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I'm 24 year-old married woman with Asian-European ethnicity. My left eye has a small portion of an orange-reddish ring due to an accident. I'm planning to undergo a LASIK eye surgery next three months so my eyes will completely turn into blue and so the tiny ring will dissapear. However, I and my husband are planning to have a baby next year, which I will already have a completely blue eyes. (sorry for my statements are vague). My husband has a greyish-blue eyes while I have a
very dark brown eyes originally. So my question is, if I would get pregnant after I would have a Lasik surgery and completely turn my eyes into blue, would my baby have a blue eyes? I know genetically that brown eyes are dominant over blue but we would have same eye colour soon. I'm confused whether my baby would have a blue eyes or brown eyes. (link)
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Your eye color is in your genes. Your genes do not change from modifications such as dying your hair, LASIK surgery, etc. It's not possible to change your genes after birth - so you would pass down the brown eyed gene to your child, and your husband would pass down the blue-eyed gene.
Perhaps you recessively have a blue eyed gene (you can pass this gene on, but it doesn't effect you) and this will increase your child's chance of having blue eyes. Do you have any blue eyed, blood relatives? You may be able to pass on their gene.
Anyways, there is no way to know for sure what eye color your baby would have, but there is a chance it will have brown eyes. Either way, eye color shouldn't really matter. All eyes are beautiful!
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why dont i have nippels
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You aren't meant to have nipples. It is what it is.
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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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Well, I'm going to be honest with you - I do not know much about being a good Christian, at least not from personal experience. However, I do know many devoutly religious people of all faiths who feel fulfilled by volunteering at their place of worship.
I think that this would be a good way to begin your journey. Your church can also offer you resources to help you bring other people closer to God, while also giving you a support system to do so. Many churches spread the word as a group, which will probably make you less nervous.
Just remember not to pressure or push your non-practicing friends, especially if they aren't Christian. While it's great that you have such a close relationship to God and love your faith, it's also important to respect others.
I hope I've been able to help!
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Im 12 and my sister is 15. This might make me sound like a loser, but I feel really bad for my parents especially my mom because my sister, lets call jade for the rest of this question, gets in a bad mood really easily when my parents seem annoying to her and she absolutely makes no effort to hide it. She is always unreasonable and I need to make her listen to me. For example, she wants a new phone and she expects us to have unlimited money and to be able to buy it, but we don't and my parents(and me) don't trust her with a phone because she has broken 3 of them, and my sister acts like they are being unreasonable. I try my best to be patient with her whenever she gets mad about our parents because she is always unreasonable, but I once couldnt hold it in anymore and we got into a fight about why she doestnt deserve a phone. Another issue I have is that she expects me to be her servant, and she always makes me do stuff for her like get her water and put stuff away for her. If I dont, she gets in a bad mood and i would do anything to avoid that. Although, she is in a good mood alot but when she isnt I just cant handle it on the inside.She is really quick to judge my parents. I dont really want advice, I just really need to tell someone and I want someone to reply because I wanna feel heard, so thanks for reading. (link)
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Hey, I'm sorry to hear that your sister is being moody and inconsiderate/disrespectful. It's good that you're supportive of your parents, and understanding of their point of view. You don't sound like a loser, you sound like a good daughter (and a good sister!)
However, I think your sister's behavior is actually fairly "normal" given her age. She's going through puberty and there's a reason why teenagers are often labelled as brats - that's just how their hormones make them behave. I'm not trying to excuse her behavior, but it's a legitimate explanation, especially considering the fact that she's very moody. I was absolutely *horrible* at her age, and I felt very badly about it later. I STILL feel bad about my behavior when I was a teenager, but almost everyone gets that way.
Don't feel too down about it. Your sister loves you, but she can't really help how she feels right now. Just make sure she knows that you love and care about her, too.
Best of luck!
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I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about two months ago. When it was time for my period to come a few weeks later, it was a day late and not as heavy as it usually was. But I didn't worry about it because I still had a period. Keep in mind I am on birth control. I don't take it at the same time everyday but I do take it everyday. So now it's month #2, time for Mother Nature. I am two days late and have barely spotted. Could this mean that I am pregnant or does this sometimes happen? I have been on the pill for 5 years now and my menstrual cycle is always like clockwork. Please someone advise me on what could be going on. Thank you in advance! (link)
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The chances of you being pregnant is unlikely, especially since you 1) got your period last month, and 2) are on the pill. Since you take it at different times every day - I'm guilty of that as well - your hormones may be fluctuating enough that you've been spotting, and that your period has been thrown off.
