Hi!!I am Emily and i decided to give advice because i like helping people and see them happy...Others tell me that i am understanding and sociable. The only thing i know for sure is that i am possitive thinking! I have one sister and i am a very good friend with her. My best friends are Ann and Geogre. I share with them almost everything. I have a lot of friends and we go out together all the time. My hobby is acting and that's why i want to become an actress or an advisor.Of course i like giving advice. The last one is the best!!!
I like Justin Timberlake and Nick Carter very much because apart from their talent they are very hondsome too. I also like Britney and Alyssa Milano. I watch Charmed and Smalville but i like California teens very much too.
I think that we should smile more often and that's why this is my nickname!I also believe that everyone should be more spontaneous. Everyone should be a little bit more his/herself! And somethin else! A general advice from me to all you: Be you and live every minute in your life like being the last one... Only by doing it you will be really happy! Kisses!!!
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Problem with answering "Why do you like me?";
I'm terrible with words. I must be terrible... I don't know how to put it into words that well.
I don't want to say something like
I like you because you're interesting... dot dot dot.
Then she'll be like only because of that? etc.
I really love my girlfriend but she keeps assuming that I'll go for another. She's like no other girl I've known, I highly doubt I would go for another.
Have any ideas that could help me think on how to word my response on that?
I think it wouldn't be a good idea to ask someone to type out.
And I know. If I was a good boyfriend I'd know how to answer this. I want my response to be perfect. Apparently I am not a good boyfriend or close to being perfect. (link)
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Oh yes you are! If you love your girlfriend that much and if you care about the answer that much etc. is enough for us(girls). I would be happy if every boyfriend i will have would be like that!
Ok, there is no need to fear. I will not tell you what to say because only you know the perfect answer but i will help you find the answeR.
Firstly remember what makes you feel good when you meet her. Is that you like chatting with her? Tell this.
Secondly, remember why you asked her out. Because she is pretty tell this!
#3 think the reasons you feel you like her. She makes you feel important? She makes you laugh? She helps you with every problem you have? What? Tell her...
#4Remember the bad times you both had and the reasons you get over this, That will help.
Now,be sure that you will find the words when she will ask you! These things are spontaneous you know...
I hope i helped! Good luck!
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All of my friends and family tell me that I am beautiful, and so pretty. But when I look in the mirror, I am like.."eww." I can't take it anymore, I feel disgusted at myself. When I first meet people, they go, "wow you are beautiful!" I don't know if they are telling the truth or not. I have had people come up to me and ask if I model. But when I look in the mirror, I just don't see it. I have a boyfriend, he is wonderful, but he never tells me that I am beautiful. I went to a dance with him and he calls me up after and says, "hey, sorry I forgot to say you looked really nice tonight." and well he never said I look pretty or anything. I just don't know what to do. Is there any way to gain confidence on your looks? I am very outgoing..but sometimes I get so self conscious that I feel like I just want to go home and stay in the house. I am pretty popular at my school so I know it isn't a social disorder thing, because I have no problem with making friends. I just am so self conscious. Does anybody know of a way to stop being this way?
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Of course!This is not that difficult as it seems. If you want to try you will do it!!! What happens to you is that you have genarally low self esteem and low self confidence.
Now,1) How to Feel Good When You Need to
Because self confidence and feeling good has a major 'hormonal' element, you can change the way you feel by re-living good times. If you can remember a time you felt really self confident, then excellent - use that! If not, then use a time you felt contented or happy. You could use a photo taken at such a time to remind you. This is just a start but an important one; taking deliberate control of your thoughts and emotions will have a huge impact on your self confidence and other areas of your life.
2) Beating Self Consciousness
Too much self consciousness is the No.1 enemy of self confidence. The trick is keeping your attention off yourself when you need to. Here's how...
a) When you feel self-conscious, (you can usually tell because you start to feel anxious), choose something outside of yourself to focus on and study it in detail. For example: examine a door, look at the different textures and shades of colour, wonder about who made it and how and so on. The important thing is that you're learning how to keep your attention off yourself.
