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Inconsiderate friend?
Okay, so I told my friend that I found a guy interesting (as in he seems to have the same interests as me) and she just goes "ew, him? he looks stupid and he's not eve hot." i told her im not superficial and besides i want him as a friend so whats it matter?
in french class she asked me if i "still liked him" and i said yes, and she dissed him again.
another day i told her i saw him and i shouldve talked to hi but i didn't, and she says "doesn't matter, it's a waste of time anyway, haha sorry"
now im really pissed. she talks to me about this Kyle guy that she likes and she said she stayed up until 11 talking to him online and i told her he's a waste of time, for obvious reasons, and she said no he isnt blahblahblah...
what can i tell her to get her to shut her mouth and to accept the fact that i am not superficial like she is? i want to be able to mention him without her putting him down.
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i said he's a waste of time because she has a new crush every two weeks! i can't help it.
she's a good friend, other than this fact...
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She sounds really annoying, just come out and say it to her that shes being really superficial and annoying. Say it online if you have to, but let her know how shes being a bitch, and if she doesnt take it well then it doesnt really matter because she sounds like you wouldnt really want this kindof person as a friend anyway.
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This is not a friend!Sorry, but this is a bitch! Excuse me, but how can you let her talk like that for the one you like? She should respect you first of all. Your feelings, your opinions, the boy you like. She is not a real friend. i do not think that you should continue trusting her. Stop telling her about him. That is better... Or tell her that you do not care about her opinion.
If you do not like that tell her to stop talking like that for the one you like and continue being friend with your "friend".
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I personally don't think she should diss him or you diss Kyle, no person should ever say another person is a waste of time, no matter what, its just uncaring and rude. Does your friend even know they guy, he could be really awesome. Tell her not to judge a book by the cover. I don' think she realized what she is doing and if she does she probably isn't a great person. I fshe is a good friend to you then I would suggest that you don't talk to her about him or you just tell her you like him wether she does or not, its your life and you will like who you wan to like even if he is not hot to her, and if she can't except it the oh well. By the way you shouldn't tell her you aren't superficical then tell her that Kyle is a waste of time, becuase thats kind of hypocritical. Good luck with your friend and your new guy friend, hope I helped.
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