Are you on the combination pill (like Ortho-Cyclen, or Ortho Cyclen Lo), or are you on a progestin-only pill (sometimes called the mini-pill)? Combination pills are more flexible in when you can take them during the day without being at risk, whereas progestin-only pills MUST be taken every day at the same time. I believe most people take combination pills, but if you're unsure you may want to look up the pill you are taking.
That being said, even on combination pills you can throw your cycle off by not taking them at the same time every day, so I'd recommend setting an alarm on your phone. I really do think that the change in your cycle and spotting and such is a side effect of taking the pill at different times every day.
If you miss your period altogether or you only experience super light spotting, I'd recommend getting a home pregnancy test. Birth control IS highly effective though, so try not to worry so much - I know it's hard!
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I'm 11 and we have to do a presentation on how to make something. Like a craft, how to bathe a dog, How to make cookies, ect. I have already made my poster 5 safety tips, Why?, Summary, Steps, Supplies, Title Page. I made notes and got everything ready and I was actually really excited, and promised I wouldn't be scared. ( I'm making Diy rainbow roses.. As time got closer I am getting really nervous. I have a few questions
About this
1. Why do people get nervous as the event gets closer?
2. I was not going to do it but it is 4 test grades so it would be 6 0/F. Would you do it.
3. My class laughs at everything ( They're dirty minded) And I know I'll either laugh when I'm doing it or mess up and not win a purple ribbon ( county prize)
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I have been going on multiple pen pal site. I found some really great pen pals. We write letters and I get one from Germany, China. I know I can't trust many people online. Do you think its safe for me to have a pen pal?
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1. It is totally normal for people to get nervous before events - especially presentations. You get more nervous as the date gets closer because you get closer to doing it, but you'll feel much better when you start to get it over with.
2. I would definitely do it! You don't want to fail without even trying.
3. So what if you laugh, or mess up, or don't win a purple ribbon? It won't be the end of the world. Tons of people make mistakes when presenting - chances are, the audience won't notice, and they'll eventually forget about it if they do.
As for your pen pal question, it really depends. It's safe as long as you don't give this person any identifying information, such as where you live, your full name, any addresses, or your phone number. Don't speak to anyone who asks for inappropriate photos. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, tell a parent/guardian or perhaps a school official. So, as long as you use common sense, you should be safe!
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Are you supposed to stop going to music festivals, as a woman, once you hit age 30? Unless you're one of the musicians? I don't get it. Older women can't enjoy music just the same as younger women? There's something strange about people thinking it's desperate for Fergie to have fun with girls half her age, like Gigi Hadid and Kendall Jenner. Not that I'm putting anyone on a pedestal, I don't get what an age difference would have to do with friendship, you know. Or why people see something sad about the whole thing? Same with people's criticism of Madonna, for not suddenly becoming matronly, just because she's getting older. A 60 year old has as much right to show off herself as sexy as a 20 year old, and it's so messed up to me how so many people are opposed, like the world is controlled by their dick or vagina's ideas of beauty. (link)
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Society tells us that at some point, we are supposed to "outgrow" certain behaviors. Take, for instance, your Coachella example. It's acceptable for girls (and guys) Kendall's age to go out, frequent concerts, wear skimpy outfits, etc. However, when a woman reaches Fergie's age, she is expected to slow down a little bit. The idea is that you get it out of your system when you're young, and if you're older and it's still not out of your system, people feel like there must be something wrong.
I would argue that the same rule applies to men - a man Fergie's age hanging out with guys much younger than him and partying at a concert would also receive criticism. Age difference may not have much to do with friendship (you can have common ground with anyone). But society expects Fergie to have different interests than girls younger than her.
Of course a woman should be able to show off her sexuality at any age; but society states that a woman should eventually "grow out" of the urge to do so.
I don't necessarily agree with these societal notions, but they're the explanation for why many people feel this way about the situation you described.
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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I'm very much in love with him.. he has been fantizising about seeing a girl with me.. I'm not at all about a "threesome" he hasn't said it out but he hints bout it turns him on to see another with me... I'm scared if he's wanting to be with someone else or he just doesn't love me or respect me. (link)
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I totally understand your hurt - my ex-boyfriend was obsessed with having a threesome and it really hurt my feelings. I took it to mean that he wanted to sleep with other girls, and that I wasn't enough for him.