It is a good idea to practise this technique in private first. Just sit quietly, practising focusing firstly on your own thoughts and then deliberately focusing outwards onto a picture or piece of furniture.
b) Social self confidence can be difficult to find sometimes because it is unclear what you are 'supposed to do'. In this event, concentrate on what your purpose in the situation is: whether you're there to...
- find out if you like the other people present
- make others feel comfortable
- find out some information
- make business contacts
- and so on...
It's much more difficult to feel self-conscious if your mind is occupied with a task.
People are often most comfortable with others when working towards a common goal. The common goal of socialising could be making friends, the exchange of mutually beneficial information, expanding your knowledge of different types of people... it could be whatever you want it to be! The key is to have an aim.
3) Watch Out for Undue Criticism - Especially Your Own!
Have you noticed that people will speak to themselves in a way they would never speak to others? You know the sort of thing - you break a glass and it's "You stupid idiot. You can't do anything right can you?"
Criticism that leaves the receiver feeling upset or depressed is rarely useful.
Challenging your own assumptions about yourself and other people can really help build self confidence. Here's a few to get you started:
Those confident-looking people have bad moments too - you just don't get to hear about them!
If you feel under-confident, it doesn't mean other people can tell. They're often too caught up with their 'own stuff' to notice!
If you catch yourself saying things to yourself like "I'm no good at anything" then rest assured, you're wrong about that. Everyone can compose a sentence, get successfully to the store, eat without choking and do a million other things. Negative thinking can make things seem hopeless when they rarely are.
Don't let yourself make sweeping statements about yourself - in the long run it is this sort of thing that can really damage your self image. If this happens, say to yourself calmly and gently, "Hold on a minute, that's not true". If you can come up with some evidence that disproves the sweeping statement, then even better. It may take a bit of effort at first, but the impact on your level of self confidence is huge.
Building self esteem is not just about thinking good of yourself, it's about not thinking bad for no reason!
Just because you have felt bad about yourself in the past doesn't mean you're always going to feel that way. I have seen hundreds of people surprise themselves once they have learned exactly how to build confidence in themselves in such a way that it stays built!
The important thing is to get away from thinking "Why did that happen?" or "Why do I feel this way?" and instead move towards "How would I like to feel?", "In what situations do I feel confident?" or "What do I need to learn in order to have better self confidence in this situation?"
And something else.Try to make other feel good. Give advice or help others. And SMILE! When you feel bad smile! That helps A LOT!
P.S. The above solutions are not mine! So be sure that it works! I hope i helped! Kisses!
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sooo Ive been best friends with this girl for about 3 and a half years. I can tell her everything, and i mean, everything. I used to be able to trust her with everything, and when she said " i promise" .. she meant it. Ever since she got her new boyfriend about 8 months ago though, the boy (lets call him "JOn"). has completely taken over. I feel like there is no more rooom for "jaime friendship,".. and that JOn has taken over my spot in her life. We used to hang out like every other day (about), and now , its gotten down to once or twice a every two months. Kinda sad, I think. :(
I dunno.. its adding so much stress to my life. Ive tried explaining to her how much she means to me and everything, but she just doesnt get it. I know this may sound sad.. but I love this girl a lot.. I mean who wouldnt love their bffe?... but i hate the way she treats me. Boys are only in youre life for so long.. but girlfriends can last a lifetime, and i dont think she unserstands that. (notice the subject "your teenage years are supposed to be spent looking for bridesmaids, not grooms" .... Yes, I realize that life gets more complicated as you get older.. and now that she is 16, she has a job .. where she works everyday... Literally, EVERYDAY after school and work though, she talks and talks with her boyfriend on the phone alll night long, and if i call, guess who she hangs up with? YUp, me. I know this may just sound like jealousy, and it is kinda.. but its gotten more than that. To top off things, her boyfriend used to be MY best GUY friend for about 2 years.. and now i completely cant stand him. I honestly, I wish he would just move to a diff state. LIterally. When i am around them two , I cant stand it. They only care about their realtionship. I think that it is plain RUDe to sit there at a table at lunch with your bffe and boyfriend.. and sit there, and hug and kiss him , and ignore your bffe. HOw awkward it is for me. I feel liek shit constantly, but when im alone with my bffe.. and her boyfriend isnt arounf we have THE BEST of times, and cant stop laughing. Its like we give eachother a natural high. Im just so sad and depressed now that it feels like ive been "replaced" though... Any suggestions on what i should do?? (link)
