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I'm Cameron and I want to become an advice columist when I get older. I love speaking my mind and giving advice to anyone that needs it.

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E-mail: slenskr1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mauldin
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Age: 15
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Member Since: June 30, 2005
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Last Update: July 9, 2005
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hi like can u name some easy steps to pratcing making out like how do u do it???i rele wanna know!!!

There's not one certain way to "practice" making out. The only thing I can give you advice on is pop a mint in you mouth, take a deep breath, and just go for it. The only way you will ever learn is if you give it a try.

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i have a huge problem...
recently me and my boyfriend broke up. after this... i fell for my best friend. now my ex is telling me that he still likes me and all this stuff... and my best friend likes me too... so i like 2 guys and they both like me!!! i can't choose! i don't want anyone to get hurt... cam please help me! i have no idea what to do = (

Well, just think to yourself,"who do I see me with more?" Just think who you would have a better time going out with! Don't worry bout guyz getting hurt cauz they don't care as much as girls do! Jusr follow your heart!

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Cammi~
ok so i see people all the time wearing babydoll tops and I think it looks so cute! but i tried a few on a hollister the other day and they made me look like a fat pig with huge hips!!! I normally dont mind how i look and I DONT consider myself fat but these shirts were just so unflattering! I know i shouldn't wear them but i think they are absolutley adorable! I feel so left out cause i dont own one but i dont want to look fat! What should i do???
love 12345

You need to be proud of your hips and your pearshaped body. I would suggest to wear a belt around your waist to make the illusion the your waist is tiny and you'll have a curvacious body to go along.

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ok...well this old friend of mine has been talkin to me lately and keeps wantin to get together and hang out and stuff..and like personally i dont want to..i dont know how to say that i just dont want to..like im a lot different than i used to and wed have NOTHING to talk about.. plz help!

Kill the old friend with kindness. Politely tell "old friend" that you don't think it's such a good idea that you talk anymore because you don't think it's a good idea. If you don't tell the truth then you will have to continue the conversations.

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omg! i'm only 14 and a few weeks ago i had sex with my boyfriend! i think i might be pregnant cause my period is two weeks late!!! i can't tell my parents they would kill me! what do i do????

Well first of all you shouldn't of had sex at 14 anyways. What I would do is go get a First Response and take it!! If you are pregnant calmly and rationaly tell your parents but if you are afraid that they would kill you then just like fall or something and you will have a miscarraige!! Use this advice to your advantage!! Cammi

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My mom is so controlling when it comes to my hair. She won't let me cutt it or highlight it. I really want to highlight and layer my hair, but of course she won't let me. Should i keep convincing her to let, or should I just go with my friends and do it?

Well your mom may be really controlling but maybe you can start out just getting your hair cut more often. Then just one day ask her to get your hair highlighted! If she can't settle then ask her if you can get a rinse!! A rinse is where you get your hair dyed but once you get it it wahses out but stays in for about three weeks!! Then maybe you can try again with the highlights later!!
CAMMI

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ok.. ahh im so embarrassed about this! urrr.. ok well i masturbate SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much... i dont even know probably like 20- 25 times a day. i know its not normal but my boyfriend said hes sticking to his religion so he wont do me until were married.. i dont even like him that much.. hes just hott. OK heres my question.. should i just dump him so i can finally get sum real ass? i tired of doing myself it doesnt have the same thrill as it used to.. so tell me what i should do. DUMP and keep fucking myself Orrrrrrrrrrrrrrr MOVE ON and get sum ass....................... I RATE HIGH

Well honey if you are dating him just because he is hott that is badd!!I'd say dump him and find somebody that you are atracted to not by just his looks but his personality!! Just remember to use a condom if you don't wants to get STD's or AIDS!!

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i need to make a dildo cause i am so fricken horny all the time!! what should i make it out of?!

well if you can't make one you can use somthing that is round!! Use like your finger, big magic markers, tampons, tin foil, or even just go buy a vibrator to make yourself happy!! EWWWWWW

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hey, i have this boyfriend but he is two years older than me. we were dirty talkin one day and he told me if i blew him he would eat me out. i don't know what that means!! please tell me so i'm not clueless!!!

Honey!! If you blow him then that means you stick his penis in your mouth and suck!! When he means eat out that means he will go to to your Vagina and lick down there!! Honey if you don't even know what that means then that means you are to young to do it!! Trust me!!But if you do do it then use a condom PLEASE!!

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were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie

Well I would go to a consignment store where they sell used clothes that were really expensive or sold at stores that are cool in the mall! They always knock them down a lot! You could even go to stores like Kohls or Target because they always have sells and there clothes are really cute and in style!!
Cammi

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hey cam. last year i was a really really different person, and i had this one friend who was like my best friend. this year i made a lot of new friends that i really like to be around, and just sort of ditched my old friend. i do feel bad, but i mean i don't really like her anymore. she is loud and obnoxious just to get attention and i really hate how she cusses so much. i have been doin fine without her. but she still tries to be friends and i don't really want to be! how can i tell her that i don't wanna be friends anymore without being mean?

