Well I need some more advice, since I dont really know about the one before. Well it all stared with a boy named "D" ill say. He i-med me and asked me out i said yes then no. Then we didnt talk for a while and he i-med me again and we started talking. I really liked this kid, he was different from anyone else. So we then decided to meet in school. We saw eachother in the halls but never said hello. Once we met everything just evolved and we have been going out ever since. Movies, the mall, I have never met anyone like him, and no one has ever made me feel this way. Im only 13 but i feel really in love. We are kinda growing apart i feel, cause im out of school for the summer and we havent talked in about 5 days which too me is like hell. Im only 13 but whenever i call him i feel uncomfortable, and he never comes online anymore. Im not sure what to do. We havent even kissed yet, but hugged alot and held hands a couple times. If i talk to him, it seems like he likes me, but he isnt calling me at all or making an effort to see me. And i cant stop thinking about him, thats whats driving me crazy.
What should I do? :-(
karenR answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:50 am: You need to ask him why it is he doesn't call. Tell him he is confusing you. Talk to him in person about this particular thing. Invite him over to watch a movie or something. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Janessa answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 11:14 pm: I rhink your boyfriend probably confused about what he should do right now hes probably really nervous to me it seems like your not so why not take the next step insted of him he may be the shy type of person in person so help him get to the point where he can be comfortable around you the dating life has its difficulties...but Im really glad you like him because hes different thats what a real girl would do not go after the popular guys Im sure you guys will be fine its just going to be weird for awhile untill you get to know eachother a little bit better
hope everything works out for you let me know if the advice helped! Janessa [ Janessa's advice column | Ask Janessa A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 10:35 pm: well, maybe your boyfriend is nervous about how he feels about you...or i dont know. but i think that you should call him and ask him to meet you somewhere and just hang. im your afraid to call him then while you are doing it, hug a pillow to give you comfort. it helped me so maybe it will help you....
love,
leah [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
Rebecca answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 10:34 pm: Give it a rest! You are 13 honey! This is not the last one. I once heard a friend of mine, much older than you say, "I wish he would just be a man about it and TELL me he doesn't want to be with me anymore". I say, actions speak louder than words. Take it from someone who knows, if you sweat him and basically give him all of your power it's really hard to get it back. Call some of your friends and go hang out - get him off your mind! It's summertime and you just shouldn't have to spend your days wondering if this is it - because I gaurantee you, it's not! [ Rebecca's advice column | Ask Rebecca A Question ]
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