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Riddle me this
I'm 15/f he's 17/m.
This is kind of long, but I can't stop thinking about him. He leads me on all the time, and I fall for it all the time. He loves it when I play with him too. So at this point, we both like eachother a lot.. we tell everyone that we like eachother. But we won't hook up. I dont know his reason, but I know mine. When we first met, he cheated on his girlfriend.. with me. But when that happened, he told me he was single, so he lied to me. That made me think, a lot. If we were ever to hook up, would there be another chick he lures in and lies to for a little fun behind MY back?
What my question is since you know the story: What should I do about him? Should I try to persue something more, or should I keep on the level we're on right now: friends with some benifets? Advice? :)
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I think you should just remain friends. I don't beleive that any girl should lose respect for herself and hook up with a guy who has cheated on her in the past. I say just reamin friends and try to move on as hard as it seems to do so!
Good luck and if you need anymore help with anything please ask!
I hope I helped!
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Friends with benefits isn't a good idea. If you're going to go that far you may as well just date the guy. Talk to him about your fears and if he doesn't blow it off as silly you can try to trust him and hope all goes well. It could be the same with any guy really so, why not. Start over and let him know up front you won't put up with any nonsense. :)
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Friends with benefits just gives away something that should be somewhat sacred. You are 15!!! I didn't even know about this stuff at your age. Save benefits for a REAL boyfriend! Let that one go. The rule of thumb is if he did it to her, he'll do it to you - mostly because you will expect it since it already happened. How about just keep it in your pants and leave your relationship at friends WITHOUT BENEFITS!!! Don't sell yourself out! Because if he can get it like that - he'll never wanna give you more - why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free!!!
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Hey
ahh sweetheart i wouldn't even waste my time on him!
I personally dont know him but he seems to be a player. And they do nothing but end up hurting ALOT of girls! I know from personal experience. So whatever you do dont even think about moving up to another leavel. Like boyfriend and girlfriend!
But if you like him just stay the way you are! have some fun with him if you like! but more then that will just be foolish!
♥ maria ♥
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