Well the only way to tell her by not being mean is to just let the situation die off!! I mean if you don't want to be friends then just don't hang out with her! If she asks you to do something then just be like"i'm no in the mood" Never lie to her but be nice!! Let me tell you one thing, be nice to everyone even if they aren't your friends because you want to be known as the nicest person!! Trust me!!
Cammi

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ok so i have this friend. last year in school we were really tight. like we had a lot of classes together and we were always hanging out. we even had after skool stuff together! but now things are different. i hardly talk to her n e more. she use to tell me EVERYTHING. i was always the first person she would come to. we were always open with eachother and we told eachother everything. we use to talk online almost everyday too. now we dont really talk. she hardly says n e thing to me when i try to talk to her online. on her profile she use to have me as one of her friends and she use to always say things like "i luv you so much" and "ill luv you forever" and "ur the best" u know, like normal friend stuff. now im no where in her profile. i even just found out that she had this awesum party and invited all our friends except me. this school year that just ended she started hangin out with other people and just kinda leaving me. i no everybody makes new friends and im ok with that. i made alot of new friends too. but i didnt want to lose her in the process. i dont no wut to do about it. i really luv her and she is or at least was like my best friend. wut should i do? i really need your help

Let me ask you one question. Have you invited her to do stuff with you when this started happening? I had a friend that started to drift away from me and she was hanging out with who she thought were really cool people but were just freaks! I asked her to come over and we hadn't done anything just me and her together in a long time!! We had so much fun but she went back to being what nobody wanted her to be! Finally I invited her to do something again but this time I talked to her about it!! Do this and you can even say these exact words,"Name of Person, I'm really worried that we are drifting away from each other and I'm really worried about it! Please just remember that whatever you choose to do I am always there for you and you know you can come to me for help! I love you and I want you and me to become closer again." Just remember that when you are telling her this to be calm and rational!! I am pretty sure that this will help but keep on trying to pull your friend in back towards your way!! Just remember not to be to aggresive though cauz they prbably won't like that!!

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so i use to go out with this guy and really really liked him. now we are broken up and i guess we r still friends. but now im not sure wut i think of him. everybody is sayin to me "you guys made a really cute couple" and "you two should go out again" and stuff like that. and in a way i kinda want to go back out with him. but im not sure if its because i like him or if its because i just want to go out with him just to go out with him. what do you think?

To me it sounds like your friends are controling your life because it sounds like to me that your friends want you to go out with him more than you do yourself!! Follow your heart and you'll know which way to go!!

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I like this guy but 2 other girls like him, and i don't know if i should fight 4 him. He's my really good friend, I don't know if i like him like a boyfriend or just as a friend? The guys i like usually dont like me. Is there something wrong with me?

Well it all depends on what your personality is like. If you are just out there and your personality is a "go get um" kind you should tell the boy that you like him. If you think about it those two girls probably like him but they haven't told him!! Guess usually like the woman to take control so be the first to tell him that you like him. Can't do it in person, then find out his IM address and talk to him about it online or even get a friend of his to tell him!! They love that!! Just flirt with this guy and be yourself.If he doesn't like you then why are ya'll friends in the first place because thats the personality you are around him all the time!! Take this advice and use it well!!!

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I have a friend that constantly calls me just whenever she gets bored. It might even be in the middle of the night. Sometimes I just don't answer the phone sometimes I just say i have to go now. What should i tell her without being to harsh?

Well, this friend sounds quite intersting!! I bet this friend just needs the attention of others becauz she may not get the attention she needs at home!! Talk to her about it and say that you can't talk all the time to her on the phone but you can talk online!! If she calls again in the middle of the night then just answer the phone and when it's her just say,"I really need to get some sleep can I call you back another day!" If none of this advice works then all I could think of to say is get caller-ID for your room so you know when she is calling so if your in the mood to talk to her you can but if you need your space then just tell your mom you do not feel like talking right the and there!! Or even tell her the next time she calls that you are busy and if she can call back another time!! Thanx for readin! Take this advice and use it to your advantages!!
Love,Cammi

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i have a friend who is very self centered... its always "her her her"... she wants everyone to herself and it is SOOOO annoying...

she thinks im like her best friend... but im not!!

what do i do?

Well I used to have a friend like that but then she realized by the way I was acting around her was not the same cause she was not the same person I knew when I met her! My advice to you is just to ignore her and if she starts talking about herself then be like,"Can we talk about me for a change because I am always there for you but I need you now and this is bot the time to worry about you!" If she was a true friend she would understand that you are worried and if she does not agree with you then you need to find someone else .

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Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS

Ok well they can do a french manicure but the white part would like take over the whole nail!! I suggest that you get a fake tips and you can even decide on the legnth that you want!!

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hey i just got a haircut today, and it's kind of short. i like it and all, i'm just afraid that it will go crazy on me because my hair is naturally curly (i straighten it). are there any products out there that will help keep it like it is when i first straighten it the morning?
thanks so much, and i rate high for good answers. =)

Well, be sure to ask your stylist about how to style it like she does and all the products that you need! Usually the stylist specially orders it for you! When I use John Frieda Stylist Stay Straight it helps tame my curly hair and it has hairspray in it to keep it the way when you first styled it!!Take this advice and use it wisely!!

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waht about popping a cherry



and what the hell is masterbateing ..


and how do you no if you bleed when ur cherry pops

please help me !!

Well popping a cherry is just like saying,"I'm not a virgen anymore!!" Or that's what everybody else thinks! You can pop your cherry by just wearing tampons when u have your period and you won't even realize it!! Don't worry it doesn't hurt!! Well, masterbating is just another way of saying you finger yourself which means your finger goes up where your tampon is supposed to go! It is just another way of making yourself happy if you are lonely and don't have anyone!!!

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hi i need to know if pink and black look nice together

Well it looks nice if you wear black and do accents of pink. For example a pink neclace, a pink purse, and pink shoes look awesome! If you dress conservative then then it would look nice but if you are like a goth then you will just look like a freak! Take this advice and use it to your advantage!

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