I am Samantha.
I am a friend.
I am a lover.
I like books and the weekend. I like summer and music and flowers. I don't like school or being cold. I don't like rejection or mood swings or bad hair days.
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Gender: Female
Location: D-town
Occupation: Student/Cashier
Age: 16
Member Since: February 3, 2008
Answers: 80
Last Update: April 28, 2009
Visitors: 5276
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Hey ,
I was just wondering ,
some people say when you have acne , it depends on the things you eat , if I don't eat any junk food or any things like that will my acne die down a bit or will it keep on spreading?
thank you!
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What you eat really doesn't have much to do with your skin. When you're a teenager, it doesn't really have to do that much with your skin care, either. I take really really good care of my skin. I use a very expensive cleanser, toner, and moisturizer (NOT PROACTIV! That stuff is bad for your skin), and I still break out sometimes. It's just the hormones in your body going all out of whack. The best thing for acne? Pills. Go to your dermatologist and ask them what would be best for you. Not everything is as dangerous as Acutane, there are tons of milder forms that could be just right for you.
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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.
1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?
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1. For the most part, yes, but why not use protection? I mean, unless you want to get pregnant I wouldn't recommend it.
2. No, not at all. And I don't advise that you do swallow because it is absolutely disgusting.
3. Maybe, but I've never used a condom for a blowjob. He'd probably not enjoy it as much.
4. Shave all of yours off, probably, most guys prefer that. And he'll probably trim his. Don't say anything to him about it, he'll figure it out.
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so i dated this guy for a year and a half, imoved and we fell apart.. but we both stil always loved eachother. never stopped loving eachother..and now he is dating this new gurl. and he told me he lost feelings for me. right after he heard from my x that i did stuff with him,and it wasnt true, and now he is acting al in love wit his new gf and he is tellin her that i keep calling him and all this dumb garbage.. my question is ..do u think he stil loves me deep down inside (link)
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I think he is jealous. The thing is, most people want to feel wanted. When you dated, he felt wanted. When he found out that you wanted someone else, he wanted to make you feel the same pain that he felt. It may not be that he wants you back, though I'm sure he'll always love you, but that he misses the feeling of being the only one you have your eyes on. Hope this helped
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I went on a date with this guy and we went to the movies on our first date we had a good time.
Now its my turn to pick what to do or where to go.
I have no idea but it can be anywhere free or cost money. I just want us to enjoy our company and what we are doing.
I havent been on a date since 2 yrs...now what or where do I go!
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Bowling! Most people aren't really pro, so it's just a fun thing to do. It's more fun with more people, and this is why bowling is good for the first few dates:
1) Boys like to compete. You get to see a little bit of his competitive side, which he will like. Especially if he can see yours!
2) You can see how he interacts with not just you, but with other people. If you don't know how he is with other people, he could deceive you in who he really is.
3)It's not something that most people do every day, and brings up stories from "I haven't been bowling since Billy's 7th birthday party...blahblahlbalah"
So go bowling. Haha, have fun!
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Me-f,16
him-m, 17
we've been for about a year now but we havent went out alone yet on a date we hang around our homes and watch tv or just do random stuff to entertain eachother. We've only taken pictures together twice now and only got1 good picture i feel bad tho because its our first year i want to have pictures and good memories. We've had very good memories without spending money but i just want to go out and do something (im unable to drive) his dadcalled him a cheap date the other day when was there and he almost started crying which me seeing that made me start crying because i cant stand seeing him sad so i pulled him down on me and told him it was ok we dont have to spend money to have fun and i just held him till he felt better.
-do alot of people not go places alot?
im hoping to change this once get a job and car
-does this make us pathetic?
i love him so much but i wanna go ot and have fun
-I want us too take more pictures but he's not good with like the moving he justlikes to sit there and take pictures so they all look the same? :(
-Is it wrong to compare relationships?
