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my friend lost his phone last night at the homecoming dance and we couldnt find it... somebody answered at one point and then hung up...i called last night and this mornin and somebody ahd obviously turned it off... we checked with a lot of people last night, like all the chaperones or whatever... but no one had found it... is there anyway to find out where it is, or how to get it back?? please help! i really want to find it for him!! thanks
just keep calling the phone or text it and someone will answer
ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ?????
i say stand up to your parents and demand your freedom. i know they mean well but still demand the freedom. heck i started dating when i was in grade 5 even though it was more so puppy love
Well i have a friend lets call him fred.. well fred is usally really happy.. and i cant picture him being sad at all.. i dont think i have ever seen him sad.. and ive known his since 2nd grade (in 10th now) so ya.. and today i went online and his away message said dead inside.. and i asked him if he was ok and he didnt say anything.. and im worried about him cause hes one of my really really good friends.. what should i do? please answer i rate high..
your friend could be feeling like that he has no one left in the world to care about him. make sure that you dont see and cutting scars on him. if he starts that please stop him. i started doing that not too long ago and its hard to stop when you feel like you dont know who you are.
I care to much about what people think of me. I know I do this, and it holds me back from alot.
I know I'm a cool person inside, but I'm scared to talk to anyone (besides people I'm already friends with). How can I stop this?
im not gonna tell you to stop caring b/c it takes the persons free will wanting to feel that way. but try and do something crazy. like be a rebble. if you like the addrenaline from leaving fire crackers in tolets at mcdonalds then you might be able to get over this thing of caring what people think. basicly in time if you hang around people who dont give a shit of what others think then you'll start to care less and less your self. my best friend aurora tought me how to be like that and i thank her alot. but dont be affraid to let your wild self out. that how you might get over it.
ok i have this dress and it fits like perfection but u can see my underwear though it..and if i wear like a g-string u can still see the lines..not really by my but but on the sides..does anyone no like anyway to fix this? thanks!! xoxo
wear and under skirt or one of thoes long things that go underdresses that look like sexy night gown.
ok i dont know how to word this but i will give an example like today i got some headphones from around the house to see which would have the music come out the loudest from my ipod and like i took these pair of headphones from our family room and my dad started yelling at me saying im not supposed to leave the room with the head phones when i didnt and and so he was like i thought i told u to put them back when he never did so i yelled back at him so he came like running over to me and like almost broke my finger and he said if i did it again he would beat the $h!t out of me and a couple of times he has hit me and i dont know what i should do cause my mom never believes me when i tell her this and when he hits me it never leaves any bruises and he says if he goes to jail for beating me at least he would have found the enjoyment in it
i sujest taking his ass to court for hitting you. what he does is child abuse and he had no right doing that. i've never bin in your shouse but my dad is an alcoholic so i know what its like to fear him hitting me. just think to your self, are they really good parents if your mom doesnt beleave you and your dad hits you. you could aways get your self put into a phaster home. it may help. if you need someone to talk to i sujest e-mailing my friend joe at salem_22_@hotmail.com
I hate my friend!he has been annoying me so much lately and not just me but every one else!today he was messing around and was trying to trip me up but i just didn't take any notice and didn't look at him but then he kicked me really hard and i hit my leg off the corner of the table!and instead of appologising he just laughed in my face!so i just turned around to him and said "you fucking prick!" i thought he was getting the idea that i didn't like him any more but now he's annoying me even more!!what should i do???
beat the shit out of him that will give him the idea. thats what i do if people piss me off. anyway i hope i helped
ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me!
as him out. if he is too shy to ask you out then nothing will happen. so make it happen!
is there any ways to get my butt alot bigger
yeah eat mcdonalds
lol
See I have this really awsome Dad. But I stopped seing him because him and my mom got in a fight. Like not physical. But like swearing. Then that went to court and I am not allowed to see him anymore. I havnt seen him in 5 years. And all my friends at school know him and get to see him and are always talking about how cool he is and I know he is cool but I miss him reallllyyy bad. And I cant wait until I am 18 to see him but I have to. Every night I cry and cry. What do I do? What do I do to stop being depressed. Everyone at school calls me bad names and a girl even sprained my pinky but the teachers dont really care. They just gave her lunch detention for one day. All my friends are like get over it. Dont care what people say. But ever since I strted public school (since 5th grade) people have been treating me like crap every day and it doesnt stop. Its not just the normal name calling, its worse and it has scarred me. I cant take it anymore. Its so annoying and I am a sensitive person but I act tough and just cry when I get home. I have tried to do something about it but they just blame it on me when I am kind to them even when their mean to me. I even got suspended once for no reasen. Well, the person blamed somthing on me and i got suspened for 4 days (in school suspension) plus week of detention. I dont know what to do. Plus my mom verbally fights with me a lot. I dont feel safe anywhere. What do I do? My mom even called me a loser and I suck and said my friends are losers and no1 likes me? HELP!I am a girl and I am 12. HELLLLLPPPPP!
