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i need some advice on what to bring to Hampton Beach, New Hampshire. you know like stuff for fun.... i cant think of anything. please help quick... its for vacation (link)
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-sunglasses-
-sunblock
-magazines
-towels
-camera
-ipod
beach ball
-frisbee
Goddluck and feel free to come to me if you need anymore help with anything
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Well I need some more advice, since I dont really know about the one before. Well it all stared with a boy named "D" ill say. He i-med me and asked me out i said yes then no. Then we didnt talk for a while and he i-med me again and we started talking. I really liked this kid, he was different from anyone else. So we then decided to meet in school. We saw eachother in the halls but never said hello. Once we met everything just evolved and we have been going out ever since. Movies, the mall, I have never met anyone like him, and no one has ever made me feel this way. Im only 13 but i feel really in love. We are kinda growing apart i feel, cause im out of school for the summer and we havent talked in about 5 days which too me is like hell. Im only 13 but whenever i call him i feel uncomfortable, and he never comes online anymore. Im not sure what to do. We havent even kissed yet, but hugged alot and held hands a couple times. If i talk to him, it seems like he likes me, but he isnt calling me at all or making an effort to see me. And i cant stop thinking about him, thats whats driving me crazy.
What should I do? :-( (link)
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Almost the same ting happened to me. I was that same age too. I think you should just dump him. Im sorry but clearly he is just not interested anymore!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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ok i had sex for the first time about 2 weeks ago.. my bf had a condom on and everything but all i keep thinkin bout is me gettin pregnant.. im not showin any signs like.. gettin sick or things like that.. i cant really remember when my last period was so i guess i cant really go by that.. but i keep like totally frkin out! when do the signs start to show.. and if u use a condom what r the risks of pregnancy!!! please help me (link)
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The first thing you should do is have a pregnancy test. (who can purchase one at a local drug store or go to your doctor) The second thing is not to freak because that will onl make it worse. I do not think you can get prgnant if you used a condom
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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what are some ways you can show a guy that you have feelings for him?? (link)
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Here are some ways that I hope help you
**if you haven't already start talkig to him..becoming friends is the first step
**get to know him
** flirt with him
**just come out and say that you are interested in him
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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I'm 15/f he's 17/m.
This is kind of long, but I can't stop thinking about him. He leads me on all the time, and I fall for it all the time. He loves it when I play with him too. So at this point, we both like eachother a lot.. we tell everyone that we like eachother. But we won't hook up. I dont know his reason, but I know mine. When we first met, he cheated on his girlfriend.. with me. But when that happened, he told me he was single, so he lied to me. That made me think, a lot. If we were ever to hook up, would there be another chick he lures in and lies to for a little fun behind MY back?
What my question is since you know the story: What should I do about him? Should I try to persue something more, or should I keep on the level we're on right now: friends with some benifets? Advice? :) (link)
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I think you should just remain friends. I don't beleive that any girl should lose respect for herself and hook up with a guy who has cheated on her in the past. I say just reamin friends and try to move on as hard as it seems to do so!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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ok i have been modeling since i was 5 for big agency in calgary i have been asked to go to new york for 5 months to recive a bigger contract with the company that runs america's next top model, tyra banks etc. and they want me but to start i will have to leave the love of my life for 5 months what sould i do sould i accept it or what please help cheak out my pic in my advice column it is Reality. thanx (link)
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How many other chances will get to model for america's next top model. I know you are in love but he/she is going to have to accept that this is what you love doing and you want to persue this!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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my dad is a phsyco, and i've lived with it all my life, but now my mom is talking about getting a divorce, at first, i was devistated, but now i want them to divorce b/c i'ld most definatly be happier. AnYwAy, my mom wont talk to me about it anymore and i want to tell her i would support it, how can i do that without sounding lik im a total physco lik my dad??? (link)
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Your mom loves you and will not think you are a phyco. Actually I think that she will feel less stres if she gets the support that she needs from you and the divorce will ease some stress. If you feel you need to talk to your mom about what is happening then make her listen. Im sure that it would benfit you both.
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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ok im sorry this is long: my dad makes fun of EVERYONE!!!!! my friends, my teachers. ok, so if i come to him for help, with like friendship and say some negative stuff about people for example: "dad, _______ has been doing some rude things lately blah blah blah" and then hes like "oh is _______ the one with the monkey face/really fat/rat hair" and he can go on forever!!!!!! even when im not asking for help!!! like sometime he says stuff like "oh do u know that girl teresa in your class? she has the most annoying voice" I BEG HIM TO STOP THISS BUT WHEN I DO HE JUST DOES IT MORE!!!!! JUST BECAUSE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH SOME PEOPLE DOESNT MEAN HE HAS TO BE SO MEAN ABOUT IT! I mean i come to my father for advice. not critisism.please dont say ask your mom cause she doesnt help. please what can i do to stop this! (link)
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You must must must talk to your dad. You deff should be able to go to your dad for advice when you need. You need to be respectful of course. Your dad is not a mind reader so speak up. He's your dad and he will understand how you are feeling!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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well me adn this guy have been pretty close. ive been out of town for quite a while and i got back a few days ago. we went and hung out and did some things... but now it seems like hes not interested anymore... we usually talk on the phone for likie hours but last night we didnt even talk for three mins. hes like im tired im going to bed... so what should i think?? pleas help! (link)
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Well you have to take into consideration that you were out of town for quite a while. So pf course being a boy, he is going to lose interest in you. Make him realize again that you are an awsome and excited girl (boy?) and tell him that you know you've been away for a while but you would like to start where you both left off. And just tell him how you feel!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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16f, See my problem is that there is this boy that I used to have this fling with,'sorta' and its over now, its been over for quite some time but I still just can't seem to get him out of my head. I'm a rising junior in high school and he just graduated, so I know I'm never going to see him again so whats the point in liking someone soo much when you can never have a relationship with this person. I've been trying soo hard to forget him but I can't shake the feelings I have for him. Its like he has some type of power over me and I can never seen to get away from him.