He explained that it wasn't about wanting to have sex with other people, it was just a sexual fantasy like any other - some people like having sex in public places, some people like trying out all sorts of... interesting positions. Some people enjoy reenacting scenes from 50 Shades of Gray. Whatever floats your boat.
Apparently, threesomes float your boyfriends boat. He isn't using the threesome as an excuse to sleep with someone else - in fact, YOU are a pretty important component of his fantasy threesome. After all, he doesn't want to sleep with two random girls. You're part of the equation!
The thing is, men and women see sex differently. I'm sure you've heard that men tend to view sex as a purely physical act, while women view sex as a form of bonding. Of course, this isn't true for everyone, but I'm willing to bet that this is the case for you and your boyfriend. It is totally understandable that the thought of a threesome upsets you - I felt very hurt when my ex would ask. But it's important to know that it is not a sign that he doesn't love you.
Perhaps the bigger problem is that he continually hints at having a threesome when it upsets you. Does he know that it upsets you, or have you two not talked it out? I think that you need to sit down with him and tell him that it not only hurts you that he wants a threesome, but that it also hurts you that he continually hints at it. Of course, it may not be fair to him to say that he can never ask - he should be able to communicate his desires to you. But constantly hinting at it isn't okay if it hurts your feelings.
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ive been pretty depressed for a while... i got my first bf in feb. 2014 and we broke up last week. also my frinds started fighting and hating eachother. i lost my only 5 frinds that i had made since 1rst grade. i started getting bad grades on my report cards and im getting made fun of for it. im just 10 years old but i cut myself and hav suicidal thoughts... please give me advice. (link)
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I'm sorry that you are feeling depressed. I know it must be awful, but you need to know that this is only a very small part of your life, and it will get better. You're only 10 years old, you have so many wonderful things to look forward to.
The first boyfriend/girlfriend is always tough to get over. But you will be okay, and you'll find someone else. You have so much time to grow and meet people - you are only 10.
Friends come and go, and at your age, friendships are especially turbulent. You fight, you make up, you don't talk to each other, etc. But you'll make new friends in middle and high school, not to mention college and over the course of your life.
Right now, everything seems very big and important, but just two or three years from now you will look back on this time and realize that things weren't as significant as they seemed.
It is very important to talk to someone about your self harm and suicidal thoughts. It is not uncommon at your age for someone to go through mental changes - but it is very important to speak to someone you trust, whether it be a parent, another relative, a teacher at school, a counselor, etc. Please please please talk to someone about your feelings. I know everything seems awful right now, but it gets better. I promise.
If you are in the United States, please call The National Suicide Lifeline at 1 (800) 273-8255. They have spoken to many people in your situation and can offer great help. If you're outside of the United States, this website
lists international numbers http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html
I know you're going to conquer this. Please call the Suicide Lifeline or speak to an adult that you trust. You are loved, and it gets better. I hope I've been able to provide help.
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So long story short a while ago I bought a replica gold Pandora bracelet from somebody online after my real one was stolen, to replace the feeling of having one without spending another $1200. It's high quality and looks almost the same as the real one. It even says Pandora on it.
So basically I have a replica gold Pandora bracelet and I also have an authentic silver Pandora bracelet that I was gifted by my fiance.
She's wanting to give me ANOTHER gold (replica) Pandora bracelet in trade for my Fendi wallet.
In the past I worked for Pandora and I got a discount to buy my fiance's mother a silver Pandora bracelet (and also my old real gold Pandora bracelet that was stolen) but my mother doesn't have one. I've asked my mom before if she wanted one and she said no but I felt like she was just saying that because they're expensive and she didn't want to seem jealous or petty.
The silver authentic Pandora bracelet is $65 which isn't too bad if you have extra money and why I could afford the one for my fiance's mother. The gold authentic Pandora bracelets start at $1200 so you can see the obvious price difference.
The fake one is $50 and like I said it looks almost exactly the same as the real one except for one minor difference that I only notice because I worked for Pandora.
I really want her to have one because I want her to feel like she has something nice and glamorous and I want to be able to buy her charms in the future for it. What I don't want to happen is for her to bring it to a store and have somebody with a very good eye notice that it looks a tiny bit different on the inside of the clasp and ask her if it's fake but I really don't think anybody will because it's VERY SMALL difference.
I also don't want her to look online for charms though and wind up finding out the real ones are $1200 and heckle me about where I got the money to buy her one...though I figure I could just tell her I got a really good deal at a estate sale or something.
Should I give it to her or should I just keep it for myself?