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Honey,
you have to understand that she still loves you very much. This is sure. But try to understand her. She might thinks that she has found the boyfriend of her life and that she loves him that much and she doesn't want to lose him. I can see how you feel now but i think that the best thing you could do is to talk to your friend. Apart from explaining her how important she is to you tell her how you feel. That you feel like being replaced. I am sure she will understand you. This is the best solution because nobody else can know exactly what is going on. Tell her that you care about her and that you understand how much she loves her boyfriend but explain her your opinion about your friendship... You have to do this.
But not overdo this. Understand that she is different and that she wants this boyfriend. She doesn't want to lose him. Right? And understand that we have to be open mind and accept other people too. Otherwise sometime somehow you will get bored...
P.S. i hope i helped. Before half a year i had a bf and my friend told me that she feels alone and i understood her. Your bffe will understand you too.
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I honestly don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. He's wayy too protective, and he'll always say the stupidest things. I just woke up this morning & I really don't like him as much as I used to. Should I ignore this feeling, and maybe it'll go away? Or, do you think you shouldn't have negative feelings about your relationship when you're dating someone? + I'm NOT Pmsing. (: lol Thanks. (link)
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Look, when we are with someone that means that we like him.Wait three days to see if you still feel what you feel now.If yes, you 'd better break up. I think that this is what you should do...Explain him that you want to be alone this period and generally what you feel but in a good way! Try not to hurt him very much...
You could stay with him but this does not make sense. You know why? Because you will break with him, Maybe a week later or 2 but then it will be much more difficult for both of you. So do what you want now...
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Hi
can u give me any websites with tips on make up and hair styles?
Like different make up effects/techniques/tips
adn hair styles forlong hair
i rate (link)
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Of course!Why not?
There are a lot of sites about these things! FDirstly the sites of magazines and of course some others. Here are some of them which i like:
www.beautyriot.com
beauty.ivillage.com
www.free-beauty-tips.com
www.beautyandhair.com
www.makeupdiva.com (for your questions)
www.makeup411.com
www.thefrugalface.com
www.trendystyle.net (that is a perfect one)
makeup.lifetips.com (that provides a lot of other sites too)
www.hairboutique.com
www.hairfinder.com/longhairstyles.htm
www.1001-hairstyles.com/long-hair-cuts.htm
I really hope i helped!!! Kisses!
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When it comes to guys I always rush things. After that, one of two things happens:
One:
I find out that the guy is nothing like I expected. Most of the time it just turn out that he's a immature pervert and his charm and humor are an act. I don't take time to REALLY get to know a guy so I don't find out how they really are until we're close. After that, I completely loose interest (duh) and break it off with them.
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It gets too serious and they are too in to me. It freaks me out because I either won't be ready for it or I won't want it. I just want to date and have fun. Nothing too serious that makes me want to "think of the future" with him. I guess me rushing things makes the guy think that I do want that? So again, I then break it off.
I always find myself in one of the two situations and after a month or so (most of the time less) I'm guyless and moving on to another one. Most of my friends know this about me and lecture me about it all the time but I have no idea how to fix it. I know it happens but I don't know how to keep it from happening.
