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self centered
i have a friend who is very self centered... its always "her her her"... she wants everyone to herself and it is SOOOO annoying...
she thinks im like her best friend... but im not!!
what do i do?
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if its impossible 2 ignore her then maybe u sould just tell her that u dnt really want to be friends with her
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Well i would talk to feel ab her and tell her how you feel about her.
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talk to her its the only way she will realize the way she is
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if you don't want to be friends with her just say I don't wanna be friends with you anymore because you always think about yourself, in a nice way. Then just leave and never return.
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Well I used to have a friend like that but then she realized by the way I was acting around her was not the same cause she was not the same person I knew when I met her! My advice to you is just to ignore her and if she starts talking about herself then be like,"Can we talk about me for a change because I am always there for you but I need you now and this is bot the time to worry about you!" If she was a true friend she would understand that you are worried and if she does not agree with you then you need to find someone else .
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oh boy, the egotistical friend... always fun!
yes, i have one of those. and believe me, i know it can be so difficult at times! In a situation like this I think you really need to look at your frienship with this girl and try to find the qualities in her that made you become her friend in the first place. if you find there are very many, then you should just learn to deal with her egotism, as i have with mine. however, is she is the type to constantly put others down, and has never offered much to your friendship, then it is time to let this girl know that you're tired of the way she's acting and if she can't stop, at least around you, then you will have to take a break from the friendship.
also, it could be that your friend has no idea she's acting this way. maybe if you brough it up (in a way that won't cause a fight!) she may realize how she's been acting and she'll stop.
Also, there must be a reason she thinks you're her best friend. could it be that you act as though she's your best friend while you're around her and then become annoyed with her when you think about the way she behaves and then don't consider her your best friend?
either way, good luck with this. i wouldn't dump her all-together. i would talk to her and go from there.
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i have friends like that... you do eventually have to tell this person how you feel. but in a nice way... like dont say "dude youre a self centered bitch" but say something like "can you stop being so selfish and PLEASE think about others before yourself?" i know thats still kinda mean but she DOES have to get the message... just dont make the message that shes a bitch.
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You need to tell this girl that you are not best friends but you need to do it with respect so you don't hurt her feelings. Also, if you feel as if this girl is self-centered then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her.
I hope I helped!!
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