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I don't know how long you've had the replica for, but if it isn't real gold or isn't at least gold plated, it most likely will tarnish after some time - unlike the genuine Pandora bracelet. Just a little warning, in case you do decide to give her the replica.
Giving her the replica is a risk. She may never notice that it isn't the real thing, and if this is the case, she will be extremely happy. If she does eventually find out (either through tarnishing, or if she takes it in to get cleaned at a Pandora retailer, or if someone notices, etc) she will likely feel very hurt that you bought her a replica. If you're upfront about it - you tell her you cannot afford a real gold one, but that the replicas are identical, and ask her if she would like one - she will probably still be very happy and you do not run the risk of hurting her feelings.
However, my suggestion is to just get her a genuine silver one.
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Of course I hate false rumors. This isn't exactly a rumor.
But anyway have you ever seen someone fake being goth or sad or something for attention? Well most of my school is doing that. I'd like to say first I support homosexuals just not fake ones.
Ok so there was this girl in my elementary school and she was Emo And A Bisexual she finally was excepted.
Then after she turned Bi people who hated homos said they were. Then more and more. Then more people claimed to be Emo. Just because its a stupid craze. I know youll say I don't know them but if you were in my position. Don't tell me I don't know its fake because 99 percent of a school doesn't turn homo in a day. Its not homosexuals I disapprove of its the fakeness.
So I just have to listen to everyone say how sad or depressed they are.
I don't know if I should or how I'll tell them That your fake and stuff.
Which is unusual because anyone who knows me can tell you I don't sugarcoat things or care do call you out in something or call out a faker.
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Calling them out on it won't change them. People can dress in "emo" fashion just to fit in (in which case, it's their fashion choice and there's nothing wrong with that, even if they are just doing it to fit in), but it would be difficult if not impossible for people to pretend to be bisexual and depressed. Granted, they may just be bicurious, and perhaps confused about their feelings and are labeling it as depression, but "faking" something is intentional whereas simply thinking that you're emo isn't.
So calling them out will not succeed in changing them, since (most of them) aren't intentionally being phony. And, frankly, you never know if someone is genuinely bisexual or depressed. How do you even determine true "bisexuality?" Mant young people are curious about their sexuality and can label it in many different ways.
Anyways, calling them out on it will only succeed in making you enemies. If you don't like them, you don't have to be like them - but let them be.
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Hi, so I am 19 and I am a virgin and I have never kissed anyone, I am what you would call a good girl and I like to take things slow.
Most people say I am too mature for my age, so guys my age don't really fancy me.
The other night I met this guy who I have a lot in common, and he said he likes me and he wants to take me on a date... now the catch is that he is frikkin 32!!!
He is really hot, but I am scared to go out with him, because as an older guy he will probably want to take things fast and he probably is really experienced... and the whole thing scares me as I don't feel ready... and older guys usually wait 2 or 3 days to have sex with a girl!! I don't know if I should date him, but I really like him.
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When I was 18, I dated a 30 year old man. I liked his maturity, I thought he was very attractive, and he seemed to respect my boundaries (I wasn't a virgin, but I definitely wanted to wait before sex).
However, there was a lot of pressure to speed things up sexually - I ended up having sex with him much sooner than I had originally wanted to. He was a little impatient with me; he tried to understand that I was younger, but he was irritated at my sexual "immaturity."
He is not only more experienced than you sexually, but emotionally also. He's also lived longer and has had many more experiences than you; in this way, he will always be at an advantage.
I don't believe that age differences make a huge difference - but that's when both parties are old enough. I personally think you're too young to be dating someone that old. But I know you will make whatever decision feels right.
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I'm 15/f
I got caught having sex with my boyfriend in a private property by the police and my boyfriend is 18. Yes I know that's illegal & a big age difference. He got arrested & my parents didn't press charges but they're super disappointed in me as you can imagine... They didn't know I was sexually active. If I had the confidence to talk about it I would of . I can't blame them for MY mistake but honestly my parents favor my sister all the damn time. Oh she makes money oh she does better in school than I do. Literally everything she does is better than I do. I've always tried to be good enough but I'm never enough. I feel like maybe I just stopped caring about that they wanted from me because they'll never be as good as my sister. Of course they have the right to favor her now & of course they care about me also but I don't know what to do with myself I honestly want to commit suicide I'm so tired of everything (link)
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I am sure they are more concerned than they are disappointed. They're worried about whether or not you're having safe sex, about whom you're having sex with, etc.
