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just hang out..
so I've told the guy I like that I like him, but we only really talk online now, because I dont really see him at school.. & we were never like, REALLY good friends or anything, but we would talk before our classes started last year, because we had a few classes together, but this year I dont even have LUNCH with him.. but now I just want to hang out with him sometime, but I dont know how to ask him, or get to where we can hang out. I dont want him to think i want to hang out with him to like, do something, i mean, I have never had a bf or been kissed or anything like that. I just want to hang out with him for a little while, so he can actually see what I am really more like outside of school, but in person too! I dont know how to do it..
please help? I just want to hang out with him now, but he seems to be busy, & we are only freshmen, but he has all these upperclassmen friends.. i mean, juniors & seniors, so I feel like, i am just another random, freshman that he talks to sometimes. its just wierd, & I want to hang out with him sooo bad, & maybe teach me how to play guitar. hes the best at that. omg. sorry. but please help!!
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ok, you need to get the courage and ask him because if you dont then there really is no chance for you to. If you dont do it now who knows when you will ever find someone you like and you have to find out one time or another if he thinks of you as a friend or more then a friend and i think, if you want to play guitar and him teach you would be a great way for you to to bond!!!
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Do not worry! And do not get srtessed. Firstly i would like you to understand what you really want. Do you want a bf or just a good friend? If you want a bf that means that you will be kissed and all those things. Do not worry about kiss. It is something that there is no right or wrong.
And i would like to know something more. What did he tell you when you told him that you like him?
Try to find time being with him... Go where he is talk to him send him a sweet e-mail... Something more than what you do now.But do not overdo it,ok?
After tow weeks, send him an e-mail telling him that you would like to go out once for coffee. Tell him that you ask it in a friendly way...Ask him if he wants some others too and if he tells yes bring some friends of you too.
The next time tell him if he would like to be alone for a coffee and then if he likes you he will tell you that he would like to be alone once too.
And something else! Remember to smile and be self confident. That is what a lot of boys like to girls... I hope i helped you!!!
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