His twin brother and girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now and they go everywhere & see eachoher everyday i during the school year only see him once a week & i cry alot just by hearing of thm beingtogether and me not being able to see him im slowly becoming depessed from justnot seeing himif thats possible. Theylive in the same town tho as i live 30 minutes from them. The fact that they get too see eachother allthe time andthey do stuff like go out to eat and go swimming together atleast once a week and ive only went out to eat once n valentines day with him and everywhere else wih friends & only 2 places this whole year :( makes me sad but it doesnt make me love him less.
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Boys don't really like taking pictures. That's just how it is. But no, this doesn't make you pathetic. In fact, I spend most of my time with my boyfriend at one of our houses, but there definitely is a balance between time at home and time out. It is not wrong to compare relationships, but remember that each one is unique, and you can't hold the same standards for every relationship. Go to the movies, go to the pool, go to a garden or a national park if you're near one, go to a museum, go to the zoo, go laser tagging, go bowling! Going unexpected places can be really fun, so don't always go to the movies and mall, you know? Good luck
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Where can I buy an eye lash curler that's super cheap? Are any sold for a buck? And are they safe to use? (Like no side effects such as after 5 curls, eyelashes will fall out). thanks (link)
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They're at any pharmacy, really. And they're not that expensive at all. Check out your dollar store, they might have one too. Your eyelashes should not fall out, unless you use it after applying mascara and allow all the mascara to build up on your curler. Clean it every once and awhile so your eyelashes don't stick. That hurts!
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15/f
So there's this AMAZING GUY that I like soooo much. Like, I am practically in love with him. I love everything about him: his smile, his laugh, etc. Like EVERYTHING! It drives me crazy how much I like him. Whenever we talk, he looks so interested in everything that I'm saying. And he'll ask me questions to further the conversation, so I know he's really listening to me :) He's so sweet and funny and nice like omg you have no idea! We'll call him A.
Then there's this other not so amazing guy that most days I hate, like completely hate. But sometimes, when we aren't arguing, we have really great conversations. And, I think he sorta understands me and some of the stuff that goes on in my head. And I kinda understand him too. Like our thinking processes. We have this connection you could say, despite all our bickering. We'll call this guy Z.
Anyways, I'm really confused. Z in general just confuses me. I don't know what my feelings are for him. Z just drives me crazy with all his confusing vibes he's sending me. One day, he hates me. Next day, we're like best friends! And then I hate him even more for confusing me because it's making me question my feelings for A!!! Like I keep asking myself which I'd rather go out with but then I'm like, wait no! I hate Z! That's not an option...or is it???? What's going on? Can anybody explain this weird behavior or why I feel this way or even which guy seems better to you? I dunno...
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Well, I think you're attracted to Z because he challenges your mind. However, if he frustrates you to no end, you'll probably like a sweeter boy like A. A sounds like he's genially interested in you and sounds mature enough for a relationship whereas Z sounds like he's still in the elementary I-like-you-so-I'm-mean-to-you stage. I'd go with A.
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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help?? (link)
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Think about it, is having a phone really important enough for you to degrade yourself like that? Honestly, you need to respect yourself and your body. You should cut all ties from this person paying your bills. Block his number, delete everything. You could fess up with your boyfriend, but he'll probably leave you. And personally, I don't blame him. If you can't be faithful, you don't deserve a boyfriend.
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Everyone talks about using gel or spray when you straighten your hair, but what do you do with it? do you just spray your hair with it or what? and what spray do you recommend? thnxx so much =]
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I use a gel by Bedhead Tigi, under the Catwalk line. It's called Fashionista and smells REALLY good! Just smooth it in your hair as you straighten in layers. Make sure you get all your roots, because they're most prone to damage.
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okay well i want to buy a hair straightener, but i dont really know too much about them. im between three {a bedhead, a chi, and the new conair infiniti that uses steam)...
http://www.hsn.com/bed-head-tourmaline-nano-ceramic-1-1-4-hair-straightener_p-4279459_xp.aspx?&ccm=bs|bs0025|bs0029
http://www.folica.com/CHI_Glacier_Ice_d4191.html
http://conair.com/infiniti-nano-silver-conair-high-temperature-ionic-steam-straightener-p-621.html
price doesnt matter, but i want to know which one works better, and won't damage my hair too bad in the long run. thnxx =] (link)
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Chi! I love my Chi! But definitely use a heat protector gel or spray, and focus on your roots so you don't get split ends.