The fact that your parents compare you to your sister means that they believe that you have the potential to achieve just as much as her - if not more. If they really believed that you weren't as "good" as her, they wouldn't say anything at all.
Please do not kill yourself - if you are considering suicide, please call 1 (800) 273-8255. They are available 24/7.
You are very young. It is never too late to become the person you want to be.
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So I've been having dreams about my boyfriend and this same guy that I swear I've never met. But this one dream I had last night held more meaning, but I don't know exactly what it meant.
So I was on this dark wooden dock thing. And this woman with black hair walked up to me, handing me a light blue sweater (I looooooove sweaters. I stared at it in pure awe as I smiled. And she said something like, "He bought this for you." Then she disappeared and I walked into this building. I walked into one of the rooms, and I saw the guy that I've been having CONSTANT dreams about there. Then I looked into the room beside this one, and I saw my boyfriend with his old hair watching TV. He looked over at me and smiled. I looked sad, holding up the light blue sweater, then slowly turned away. Suddenly I was in a lime green car, and I felt my close friend's voice say, "You gotta tell him."
When the woman and my friend say "him"... I don't understand if they're talking about my boyfriend or the guy I've been seeing in 95% of my dreams...? HELP! (link)
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Well, I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend; if it's happy or not, etc.
Perhaps the other guy you've been seeing in your dreams represents a potential future boyfriend - someone "else." Maybe the lack of clarity when it comes to the "him" they are referring to indicates that you are not sure if you can get more (represented by the sweater) out of your relationship with your current boyfriend, or with someone else. Have you been questioning whether or not you'd be happier single? If not, perhaps the "him" they are referring to is your boyfriend.
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Chase accidentally deposited $1000 in my account. The day I saw it, which was about a month ago, I called them just in case someone else had access to my account. They said it was an error on their side and they'll take care of it. They never took it out and I called a few more times.
I mean I'd love to keep $1000 but it's not mine and I don't want them coming after me.
Should I just go to the bank myself and talk to them? Or just wait it out?
It's just the bank is a far drive and that's why I haven't gone in myself. I kinda live in the middle of no where.
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Maybe call them again, but I wouldn't worry about it too much if they don't respond. Just make sure you avoid spending the money, because you can get in trouble for that - even though it is their fault that the money ended up in your account.
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Im really young and I would put my finger inside my vagina and then scratch it.Then I would smell it. I thought I was going to get pregnant and I started worrying. I had 2/10 symptons of pregnancy and Im too young to have a baby. Also I don't have a boyfriend and I don't think I carried sperms. All I know is that I don't wash my hands before fingering myself. Please, I have been worrying and stressing out. (link)
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You cannot get pregnant by fingering yourself, because in order for pregnancy to occur, sperm from a man must meet the egg of a woman. You cannot carry sperm on your own, because you have no way of producing sperm. If you've begun exploring sexually, it may be best to get educated on sex, how pregnancy occurs, etc.
The only way a person could theoretically get pregnant from fingering is if they had semen (a fluid that comes out of a man during orgasm, containing sperm) on their fingers at the time, but you didn't so you didn't even have the possibility of getting pregnant.
You didn't mention how young you were, but if you haven't had sexual education yet, you're probably too young to worry about sex. Relax, you cannot get pregnant on your own. Don't stress :)
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Okay, so I've been exclusively dating this amazing guy since August and more casually since June. He's about 4 years older, which isn't a big deal besides me still being in school.He's begun his career and is away from his family and basically on his own while I'm in my apartment 2 miles from campus with parents paying bills.
When we met, he was fascinating. I had never been with anyway like him. everything about him excited me. Physically he's not the athletic type I'm used to but I didn't even see that. Even when we worked out together and saw how horrible he was in the gym I just thought it was cute. He's the smartest most thoughtful guy I've ever met and our first date we talked about life and religoin and missed most of our concert talking for hours.
but now that things have gotten more serious, I don't know where the amazement went. He does not seem interested in having nights like that. We go out to et and he's irritated or on his phone. He's still loving and cuddling at home but nothing feels natural anymore. Even the sex feels forced.
He told me about a concert back in his college town and I wanted to know how he knew about it and he wouldn't answer me, just said he had his ways.
I've been in cheating relationships before like anyone else so I know I'm paranoid about it.We're not in the same city so I feel like something is off. I can't say he is cheating but I can say I don't know much about him. I've met a few of his close friends after nagging about it. Never met any family. Females, including the one he was bummed his missed her birthday when I came to visit him, I never hea about, and when I do I'm never allowed to meet them. He says stuff like I went to eat with a friend when he's in town but I haven't seen him all day.