It's like a routine for me. Meet a guy, go out, break up after a few weeks (because of the above said reasons), and meet another. How can I keep this from always happening?
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Are you my past-self? I say that because that's how i was before one year. And worse! Only one week relationships!!!Not any more!How?
I understood that being with someone just like that is ok but not with every boy. With a boy that wants this thing too... That doesn't want serious things. So, the best solution is to get know every boy better get know his caracter and then doing something with him.
That's what i did. But after this "success" i understood that it is better having something serious. It's a differend thing! If you are ready to feel it and have it of course!!!
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I've been dating this guy for a year and one month and I care very much about him. He is always asking me to "make" things for him. He's an artist who is constantly making things for me, and I guess he expects me to be an artist as well. :P Im not. Point is, I made him this teddy bear. Completely from scratch.. not even a pattern to work with. Would a 20 year old boy be happy to get a teddy bear as a present? I saw somewhere online that guys dont like presents that come off as too clingy. Please help. I rate! (link)
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What you should do is to give it to him because you made it with love... Give it with a card writing that you are not an artist and that you are not good at it but you did it because you love him. BUT, buy him something else too. Something that he wants very much or something that you think he might like. He is a sportive guy? Buy him something sportive. Is he romantic? Something romantic. Something that represents his caracter except for art... I think that he would like the surprise. Good luck!
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well ive been dating this guy for like 2months now and im in love with him! were complete oppisite but we cant get enough of eachother! but about a week ago he told me that he had cheated on his last girlfriend and im a very jelouse person and now all i do is blame him and accuse him of cheating on me! he does certin things to make me jelouse, like drive by her house and break his neck to look over me into her windows and talked about her all the time and throws her in my face when i do something he doesnt like! like he'll say for example " oh, amanda would never act this way," or "amanda would do it" and now hes even acting kinda mysteriouse and not calling me and when i ask his mom y he hasnt called me she tells me that she thought that he was because for the past 3 nights he has been talking on the phone till 3am! i dont know wat to do i love him alot but i dont know if hes tryn to test me or hes cheating on me and i just dont know it! (link)
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What you should is to tell him that when you like or love someone you are jeallous. He has to accept it if he loves you. I mean that's you! The next time he will tell you about Amanda tell him why he broke up with her and these things. And when he will tell you about phone calls until 3am tell him that he knows you are jeallous and ask him if he is telling the tuth.
Whatever he does, testing you or cheating you, be yourself and do whatever you want. If he is cheating you he will broke up with you and you will found someone else. If not everything will be fine because he will understand that you care and you are jeallous...
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I was told once by someone that if you still harbored feelings of anger or jealousy when you saw your ex bofriend with a new girl, that you werent really over him. Also if you kept thinking bad thoughts about him too.
Well my question is regarding my mother actually. She and my father divorced over 15 years ago and she STILL bad mouths him. She is always asking me about his girlfriend and tells me what a jerk he was to her. I found this a little strange because she is remarried to another man. Is it possilble that after all this time she still may have feelings for my father?
Also, HE (my father) does the same thing about my mom, by badmouthing her and saying that her marriage isnt going to last. He also recently admitted that he wished they had never gotten divorced. (link)
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Well, i think that they have still feelings for each other. When we get over someone we just don't care and stop telling something about the other and continue our life without even caring what is going on to the other's life. And i think that your parents still like each other. What do you want? Do you want them together? If yes, do this: Arrange a dinner with the 2 families. Your mother and your father will meet each other again and maybe something happens. And something else. Find the way to ask them how initially their wedding ceremony was and afterwards their life as a married couple. Remembering something good helps. I think that it will help. Good luck!
P.S. If they don't want to come tell them that it is important to you and that if they relly love you they will do it...
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Is there any way to tell by a hug if a guy likes you in a romantic way? I've had many different types of hugs, but most hugs are from family and friends, that's the type of hug where it's friendly, but does not in any way feel sexual.