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16/f
alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..
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Well, if you like him, there's no reason to break up with him. I'm the same age as you, and we're just kids, you know? You don't have to love him. Just have fun with him! If it's not fun, end it. But, honestly, it's just high school. You don't have to get married.
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15/f
My family and I are really close. My parents divorced when i was 5 and my brother was 3, my brother and i live with my mom and we see my dad about 7 times a year.
I am SO worried about my brother now. He has a close relationship with my mom and still sort of does but lately i think he has been hiding a lot from us. since he has entered middle school, he is slowly starting to become a bad kid. My mom was randomely checking his phone when he was sleeping and it had text messages to and from this one girl with him swearing (which i don't care too much about) and talking about masturbating, and the girl sent a picture of her boobs and he sent pictures of his penis. HE IS ONLY 13 AND IN SEVENTH GRADE! this really upset my mom when she saw this but she didn't mention it to my brother but sort of talked about the subject of that and i can tell it scared him and he thought that we might possibly know.
today i found out his myspace email and password and only looked at it for a second because it shows if he is on or not but i quickley checked his inbox and it had a threat from an 8th grader sent to him 12 days ago that said "i'm gonna f*ck you up" i am near tears right now and i am extremely worried about him. i don't want to tell my mom about it because i don't want to worry her anymore...it's hard enough as it is being a single working mother.
i am scared he is going to get into doing drugs and going down the wrong path, as much as he denies it. what can i do to help him? i mean, we go to church like every sunday (catholic) and sometimes my mom will let him skip and just let him sleep. i don't want him to get a bad reputation...i have a really good one and i don't want him to be known as the rebellious messed up brother. what should i do? please help me...i care so much about him!!!!
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While I understand your concern, it is never okay to go through his personal things, like his phone and myspace. Invading his privacy is not going to make him want to open up to you. Try talking to him, just you and him, and ask him if he's okay. If he says he's fine, don't bother him. He will only open up when he is ready. Let him know that you care about him and you are here for him, whether it's about girls or serious stuff. Start hanging out with him. Go to the movies, invite him to hang with you and your friends. If you get closer, your relationship will be stronger. Only then can you help him.
Hope I helped.
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Okay, so i've been running every day (7/10 of a mile) with my dog. Also, i play softball (RF), and every night before i go to bed, i do at least 30 seconds of wall sits, push-ups, sit ups, and jog in place for 45 seconds. I want to totally slim down my thighs and my stomach for bikini season, and I haven't noticed much of a difference since I started about 2 weeks ago. I eat healthy..or so at least i try. PLEASE HELP! What can I do to slim down!? (link)
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While you are showing a good attempt, it seems like you need to do more. The running is excellent, and softball is a good workout. However, try doing more sets of those sit ups and such. For the best results, I recommend joining a gym and using the weight machines. Good luck!
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Ok, me and my exboyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. We went out for about 6 months and he was literally in love with me, or as close as it gets anyway. I broke up with him and he wanted us to still be friends and he was really depressed and stuff. Eventually, no one at fault, we just drifted away and he started hating my guts for no reason. So, the other day I was on myspace and I decided to message him to appologize for whatever I did that made him hate me. Then, just today, I found out he got a new girlfriend. He told her about it and she's threatened to kick my ass and he's laughing at me and the whole school thinks I was pathetic enough to come crawling back and try to break him and her up, which I wasn't! And no one believes me, probably because I just broke up wit my current boyfriend. I have absolutely NO feelings for my ex, I was just thinking about how good of a friend he was and that it would be cool to be like that again, but now basically the whole school is bugging me about it. His girlfriend is actually on probation for beating up another girl and i'm terrified. I didn't mean for any of this to happen, and I feel horrible and guilty and terrible! What should I do??? Please help!!! (link)
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Do you friends believe you? Get them to back you up. Tell people your story, but only if they ask. There's really no problem when it comes to people bugging you about it, it's just gossip, people will get over it within a week, most likely. As for his girlfriend, try to arrange to talk to the both of them together, in a public place (like school), and tell them in a civilized manner that you meant nothing by the message other than you would like to retain the friendship with your ex. If the girl sees it as a problem and your ex doesn't want to be friends, just let it go. Obviously, he doesn't want to be friends.