PLEEEEAAAAZZZZ help me get him out of my head.
Signed,
HOPELESS (link)
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It's hard to get someone who you like so much out of your head. Trust me I know how it feels. Some ways that can help is:
**surrounding yourself by awsome,loving friends
**just pampering yourself
**doing fun activities
**going out and meeting new people
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
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I'm going to band camp this week so I havent been hanging out with my friends that much lately. On my screen name they are being rude to me not really but rude. Why are they doing this? How do I make them stop? How can I call them when they seem mad at me? (link)
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I think the first thing that you should do is tell your friends that you are sorry for not hanging out with them latelybut you are at camp this week and it has most of your attention. They shouldn't be rude though if they know this. Ask them why they are being so rude if you have another commitment. Even though they seem mad, you should try and give them a call and work things out. Good Luck!
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what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?
Thanks
I rate 5 for good answers (link)
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Well I would suggest food that can;t make a mess so maybe granola bars, cereal in a ziplog bag, water. Things that won't make a mess!
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I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx (link)
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It's good that you care a lot about your friends. This shows that you are a caring person. You should talk to your friends about what is bothering you and shouldn't try to let this problem just go away. Sit down with your entire group of friends and discuss about what has been going on. Then figure out ways on how to solve it. Please come to me if you need any more help okay? Good luck.
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on some peoples columns why do they have stars? like if you go to Browse Comlumnists. What do they mean? why do those people have them????
PlEaSe AnSwEr!!! (link)
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Some people have them becasue they have paid accounts!
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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right (link)
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YOU SHOULD TELL HER MOM! This is a serious matter. It is illigal for your friend to be dating that man. He is 19 and she is 15. Also he is harrassing her. This is a serious matter and I suggest you talk to your friend and her mom if she is really your best friend!
GOOD LUCK!
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i have been singing since i was able to talk. unfortunately, i live in a place where things like theater and singing arent that important. how would i find a way to get my voice out there to producers? any ideas?
MizzNiceGirl (link)
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I know exactly how you feel mizznicegirl. I love to sing and act but I live in the middle of no where! What I did was ask my parents (maturely) if I could get an agent and if they would mind supporting me and taking me to auditions. You should do the same with your parents!
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ok me andmyb/f were in his pool and he stuck it in me for like 3 min but ti kept comin out(in those 3 min) and he said nothing came out of him ....we didnt use protection, wat is the chance of me gettin pregnamt??????? (link)
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Well first of all you should use protection all the time no matter what. Even if you don't get pregnant you still have the chance of STD's or other things that go along with unprotected sex. The only way to know for sure if you are pregnant is to see a doctor (which I highly reccomned) or go to a drug store and take a pregnancy test.
GOOD LUCK!
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ok well im not sure if this is fake and i cant really dont know what to do but be mad. my "friend" constantly lies to me about stupid stuff. she doesnt tell me stuff and then she leaves me for boys when she promises me she wont. now dont think im jealous bc i have a boyfriend and i make time for my friends but she is just i dunno. when her boyfriend isnt around she hangs on other guys and im like dude you have a boyfriend and shes like shhh. and then she lost her virginity and being her "best friend" she should have told me as soon as it happened rite? like her boyfriend told my cousin cause their bestfriends. and i dunno. should i be mad? would you be mad if ur supposidly best friend lies to you all the time, and lost her virginity and didnt tell u??
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If she is doing all this to you then she is not a best friend. A best friend would not do that to you and if I were you i would stop hanging around someone who lies and cheats on her boyfriend. Yes, i would be mad if my "best friend" lied to me. If you don't want to lose your best friend for some reason then just tell her how you feel. if things still dont change get out of that friendship.
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This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do? (link)
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This happened to one of my best friends. She got into the "in" crowd when we entered high school and left me behind. She didn't really talk to me anymore. So I told her "I feel as though we aren't talking like we used to ever since you started hanging out with different people. This makes me sad. Do you think you can find time for me and your new friends?" She felt bad and now everything is okay with us again. Maybe you should try saying something like that to your friend!
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i have a friend who is very self centered... its always "her her her"... she wants everyone to herself and it is SOOOO annoying...
she thinks im like her best friend... but im not!!
what do i do?
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You need to tell this girl that you are not best friends but you need to do it with respect so you don't hurt her feelings. Also, if you feel as if this girl is self-centered then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her.
I hope I helped!!
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