I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with, after giving me my birthday gift, hugged me, but when he hugged me he held on for a couple seconds longer than most hugs last, and then he started to to stroke my back really slowly with his hand. There was no one else around, and normally he's shy around me with other people.
Do you think this was his way of letting me know he likes me as more than a friend? (link)
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Look, you have to know other things to be sure but a hug means something... If not that he likes you it means that he likes you as a friend really much. I have a guy friend who hugs me and kisses me etc. and we are all the time at school together but i think that he sees me as a friend.
You should think his general behaviour.Is he talking to you more than the others? Does he says hi if you don't tell him something? How is his behaviour with other girls??? If he behaves to u somehow specially and is shy but likes to talk with you, that means that he likes you. This hug, in my opinion means that he likes you because you say that he is not really like that in front of others and being alone and doing that is somehow a message. My advice is to show him something more if you like him too. Show him that you are interested and talk to him... Smile and make him feel important...And...GOOD LUCK!!!
P.S. It is important giving you a present, i think.Because usually boys are not that gentlemen with girls that see only as friends!
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so it all started in august. i had really liked this boy for 2 years & now i would never see him again. he hated me. it hurt so bad & i just couldn't get over him. then i met this boy at a drama camp i went to. he was amazing. i was going to a private school now so everyone was so nice. he, especially, just blew me away. i ended up falling for him & a week later i was cured of my heartbreak. we were friends, we talked a lot, & even online. everything was going great. my life was finally getting better. i was telling my friends from my old school about how happy i was. it was great. then, the school year started. all my friends i had made in drama camp stopped talking to me. they acted like they didn't even know who i was. one day i got an instant message from a girl who was a friend of the guy i liked. she had read my myspace & noticed one of my friend's comments about the guy i liked & how happy i was & such. she asked if it was a boy she knew, which of course it was. i lied & tried to cover it up to my best ability, but it didn't work. she knew. i begged her not to tell him because i wasn't fully recovered from my last hurt & i wasn't ready to handle this rejection, again. she told me she understood how i felt & agreed to kept it quiet. me & the guy i liked never talked in school anyway..& i never knew why..until i made a friend. he was yet another friend of the guy i liked. i thought by being friends with him maybe i could start being friends with the guy i liked again, even if we still talked online like we were friends. me & my new guy friend got along really well. we talked online every day. he was awesome. then, one day, he told me he was so confused about if he liked someone or not. i told him i was good with that stuff so i could help him. he told me there was this girl he had been talking to for a few weeks & they get along really well. he thought he liked her, but wouldn't know for sure until he knew of her feelings. so i asked who this girl was. he asked me if i would be upset if it was me. suprised, & nervous, i said no. no one had ever liked me before, & of course it was me. then he told me the news. the guy i liked new. he was afraid of me because no girl had ever liked me before. he hated me & thought i was annoying. whenever he was near me, he'd look over a lot to see if i was leaving & if i didn't, he'd run away. he even began to run away from some of my friends. this i didn't find out all during that night, but noticed it over the course of time. as this happened, me & my guy friend who liked me became better friends. although i had lost a friend, the one who told the guy i liked how i felt about him, i gained another. he was also a friend of the guy i liked. this just recently began to fade when he started taking orders from the guy i like, along with another guy i befriended along the way. the guy i like pulled all of his friends to him, & left me with one, as if it is a war. & the one i have left also lost friends in the process, people he had known for years. he says it doesn't matter because they're jerks & he loves me & i'm his best friend. i feel bad though. lately, every day we get closer & closer. i begin to think about him more & more. people have noticed because there's a rumor going around that we're dating. since he's not great for looks, people laugh & point when they see us together. it just goes to prove how shallow some people can be. when i think about him & stuff, i feel like i like him, but lately i haven't been sure about my feelings whatsoever. i rarely think about the guy i like anymore, although i still feel as if i like him. it's just that he's such a jerk. he acts nice around people [not just me] that he truly doesn't like. he only likes his close friends & shuts everyone else out. he's two faced, in a way. my other friend is so sweet though & we talk about everything. he's pretty much the best friend i ever had. i don't know what to do. i miss the feeling of liking someone with all your heart. i want it back. help please if you read all of this. i'll definitely give you feedback. thanks. (link)
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Hi! Look, stop feeling bad it will not help you... Smile and go out and face all these idiots who cannot understand you and how much you deserve... I guess you want to know what i think about their behaviour. Are you sure you don't do something that annoys them? Are you sure you don't do something that shows them only the bad sides of you? If you are sure about these things then i will tell you that they do not even deserve to think about them and get stressed and things like that.
