern is that the only thing that is stopping me from dumping him is i have grown in the past year of being used to having the comfort of him there, and that maybe i dont love him anymore, im just so used to that being the way it is.. me with Jake..and i still think about him all the time too. But wow i just wrote thatand i still didnt find a solution..so what do you think do i stil truley love him and do i stay with himn and hope the problems go away? I really think i love him but the whole just being with him now for comfort and becuase im used to that and i dont want to deal with change and throw away a whole year of wonderful memories...its just stuff inst the same and it hasnt been for a couple months now.. PLEASE ANYone see throught all this babblin and Help me!!!
first off we dont date friends older brothers. thats wrong even if your friend is a guy. thats how shit gets started and friends get into fights. second of all you need to talk to him and see whats up. if things dont change then its time to move on. if he cares more about a video game than you then you know its time to cut that boy loose and kick it wit the girls for awhile. you dont need a boyfriend all the time. sometimes you need to be single and "date" around a lil bit. and i said date not ho. jus cuz you datin around dont mean you gettin and givin some to anybody that offers. jus try talkin to him and if that doesnt work try bein single. its not that bad.
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NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!!
y the hell are you makin people swear on your relationship and your life. im sorry but if that aint the gayest shit ive ever heard i dont know what is. so what he looked at porn before there ever was the two of you so y does it matter. as long as it didnt get all serious you should let him be. he prolly lied to you cuz he knew you would flip out. since it was before you then dont bother wit it. he obviously aint lookin at it no more.
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ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and i think our relationship is just based on sexuality and looks... i mean when we first started our relationship we were like awesome friends and we loved to talk all the time and now i feel as if we never talk anymore and he isnt the person i once thougtht he was.. like we never talk anymore and i feel all we do is like make out... i try to read books and see if he is interested in what they have to say and sometimes they have poetry and i leave him sweet notes in his locker but we still like never talk anymore... help!
how do i tell him how to change without looking like im tryin to make him the person i want him to be?
you jus ask him y things between you changed. ask him y he doesnt ever wanna talk to you about stuff or have like a romantic relationship instead of jus a physical one. you should honest but be nice about it too. dont let it turn into an arguement.
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Ok well I like a guy who doesnt like me dont know how to get his attention, im 14 and i dunno I want him to like me... i try to look the other way(try to like other guys) But for somereason i still like him(liked him since like 7th grade and now im a freshmen... we talk on the phone sometimes (as friends) I know who he likes...(makes me kinda sad... so i cant ask him out!)Friends with the girl he likes... which is also hard... hard looking at her knowing she has everything i want... she used to like him not anymore...wish I could be everything she is... even tho I dont know why...I try to keep my self from crying... but sometimes it doesnt work...(its hard knowing we can only be friends) dont talk that much at school (i guess hes shy! and i am too) he knows I like him which also sucks(ooh so do his friends... i think he told them all)... it makes it harder to talk to him sometimes... when i do talk to him i try not to think about him knowing i like him...I think hes the cutest person ever... i dunno i just need advice I dont want to cry over him... but i dont just want me friends with him... and I dont wanna get over him... yea confusing... well help if u can...
~!~LiveStrong~!~
if hes not interested you have to move on. no matter how hard that is you have to. you cant sit around and wait forever on a guy that might not ever think of you that way. i know how you feel about not gettin over him but you goin to a new extreme wit cryin over him and all that. jus try and not think about him.
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A few months ago, I started masturbating. Last month I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Now, I looked somewhat inflammed "down there" and it doesnt look the same. Is something wrong with me? And if so whats a quick fix? Is it okay for my boyfriend to still give me oral? Pleasee help me!
Kasey, 20 female
a gynocologist would the best. they are trained to help you wit problems "down there". i dunno whats wrong wit you. you should go to a doctor and ask.
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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??
well first off y you wanna call him now for anyways? what do you still like him? cuz if you do then yea yall should jus try and talk again and even if you dont like him like that then you could atleast try. thats how it is wit me and my ex and hes like one of my best friends so yea i would say go for it. but if he try and cop a attitude let him be. sometimes ex's jus cant be friends.
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Hey i know this guy and hes like always talking about how hes never been kissed and asks about it to people and im always there. We used to be best friends until a fight but now we are becomeing friends again... i used to like him a lot while we were best friends. I want to kiss him soooo bad cuz he keeps on complaining bout not being kissed yet but i know he'll think Ewww if i do and i mean im only 13 so i dunno. I just always want to kiss him wen i see him.
ok so whats your question?
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well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.
i think that he should know that you go wit her cuz if not he might ask her out or somethin and she will be like naw i go wit "joe" (thats you) and he will be mad that you aint tell him yourself. let ya boy know whats up wit you and that girl.
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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!
shit if i was you id be snappin on a bitch. dont let people treat you like that. stick up for yourself. obviously she has her own insecurities and feels like she needs to diss on people that are better off than she is. treat that chickenhead.
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id he cant trust me and hes already in love with this girl.
this aint even question. im sorry but if he dont love you then there aint much that you can do. peoples feelings like that dont jus change over night.
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okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
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if your friend is talkin about killin himself you need to tell someone that can talk to him and get him some help. thats serious. you should tell your counselor at school. he needs to get help. ~aLeXiS
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I haven't gotten a boyfriend yet (kinda sad, i know) and i don't know what im doing wrong. What do guys look for in a girl? Any tips?
first off please dont be one of those girls who will change who they are jus to make a guy like them. if you do that you are lyin to yourself and the guy you are tryin to get wit. jus be yourself and put yourself out there for people to notice you. and i dont mean dress like a hooker i mean like go to school events and talk wit errybody. thats how guys notice you. ~aLeXiS
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Well you see I have dated this kid many times and the last time we broke up was because we were going to schools different from eachother, but then he asked me back out after he realized we talked and saw eachother alot more then expected... and i think i love him and we tell eachother that we do, but I have a crush on a boy that goes to my school who I think flirts with me. And i had a dream last night that the kid I like picked me up and swung me around in a hug and kissed me on the cheek.. and he chose me out of alot of different girls. i don't know what to do?
personally i think that you should stay wit your boyfriend and not worry bout that other dude too much. he jus seems like a fling to me and you would be feelin real stupid if you let go of someone that means a lot to you to mess around wit someone who might be messin around wit other people too. jus wait it out and see what happens. dont rush into anything, especially if things are goin good for you and your man. ~aLeXiS
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I really needed condoms, my boyfriend didn't have any. I didn't feel like going to the store to get some, so I took some from my brother's room. I think he noticed because he asked me about it, what do I do?
tell him you took em and then take yo ass to the store and buy some. dont steal em cuz that will get you in trouble.
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