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Ok well I like a guy who doesnt like me dont know how to get his attention, im 14 and i dunno I want him to like me... i try to look the other way(try to like other guys) But for somereason i still like him(liked him since like 7th grade and now im a freshmen... we talk on the phone sometimes (as friends) I know who he likes...(makes me kinda sad... so i cant ask him out!)Friends with the girl he likes... which is also hard... hard looking at her knowing she has everything i want... she used to like him not anymore...wish I could be everything she is... even tho I dont know why...I try to keep my self from crying... but sometimes it doesnt work...(its hard knowing we can only be friends) dont talk that much at school (i guess hes shy! and i am too) he knows I like him which also sucks(ooh so do his friends... i think he told them all)... it makes it harder to talk to him sometimes... when i do talk to him i try not to think about him knowing i like him...I think hes the cutest person ever... i dunno i just need advice I dont want to cry over him... but i dont just want me friends with him... and I dont wanna get over him... yea confusing... well help if u can...
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Tell him that you want to tell him something but if he doesnt feel the same way that it doesnt matter! (even if it will(u dont wanna pressure him!)) He'll try 2 be nice about it but you'll know whether he wants to be more than good friends. If you dont want to take the risk then just find another fit lad to be mad about. Friends are more important enywayz! GD luk babe!
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if hes not interested you have to move on. no matter how hard that is you have to. you cant sit around and wait forever on a guy that might not ever think of you that way. i know how you feel about not gettin over him but you goin to a new extreme wit cryin over him and all that. jus try and not think about him.
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I wouldnt worry about it. You are so young and will meet 1 million better guys as you grow and get older. I remember those days too when i used to sweat a girl in middle school. I thought she was the greatest girl ever. Well now im 24 and I saw her recently, all I can say is thank god she didnt like me. My girlfriend now makes her look like garbage. Itll all work out, no worries and no tears.
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Here's whats up. ACt like you don't care. If he's anything like a typical guy he's like "Well she already likes me" and blah blahb lah who cares. So you gotta act cool! Act like "dude, I so don't need you." and he'll be like "wah" and you'll be like "i'm sorry is there someone else here? oh hi dude who I used to like but totally don't need anymore because of my super awesome independece" or some crap like that. Then he'll be like "crap I could have dated her but my totally crappy neglect to appreciate the things i have around me has blinded me to the only absolute truths in the universe. I will now find an acoustic guitar and write an emo song while crying into an oversized sweater." Once he starts trying to win you back....it's your move from there. Good luck! And don't count your ducks before they become chickens.
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The only thing i could say is ether let him know you want to be more then friends, or nothing at all.
I know that sounds harsh but if your this stressed out over it then you need to do somethng about it.
Have you seen the way he treats his girlfriends?
Does he treat them well? if not then you may want to think about that, as you would be in for the same treatment they have gotten. OR you could keep being the girlfriends friend, and see what they say if she ever gets in a fight with him or upsets her. Get her to talk to you if there is any sort of proublems, because then youll know how he treats other girls.
Remember though, that just because he's cute doesnt mean that hes the person you think he is behind closed doors. The solution to that? buddy up with his girlfriends more, see what they say when they talk about him. Then youll know wheather to really go for him or not.
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You cant make him like you back. But to get over him, I think you should stop talking to him completly. Just to get your mind off liking him! Because if you keep talking to him that will make you even more obsessed with trying to get the guy to like you when he doesnt. I'm sorry, you dont have to take my advice but I think its the best way to go. Good luck!
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