who cares what the chourt says if you wanna see your fauther you have the right. like what the hell girl he is your flesh in blood just see him in secret and im sure the chourt will never find out. and with the name teasing thing i know what you go through. people through rocks at me from my old school. and i've bin teased all my life. if you ever need some one to talk to just e-mail me salem_22_@hotmail.com. there is really nothing you can do. but if you record your mom and the way she yells at you. then you can show the court that and i think they might let you live with your dad.
I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?
Please Be Nice I Rate 5's
it would hurt her but every vergin girl gose through pain on their first time.
I just got contacts and you can see my dark circles under my eye REALLY bad. Makeup won't cover them up does anyone have any idea what I can do to get rid of them or cover them up with makeup? I will rate high!
get some really long amounts of sleep if you can. that will make them go away. and the reason you might have the black circles under your eyes is because you dont have enough sleep.
ok well there is this guy at my school he i really like him he isnt in any of my classes but gym and im too shy to talk to him lol but he knows i like him but ive never talked to him i really wont to meet him thought like talk to him... so maybe then he would go out with me but im too scared to talk to him
ok ok we got it that you're scared. but trust me. you should really go and ask him out. there is nothing to lose. if he dosent like you so what. i get rejected all the time... lol
I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!
you can't really make a girl love you all you can do is spill out your guts about how you feel for her. i know what it like to feel for that one specil person. and i know you can't replace that feeling. im in love with my closest friend ian and well he only thinks of me as a friend the only thing i can do is sit and wait. if you really wanna convince her take her to the movies or where ever she likes to go.
ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions?
my puppy is affraid of the basement maybe your pup is too. try putting it down there
Fellow atheists: I have a friend who is a militant Christian, meaning, she thinks it's her job to convert everyone who isn't Christian into one, including me. She knows I'm atheist, but it really bothers me when she tells me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Christian ways. I've told her many times that I don't believe in a god, afterlife, or book of worship. Yet, she still has the nerve to constantly bring up "god" and how I NEED to be a Christian. Other than that, she's cool. Are there any ideas on how to get through to her that I really don't want her help when it comes to religion? I'm going to snap if she comments to me one more time.
i know this sounds mean and she's your friend but tell her that she'll burn in hell for being such a bitch in not respecting in your belifes even thought really you have none. Neither do I. Pluse I know I never looked in the bible but i think it says some where that you have to respect other people's ways of life no matter what. so just tell her to fuck off. i did that once and it got my friend to stop. and me and him are still friends lol.
hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?
just come out. if he hates you then you really have nothing to lose. trust me i've kept things secret and its screawed me over befor in having a relationship with a girl i really like during the school year.
Hey,
I really want to work(im 16 yrs old and a female), but my parents say that it will take away from my studying time and that im going to start getting bad grades. But i know that i can balance my time. I really want to work so that i can buy me things when i want and i could buy what i want. In this case its easier to convince my mom than my dad. But i really want to start workin. PLEASE give me ways to try to convince them.....i rate 5's for any answer.
Thanx
tell them that you actually need the working experiance befor you go out in the world on your own when you're 18 or what ever age. because most jobs do require experiance and will not hire if you dont have what they require.
Hello im 13 and I got this HUGE crush on my step-dads friends son who came to TX for vacation. Hes 16 but were only 3 years apart when you think about it. It seems really far away now. Anyways he stayed over for a week and a half. We were hanging out watching TV, fishing, playing with the dogs thats stuff. And he just went back up to Cali. I fell in love with him and I cannot get him off my mind. I dream about him, think about him like a million times a day, ask my step-dad constantly when he'll visit again. Im in MAD love and I have no clue what to do.
How do I get him off my mind?
-Jessica
just ask him out. just because you like this guy dosent mean you have to get him off your mind. its ok to be in love. just go for it. what is there to lose?
I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do??
get a bigger back pack maybe?