Now, if you want this feeling back let it come back. I think that you are afraid of wanting someone and love him because you do not want to get hurted you don't let it come back...
What you should do is letting yourself a little bit free and don't think always to find someone to love! Let things happen. If it is meant to be it will be for sure. Maybe the guy friend maybe someone else but it will come in your life when you will be ready for that... So, think your life, having fun etc and nothing else!!!
And next time you will see a behaviour that changes go and talk and solve the problem because before losing something we have to fight! And if you want friends show your good personality and fight for them, risk for them, make them feel important. Especially with girls do not talkall the time about boys because they will feel less important. And if now you don't talk at all and they trust you tell them something. Not important things but something!
SMILE HAVE FUN AND LIVE EVRY MINUTE LIKE IT WOULD BE THE LAST ONE!!! Ihope i helped!!! Kisses and good luck!
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I just had my birthday several days ago, and I was wondering if someone could explain to me what this one gift from a guy I really like was supposed to mean.
While we had been friends for a while, but i had been hoping that one day he would be my bf. I thought we were heading in that direction, but since I had my birthday I've been thinking I may be wrong about that.
The gift that he gave me was a little insulting actually. It was a very tacky looking t shirt from Walmart with the words "IF YOU"RE CUTE I"M SINGLE," on the front.
Now does that mean that he is giving me some sort of message? I mean if he really liked me why would he give me a shirt to let other guys know that I was single? Or to attract any other guys at all for that matter.
It really hurt me and embarrassed me. It made me angry because his birthday was the week before and I got him a really nice gift.
Does anyone know what this meant? And do you think he gave me that shirt to let me now he wasnt interested? (link)
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Ok, his behaviour is really weird so, i think that you should ask him.Go there and ask what did he mean. If you want to be sure ask!
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my best guy friend (let's call him "k") who is also my ex-boyfriend just got a new girlfriend (let's call her "m"). when me and "k" were going out, he told me he loved me, but i didn't feel the same way so we broke up a week or so later. so now this new girl "m" comes into the picture. he likes her a lot and they are going out. they have gone out for like four days and "k" already told "m" that he loves her and she said it back. i just don't understand how he can tell two girls in such a short period of time that he loves them. it really bugs me because i feel like he just used me so he could say he had a girl. i do not want to let "m" get hurt like i did. what can i do to help this situation? i don't want every girl he dates to feel like she is the only one but he has really told every girl he dated the same thing. i'll rate 5's! (link)
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You are right.. The boy can be 2 things
#1lier
#2immature
Well, you have to do something to help "m". Go there and talk to her. Tell her that he told that he loves you etc. and that he does it always to girls. Tell her that you care about her and that's why you said it to her.
And something else! Don't feel bad because the guy doesn't deserve it! He must be an idiot jerk... Good luck with your friend and this what you do shows that you are a good person who cares about others!Bravo!
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i know this sounds really horrible, but please just answer.. does anyone know good ways to break two people up without being involved? like lying to them or anything. it's urgent (link)
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Well, you can start flirt with the one of them and go where they are or tell lies for example bad things the one "said for the other one" or send an anonimous love letter or something like that.
But, in my opinion these things are childish, not honest and in the end i think that the truth will be found out... But do whatever you think the right think is...