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okay so maybe i am looking too much into this one. But a long time ago i told this guy i liked him and i pretty much scared him off and he told me he was gay (such a lie). And now like i notice he will look at me when before he wanted nothing to do with me. And now he will actually watch me. I sort of get weirded out because he never has wanted anything, and i mean ANYTHING to do with me. he avoided me. And like this morning he talked to me and was like "how are you feeling about barnbash" and my friend was like "its a barn" and i said "very very great very great" and he was looking at me...
so what could come of this?? i mean seriously isnt it a little weird that he is doing all of this now?? maybe i am looking too much into it. I dont know what do you think?? (link)
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I'm sorry, I don't know what barnbash is, but it is pretty weird that he seems to be very interested in you so suddenly when before he wanted absolutely nothing to do with you. Either he matured and sees how wonderful you are, or he's just messing with your head. Give him time, and see if he's interested, or being a jerk. Keep me updated.
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Alright i've been working out lately but there's some spots i'd like to work on like my arms, mainly from my shoulder's to my elbows are there any exercises i can do that will work spefically on my arms? (link)
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The best way to get the best exercise for your body is to go to the gym and ask someone there. If you go to the YMCA, the people that walk around the weights room will give you free advice. Also, when you belong to a gym, you will feel more obligated to go (since you or your parents are paying for it) so you'll definitely get the results you want. Good luck!
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What is this movie about? I thought it was a love story. But I'm not sure. Can anyone just give me like what it is mainly about like a summery (link)
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Go to imdb.com, the BEST site for anything you need to know about movies and actors/actresses. So check it out at that site, and then watch it. Because it's one of my favorite movies! But you have to like the Beatles to like the movie.
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ok i need help does anyone know were i can get the spray on tan stuff and which kind should i
get because im like really white . thankies (link)
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You can go to the drug store or department store or tanning booth, but you'll look like an orange oompa loompa. Honestly, only natural tans look good. One winter I wanted to do a tanning lotion, and I thought I looked great, and everyone told me I was orange. But when it's on you, you don't see it. So don't do it. Wait for summer.
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I have VERY disturbing boobs
My left is almost a Dcup while my right its just a pity Acup
Is there something wrong?
I'm in 8th grade
It's starting to be slitly noticable if you look hard enough when I'm dressed
I can like, never be groped or have sex with anybody untill this is fixed
I'd die of embarrasment
And, I am NOT telling my parents about this FYI
Nooo way in HELL
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I'm sorry to hear that. Sorry, but if you want to get help, you have to go to your doctor. Until then, you can get a customized bra and they should even them out a little more.
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im 19 years old. female. i think i have a mental disorder but i dont know. i dont want to be evaluated. i just want to know how to be happier. i get so mad over little things. i know i should be mad and upset of them. but i cant help it. i just get so upset. i think its affecting my relationship too, which needs to stop. so i guess my question is..how can i be happier..and stop getting so angry? =/ (link)
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I get the same way! I get irritated so easily, cry at the littlest things, and hysterically laugh at anything. I just have very extreme emotions. Before I start to feel my emotions full throttle, I stop myself and think, "hey, is this such a big deal?" Usually, the answer is no. So then I stop myself. Also, you have to take a day off. One Saturday, isolate yourself from everyone and just think. Write lists, write poems, just write. You'll feel better.
Hope I helped
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