I'm losing interest and I think it's bc I feel like I'm sleeping with a stranger. I wrote him a long letter telling him exactly why sex is how it is for me and why I want him to tell me more about him and to reply if he's not comfortable talking and he acted like it was nothing.Now every conversation he does't say that he has my letter I just get pissed and think of a thousand reasons why he would not be fully committed to this after everything he's said. I don't know what it is bc he is an honest and loving person, but nothing sits right with me anymore and I don't know how I even feel with him.
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You *may* be paranoid about him cheating on you, but it's understandable. Frankly, the cheating isn't even a main issue - clearly there are a lot of other problems in your relationship.
There is obviously a lack of communication, which is usually where relationships begin to fall apart. You guys aren't discussing your issues in full - and this is because he doesn't want to. I don't really know why, that's something you have to get him to open up about... but if he doesn't want to, what can you do?
You may want to tell him that you are unhappy, and if you are ready, you can say that you can no longer hold on to a relationship where you feel like you're not being properly communicated with. He may realize he needs to change the way he has been handling, or not handling problems.
He's older; even 4 years make a difference. And four years from now, when you're the age he is now, most guys your age will have the qualities you enjoy in him.
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I constantly think, day dream, fantasy, have urges, & desires to kill people. One day I was so overwhelmed by my urge that I couldn't ignore it anymore. So i drowned my pet & I didn't feel guilt or remorse. All I felt was happiness & satisfaction. So ever since I did that my urges to kill have become to much to handle & it's becoming more difficult to ignore my urges. I don't know what to do? My mom says I am doing it for attention but I am doing it because I desire to kill things. She won't let me get help & she won't let me tell anybody so I can get help. So does anybody have ideas on how I can get help without my mom knowing? (link)
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Please, please speak to a counselor at your school (or call a mental health hotline - do an online search for ones in your country). The hotlines should be anonymous, however, I'm not sure what the protocol is for when someone may be endangering someone else.
At any rate, even if those hotlines/the school DO have to inform your mom, you will be getting help. That is what's most important right now.
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Hi!
So anyway, I'm a freshman in high school and I'm jealous of my friend. I really don't know why I'm jealous of him, because there's nothing to be jealous of. He's pretty much a pale twig (it's awful but it's true). Is there any way to get over this jealousy without knowing the root of what I'm jealous of? Is there a way of keeping myself from being jealous? Any answers are appreciated, thank you for reading! (link)
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You didn't provide many details, but I'm going to take a wild guess here... you mention that he is a pale twig. In other words, you say that he's not that attractive (by your standards), or, at the very least, he's not more attractive than you.
I'm going to guess that he's comfortable with his appearance. Confident, maybe. And perhaps you are not. Does it bother you that someone whom you consider to be less attractive than yourself has more confidence than you do? Do you feel like he has somehow gotten confidence that he doesn't deserve, while you don't have the confidence that you do deserve?
You're going to have to learn to be happy with yourself. Even if he had low self-esteem, it's not like it would make your self-esteem higher.
I think that HIS confidence is the root of your jealousy. You can overcome it by focusing on your strengths without comparing them to anyone else's, and without imaging how others might compare themselves to you.
Best of luck to you! Jealousy is not a fun feeling, and I hope you figure out how to overcome it soon!
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I broke my virginity two weeks back now my nipples are sore and they pop out and every time when I eat I feel blotted ,I also have stamache pains and feel like I have hurtburn R alcers im not sure but I want to ask are these signs/symptoms of being pregnant?? (link)
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While those can be signs of pregnancy, they are also signs of your period approaching.
You didn't mention when you last had your period, or when you're expecting it. Have you started menstruating yet? If not, perhaps this is your first-ever period. Otherwise, try to think back to when you last had it, and see if you've missed it. If your period hasn't arrived yet, and was supposed to have, you may take a pregnancy test.
You also didn't mention if you used any contraception. If you used a condom correctly, and it didn't break, you're probably fine. If you're on birth control, you're also probably fine. Pull-out method (when the guy pulls out before he finishes) is better than nothing, but not that great, so there is a greater risk of pregnancy associated with that.
To answer your question directly, yes, those are some signs and symptoms of being pregnant. But they could be signs of your period or just the stress related to thinking that you're pregnant.
Good luck!
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