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What People Think of me
I care to much about what people think of me. I know I do this, and it holds me back from alot.
I know I'm a cool person inside, but I'm scared to talk to anyone (besides people I'm already friends with). How can I stop this?
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I used to care so much what people thought of me and the way I got over it is I looked at all the people who were being mean to me and i realized that i wasn't friends with those people so why should i care what they thought. So next time someone is mean to you stop and if there not one of your friends don't listen to them cause they're not worth your time.
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im not gonna tell you to stop caring b/c it takes the persons free will wanting to feel that way. but try and do something crazy. like be a rebble. if you like the addrenaline from leaving fire crackers in tolets at mcdonalds then you might be able to get over this thing of caring what people think. basicly in time if you hang around people who dont give a shit of what others think then you'll start to care less and less your self. my best friend aurora tought me how to be like that and i thank her alot. but dont be affraid to let your wild self out. that how you might get over it.
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Wow- you must have a strong sense of self to recongnise yourself for being cool. You're way ahead of most people in this respect.
To over come your shyness just free yourself from all ideas of being judged. Get out there and remember that you can be friends with any one on this planet. Make friends with people you really enjoy being with and you'll have no problems with coming out and being yourself.
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Don't care so much about what other people think of you. What matters is what you think of yourself. The other people you don't talk to may be just as scared as you are. Go out and meet new people, and you might even gain some new friends.
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U just have to overcome your fears of talking to people and be yourself you just have to remind yourrself that some people will be mean and others can be your besst friends forever! ANd hey ill be your friend and thats all that matters! Hope i helped Jpeeps91 if younna talk!
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wat you should do is just like ask your friends for help they might help you meet new people and you might just enjoy it act like cool people just dont make fun of peopel be yourself dont care wat other people think and if it doesnt help im really sorry but good luck tell your friends about me!
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thats the same thing for me..like i wont talk to you if you dont talk to me first because people dont give me a chance.i still dont talk to people unless they talk to me but im a little more open than what i was before.just have some courage and people will think your really cool like you said.and you'll meet more people
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aww dont worry. just remember that they are not better than u and imagine being in their shoes. they probably want to talk to you too. so dont worry. just take a deep breath and ull be fine. =) hope i helped. love, cristy
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