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well me and this guy were going o ut for almost two years and then we slit up because we now go to different schools. well we were friends and everything until today he asked me out.. i don't like him in that way anymore, i just want to be friends. i'm deffanitly going to say no, but how should i put it? please help, were in 7th grade btw...
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How can you say it?Look, i suggest telling what you think this time it will happen because these things cannot be said earlier.They come spontaneously! But let's try!
"Well, when we were together i liked you very much.Really...But now, i grew up and i generally have different views...I believe that when someone feels that is a friend with someone else they should stay friends.That's what i believe. I think that you are a hondsome boy but you are a very good friend of mine and i don't want to lose such a good friend!I think that friendships last but relationships no. Only serious things last and i am not ready for serious things.So what about staying friends?"
I think that he will understand you and not only that. He will understand that you are a mature girl and that you are an honest person. Good things a friend can have! Don't you think???
I hope i helped you!
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me and my bf hace a weird relationship. you see we just started dating and he lives 1/2 an hour away from me. and i really like him. adn this weekend i went to a b ball game at my school against his school. he wasnt there cause he had to stay home. well my best friend, who is a guy and also like my brother was there and i gave him a back rub cause his back hurt. whenever someone wondered if we were dating i would be like hell no. adn now everyone knows that. well apartently 4 people told my bf that i was all over my "bro" but i wasnt. so we broke up. and snowball is comming ulp and he said we can go as friends still. but i want to be with him. and everyone that was at the table told him that i wasnt all over him. adn he said hell think about it. and when i went to a game to talk to him tonight. he wouldnt talk to me and i was behind him for a while. i dont know what to do. pleez help. ill rate high. (link)
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You have his telephone number or his e-mail, don't you? So you can send him a sms or an email. He will read what you want to say wanting it or not.Be honest with him and tell what you feel.For example:"I want to tell you that i really want to be with you and only with you because you are the one i like. Why cannot you understand this? This what happened there was (tell what happened). Will you believe me or these guys? Why don't you tust me? I think couples are like that...And something else.I thought you would believe me because you know me very well. It is really a pitty! Why don't we try again honey? I like/love you very much and i think that deeply in you you know it. I missed you"
I hope you liked it. If not tell what you feel. I hope i helped. Bye!
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hey im 13/f and i just wanted to know how old must you be to start dating? i know that i am the right age but my parents dont think so. i have been asked out a lot by cute and not so cute guys but i had to turn them down. my mom knows who i like ( i know!!!) and she always talks about how i can get to see him more etc. but when i tell her that he asked me out she shouted at me whats up with that? and dad doesnt what to let go of his little girl meanwhile my brother who is the same age as me does whatever he wants! i and im 1 min older its sssssoooo unfair!
please can somebdy find the time and answer my question
thanx (link)
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I come from Europe.. And do what i told you. I did the same thing. My sister who is 13 like you does it now!
And i understand exactly what you say now. Wait for the right time. And in my opinion it will be when you will like someone very much!
Thanks for telling that for the advice i gave you! You made me happy! I wait for telling me what happens when you will talk to them! Bye!!!
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Okay, so I told my friend that I found a guy interesting (as in he seems to have the same interests as me) and she just goes "ew, him? he looks stupid and he's not eve hot." i told her im not superficial and besides i want him as a friend so whats it matter?
in french class she asked me if i "still liked him" and i said yes, and she dissed him again.
another day i told her i saw him and i shouldve talked to hi but i didn't, and she says "doesn't matter, it's a waste of time anyway, haha sorry"
now im really pissed. she talks to me about this Kyle guy that she likes and she said she stayed up until 11 talking to him online and i told her he's a waste of time, for obvious reasons, and she said no he isnt blahblahblah...
what can i tell her to get her to shut her mouth and to accept the fact that i am not superficial like she is? i want to be able to mention him without her putting him down. (link)
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This is not a friend!Sorry, but this is a bitch! Excuse me, but how can you let her talk like that for the one you like? She should respect you first of all. Your feelings, your opinions, the boy you like. She is not a real friend. i do not think that you should continue trusting her. Stop telling her about him. That is better... Or tell her that you do not care about her opinion.
If you do not like that tell her to stop talking like that for the one you like and continue being friend with your "friend".
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I have a girlfriend, let's say Jane. We've only officially been going out for two week, but we were going steady for about 2 weeks before that (making out all the time, not seeing anyone else but each other). Last week I met a new girl, Steph, through a friend. She is really cool and as this past week went by, I realized I like her more than Jane. Because I have a gf though, the friend that introduced us decided to try to hook my other friend up with Steph. I kept my feelings quiet to give him a a chance (he's never had a gf). He really likes her now. Just tonight Steph and I were talking and she told me she likes me more than my friend, and that she doesn't want to keep leading my friend on. I told her that I liked her too. Now I don't know what to do. Should I break up with Jane and date Steph, or break up with Jane and stay single for a while? Or should I just suck it up and stay together with Jane so my friends don't get mad at me for "invading" on my other friend's girl possibility? Either way someone's going to get hurt. What's the lesser poison? (link)
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Dear "really in trouble",
i am a girl and i know girls really well. So i would like to tell you something. We really hate boys who are with more than one girl. So the first thing you should do is to break up with Jane. You don't like her anymore, right? So, stop being with her...
Now, about you your friend and Steph... Look, i will tell you my opinion. If Steph was right and fair and would like you soooooo much she would not hook up with your friend. From the beginning. And she would break up with the other one before telling you that she likes you. You know what she is doing now? She is thinking like that:
"I am still with(your friend's name) but i like the other one more. I go and tell (your name) what i feel and if he tells me that he feels the same everything is fine for me. If not, i have the other one. We are still together."
I don't really find it right, neither for you nor for your friend. So, if i were you i would choose my friend. Remember that a friend is there for years.On the contray, a gf for a month or tow...
I am sure that it is not the best solution for you and the girls but it is for you and your friend. Remember that friendship is very important to our lives...
I really hope i helped because i can see that you are in trouble now. Good luck!!!
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so I've told the guy I like that I like him, but we only really talk online now, because I dont really see him at school.. & we were never like, REALLY good friends or anything, but we would talk before our classes started last year, because we had a few classes together, but this year I dont even have LUNCH with him.. but now I just want to hang out with him sometime, but I dont know how to ask him, or get to where we can hang out. I dont want him to think i want to hang out with him to like, do something, i mean, I have never had a bf or been kissed or anything like that. I just want to hang out with him for a little while, so he can actually see what I am really more like outside of school, but in person too! I dont know how to do it..
please help? I just want to hang out with him now, but he seems to be busy, & we are only freshmen, but he has all these upperclassmen friends.. i mean, juniors & seniors, so I feel like, i am just another random, freshman that he talks to sometimes. its just wierd, & I want to hang out with him sooo bad, & maybe teach me how to play guitar. hes the best at that. omg. sorry. but please help!! (link)
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Do not worry! And do not get srtessed. Firstly i would like you to understand what you really want. Do you want a bf or just a good friend? If you want a bf that means that you will be kissed and all those things. Do not worry about kiss. It is something that there is no right or wrong.
And i would like to know something more. What did he tell you when you told him that you like him?
Try to find time being with him... Go where he is talk to him send him a sweet e-mail... Something more than what you do now.But do not overdo it,ok?
After tow weeks, send him an e-mail telling him that you would like to go out once for coffee. Tell him that you ask it in a friendly way...Ask him if he wants some others too and if he tells yes bring some friends of you too.
The next time tell him if he would like to be alone for a coffee and then if he likes you he will tell you that he would like to be alone once too.
And something else! Remember to smile and be self confident. That is what a lot of boys like to girls... I hope i helped you!!!
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